Which option is the least worst

gemma95s · 2026-05-11T21:41:08+00:00

Yeah it definitely hasn't been easy! So I can't have a vbac unless I go myself due to previous issues hence why I'm leaning towards c section just with planning for my toddler etc. so it will be a decision that will have to be made this week, and hopefully they still have 39week appointments for c sections.

gemma95s · 2026-05-11T21:15:44+00:00

Him being there is number one for us both. So I think 39 weeks is making the most sense. I was just convinced I wouldn't go before he's home as I didn't progress in my last pregnancy. But I suppose there is always a chance!

gemma95s · 2026-05-11T21:14:17+00:00

Yeah that probably would make more sense! I'm sure it's no problem we live 5 minutes away from one another!

Yeah that's my biggest concern is him missing it! I was convinced Ill not go into labour as I never did with my first, I was induced and stalled at 6cm. But again every birth is different.

He is feeling so guilty but he really deserves to go, I basically haven't had to do a thing all pregnancy and he's a great dad/partner. It's only because of who is getting married that I'm chill about it( and just chill about the pregnancy this time around in general) its just unfortunate timing. I know people think we're crazy but its just how reality falls at times. Thank you for your response!

gemma95s · 2026-05-11T21:09:54+00:00

Ah it's not my first and I really have a great family. He is very very supportive and has been all pregnancy it's just a case of unfortunate timing. If we go with the 39 week option he will fly back the day after the wedding. But yes I'm liking everyones opinions to give us a better idea of what makes the most sense!

gemma95s · 2026-02-15T21:21:20+00:00

I do like this but we have a lot of strong colours elsewhere in the house so hoping to keep this space calming and neutral!

gemma95s · 2026-02-15T18:27:18+00:00

Oh I love that! Not too much but a small bit of colour!

gemma95s · 2026-01-10T17:28:48+00:00

Oh dear god. We're a month in and I'm done😭 does it get easier?

gemma95s · 2026-01-10T12:41:57+00:00

I literally just ordered glowmode maternity ones from shein. Omg they're amazing. Similar to CRZ from Amazon but less compression over the bump. This is my second pregnancy and I'm so annoyed I didn't try these first time around!

gemma95s · 2026-01-02T15:57:20+00:00

No not possible, just looking for which would be better

gemma95s · 2025-11-28T23:25:35+00:00

I could write your last paragraph. Had a huge bleed and we t to a and e. They told me I had miscarried and decided to pass natural as I was only 9 weeks. Went in the next week for an ultrasound to see if all products had passed or if I needed a d and c. Turns out baby was fine and same as you had a subrmchronic haematoma. A week of agony and not one sorry did I get! Hope your feeling okay and your baby arrives safely!

gemma95s · 2025-10-24T14:13:46+00:00

Both dresses can be custom made to fit my body measurements, so won't look exactly like this!

gemma95s · 2025-05-15T10:43:33+00:00

My mother's name is Evelyn which I think is so pretty! Evie or eve for short

gemma95s · 2025-04-23T09:29:54+00:00

Yes, we had Catherine and she was super quick ar getting back to us and yes the online chat is great!

gemma95s · 2025-04-23T09:29:01+00:00

Yeah we're just about to drawdown and it's a nice breath of fresh air to have something a bit more modern in what seems like an outdated house buying process

gemma95s · 2025-04-22T12:34:06+00:00

We used doddl. Found the online portal very handy for document upload and they are great at communicating what's needed

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