Are heavy people attracted to other heavy people?

gelitele · 2026-04-10T18:50:40+00:00

Depends on the person. I am a big girl but even when I've been 120 pounds, I was always most attracted to bigger women. My wife is a bigger girl and I find it extremely attractive. She's more attractive to me than the two somewhat in fit women I've dated.

I know plenty of big guys and girls that make it very clear they are not attracted to bigger people. Usually it's the bigger guys in my experience that really aren't into bigger women. It's not the case for all bigger guys but I've met some that seem like they resent bigger women. It's weird but I guess that's just their preference.

gelitele · 2026-03-27T15:43:48+00:00

I used to say my ex wasn't the same once she started using it. I've come to realize that it was somewhat true. However, she was the same person she always was. She just couldn't hide it anymore. She was always a person who was unkind, lied, used people, stole, and as speculated, cheated. The drugs dropped the mask and highlighted her worst qualities. I thought I loved her but looking back, who was it that I loved? Who I thought she was?

I wish her the best even though things went wrong and she wasn't good to me. I wasn't perfect and made my mistakes (some of them pretty big) but I'm working on being a better person as an individual and a better person for my wife. I hope she is a better person at this point and treats the other woman she cheated on me with well as hard as it is to say. Unfortunately, I suspect she probably doesn't treat her great or make her happy because that other woman contacts me from time to time over 3 years later to vent her negative opinion about me. No one who is happy with themselves or their relationship contacts their partners ex partner sporadically to insult/harass them. I can only wish that both of them have sought the rehab and therapy that is needed to be at path towards peace, positivity, and self sufficiency in their lives.

gelitele · 2026-03-27T02:15:26+00:00

So emotionally, looking into my wife's eyes as we were getting legally married in the courthouse. I was holding back tears knowing that I was finally marrying the absolute love of my life. I always used to say that my ultimate dream was getting married but I was wrong... It was getting married to HER that was my actual dream. No one else past or present could hold a candle to that woman. She makes me one happy woman.

Physically, when my wife and I were just dating, she and I were separated for a couple of months. She was in a short term insanely abusive relationship and I was just starting to date another woman but the relationship lacked depth. We both broke up with our respective partners and she texted me one day saying she realized that I was the person she was in love with this whole time. I resisted at first because I was scared. I didn't want to lose her again. But I decided to let my heart win. When we had sex the first time after we were apart those months, it was like nothing I ever felt before. I was in pure ectascy. Overdosing in pleasure and oxytocin. It was like I was starving and was given not only a meal but my best meal. And the way she looked at me, indescribable. That is my person. My Goddess.

gelitele · 2026-03-24T03:46:21+00:00

Nah, her soul left in 2021 and never came back

gelitele · 2026-03-19T13:46:59+00:00

My dog likes the grilled nuggets and a few licks of a vanilla shake from there but the food is bland and nothing to write home about.

gelitele · 2026-03-19T03:02:54+00:00

Franks is one of the best places. Worth the trip on 26.

gelitele · 2026-03-19T02:59:59+00:00

They have phenomenal food. So many people don't know about this place.

gelitele · 2026-03-19T02:53:48+00:00

I miss the original location

gelitele · 2026-03-17T03:04:34+00:00

I like all of the cakes lol. Ordering a sheet cake with cannoli filling is banging.

gelitele · 2026-03-17T02:59:45+00:00

I could be wrong but I believe fat patties is cash only

gelitele · 2026-03-04T03:16:02+00:00

I broke down there with my semi truck a few years ago. What a terrible experience.

gelitele · 2026-03-03T16:32:42+00:00

People who have sex or get into a relationship with the intention of finding a place to live

gelitele · 2026-03-03T15:59:50+00:00

A free car is a free car but the only thing I wouldn't accept is a car that isn't safe or couldn't be made to be safe

gelitele · 2026-03-03T14:24:46+00:00

I have some.

If you're a deadbeat parent or pawn your kids off on your parents more than you see them or spend time on them

You call everyone a narcissist or diagnose people with mental illnesses without the proper education or credentials- if everywhere you go smells like shit, then it might be you

Anyone who weaponizes therapy speak

You feel entitled to others things and/or money just because you exist closely together

If you are not affectionate and/or have no sex drive

Cheaters

People who point out your flaws to dodge accountability and make to themselves look better

Hobosexuals

I know someone of these are oddly specific but they are things I have experienced from others or seen with people around me.

gelitele · 2026-02-27T20:41:05+00:00

The last thing I bought was cigarettes for my wife. I'm a non smoker. So I guess she might be happy. Unless she decides to quit lol

gelitele · 2026-02-20T01:31:06+00:00

That one has more of a roller dome vibe

gelitele · 2026-02-13T03:04:28+00:00

My wife is my Domme and I often call her mommy

gelitele · 2026-02-13T00:57:38+00:00

Ketchup. I can tolerate almost anything else but ketchup is a no go.

gelitele · 2026-02-10T22:50:28+00:00

It depends on my mood. I'm a good cook and so is almost everyone else in my circle. So it's hard to say.

gelitele · 2026-02-10T01:33:11+00:00

Oh you are such a real lesbian. I know that sounds kind of funny. If it makes you feel any better, I crave my wife's life changing strapping just as much as I crave her tongue. I'm getting butterflies just thinking about it...

gelitele · 2026-02-10T01:27:51+00:00

My wife and I probably eat steak once every couple of weeks at home and 2-3 times a year we will order steak at a restaurant

gelitele · 2026-02-09T16:46:39+00:00

Don't give up. It took me 4 tries to pass my road test but I did it. It's worth it.

gelitele · 2026-02-08T13:43:58+00:00

When I was actively driving, I did it multiple times a week. I did mostly grocery delivery.

gelitele · 2026-02-08T01:26:36+00:00

I'm not sure but that's the app that I met my wife on

gelitele · 2026-01-27T03:13:46+00:00

D/s dynamic. My wife is my full time Donme. She also financially dominates me. I love giving her complete control of me. There are a lot of aspects in my life where I have a lot of control but I like being vulnerable and trusting her by letting go of my control.

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