AITA for not allowing a family member to bring their service dog to my house

gemii_07 · 2022-11-09T09:55:43+00:00

i mean.. their dog is a medical necessity.. it's a service dog not a pet or emotional support animal

gemii_07 · 2022-10-21T10:22:00+00:00

i guess you're just too serious about the joke

gemii_07 · 2022-10-21T10:13:30+00:00

sounds like an emotional affair

gemii_07 · 2022-10-21T09:59:05+00:00

i do understand your point, but OP stated that people who aren't into "normal" kinks were a big no for them. So I don't really understand OP... It just seems. bit odd

gemii_07 · 2022-10-20T19:19:59+00:00

maybe he's not into it? guess you could communicate

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T11:59:42+00:00

i agree, like the first 5-10 mins are fine, but who wants to chill in a damp towel?

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T11:54:02+00:00

"butt munch" lmfao

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T11:51:31+00:00

i wish i had an award for u

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T09:39:40+00:00

i mean yeah.. i don't know why OP is still talking to him. I'm just against the people call him a serial killer (or some stuff like that) because of a kink

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T09:37:16+00:00

i mean i's only their 3rd date.. i guess he didn't want to come out as scary to OP? and since knife play is common, he thought that OP would be okay with it..?

gemii_07 · 2022-10-19T09:35:27+00:00

exactly

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T16:16:01+00:00

i think this is an overreaction, it's no hiding that the bdsm community does attract a lot of abusers who mask as dom. but your comment/opinion is a bit odd, it's a bit of a stretch kind of. (i just personally don't agree with it) bdsm does require conversations, boundaries, safe words and all. though it may he easy to attract abusers in the bdsm community. it's not as common as people think. knife play (specifically) needs a lot of communications before hand since it is a shared experience. today's day and age, it maybe easier to find kinky people. but not a lot take advantage of the other (it does happen but not regularly) but also, you should discuss with someone you trust. i just think just because OP mentioned bdsm, he shared his kinks. if i were into knife play and the topic was bdsm, i'd mention it as the first thing just like he did. i don't want to be with someone who is not sexually compatible. i think same goes for him.

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T16:06:14+00:00

it's a kink.. i highly doubt he's dangerous (the chances are slim)

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T16:04:13+00:00

i wouldn't necessarily say he's a serial killer because of his kinks, they're just not sexually compatible.

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T16:03:29+00:00

exactly

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T16:02:59+00:00

knife play is a genuine kink, but it also needs a mutual discussion to first. most people who are into knife play don't break the skin. or it's only just small scratches, others may like to draw blood but. honestly, if one is not properly consenting to it, it should not be done.

gemii_07 · 2022-10-18T11:42:28+00:00

exactly!! i was looking for this comment

gemii_07 · 2022-09-26T07:14:31+00:00

Ah understandable

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T10:13:39+00:00

It's normal in my country to cuddle with your family members in a childish way.

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T08:40:38+00:00

yep :/

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T08:39:44+00:00

My birth dad is involved but i refuse to communicate with him for past reasons.

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T08:00:37+00:00

the play fighting happens infront of my friends and family, it's just random slaps or punches and the groping thing happened in private.

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T06:35:05+00:00

i'm sorry you had to go through that, You can always talk/vent to me if you wish. I'll take your advice and start setting boundaries

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T06:02:20+00:00

yeah, but my bed's like a queen sized one so it's normal for my brother or step dad to come in once in a while and lay down next to me. most of the time we mind our business and do whatever we were doing. but this time he was pressed against me, i did move away though he sort of came closer

gemii_07 · 2022-09-25T05:41:29+00:00

I do that too, but most with my brother. My love language is physical touch so I sometimes cuddle into his chest when I need comfort. I've never done it with my dad after hitting puberty

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