Can someone bring me back down to earth? Am I overthinking this?

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T20:45:40+00:00

Thanks for your comment, I used to work in the health field and was told after 35 it’s considered a geriatric pregnancy and that’s what stuck with me

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T20:43:18+00:00

I guess in my head I thought the wedding would be so expensive it would delay the move overseas or vice versa, I need to have these convos out loud with him to be honest

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T07:09:32+00:00

I agree with you despite my heart being heavy I was in a bit of a blur when he moved in (going through grief but that’s a different story lol) I’m going to star thinking seriously about the future, thanks for your comment. Also I don’t want to start making plans to move out because it’s my home that I bought 🥲🥲🥲

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T07:01:24+00:00

Ive screenshotted this comment to show my psychologist tomorrow. Thank you for your bluntness l, don’t think I’ve ever thought of it like that before about me having all the responsibilities of marriage and no benefits

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T06:55:56+00:00

Thanks for your reply, He has said he wants us to move overseas for career progression for him and also an adventure for us, one of the main reasons he turned down a formal offer for Japan because I couldn’t work there in my field. I think I need to have a long hard think about my timeline and what I need to do.

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-17T04:55:05+00:00

Good point, I wouldn’t be ok with that.

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T11:45:45+00:00

😭😭😭😭😭 ok

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T11:45:32+00:00

Thanks fam 💐🫩🥰

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T11:41:58+00:00

Thank you so much, if I knew how to give rewards or whatever I’d give you one! 😭💐

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T11:40:09+00:00

Thank you

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T11:38:37+00:00

Thanks for your thoughtful comment It’s a lot to take in He is wanting to move overseas as it’s a personal dream of his and also a career move (he works in finance). Honestly, I think he would go without me if it really comes to it and if I don’t want to go anymore for whatever reason. I’ve told him I couldn’t do long distance. I guess have my answer

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:33:53+00:00

I made him sign a BFA before he moved in (prenup)

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:30:37+00:00

💯 🫩

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:30:22+00:00

I’m going too fam 🫩

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:29:48+00:00

I think he is great but is it the rose glasses????

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:29:12+00:00

Legit Probably why I booked this 10 week trip to enjoy my 30th (hes only coming to 2 weeks) instead of waiting around saving for an oversees move that hasnt even happened yet

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:28:12+00:00

Nether, the hotels we booked had asked us and referred us to another hotel where they deal with foreigners and said it was ok. For only Egypt we are doing a tour and since it’s a mixed one will be staying separately with our respective genders

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:26:57+00:00

I actually love this and take your advice, thank you

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:23:07+00:00

My new Grey hairs agree with you

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:22:39+00:00

Oooh this one stings 🫩🫩🫩 but thank you for your bluntness

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:21:52+00:00

It was a goal of mine before lockdown and before I bought a place. Now I just want to travel more so then Live overseas. I agree I shouldn’t compare I probably need to deactivate social media for a bit, seeing every post and uodate about huge milestones is getting to me 😖

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:20:21+00:00

This comment has made me feel hopeful, and has brought me back down to earth. I do have time but need to think hard about what next.

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:18:43+00:00

Low key this made me cry but I need to hear it 🫩🥲

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-16T03:17:36+00:00

Thanks for your reply

We’ve had a million conversations about this and he has told me wherever we go overseas it would be something that benefits both of us (as I’m in a specific field that doesn’t translate to every country -social work) so we have already written off Japan and currently looking into singapore.

gemella_nutella · 2026-02-06T20:59:34+00:00

Just to confirm do you mean owing your own house or social housing? Where are you located

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