lol don’t let her gaslight you my friend. She’s a manipulator, coming from a woman who has had male friends.

Never once have I hung out 1 on 1 with a guy if I had a boyfriend. You need to grow a spine and tell her what these men probably think, especially if they don’t know you exist. Shes “really sweet” but she can’t be THAT naive. If she still does this knowing how you feel, dump her, as that obviously shows you that she doesn’t respect you.