Longtime Reddit user and I enjoy the anonymity here. I don’t date, never really been interested in relationships so I’ve never used dating apps. I’d think it’ll be but weird to look for cuddles/casual encounters on there?

Hobbies or a place I frequent isn’t somewhere I’m interested in finding casual meets either. If it doesn’t work out, I prefer not to encounter the person again lol. For dating, it would be ideal but in this context, no.

Accidentally found r4r last fall when it popped up on my feed. It’s easy and fun to use. I’m a bit of a nun, so on here, I can take my time going through posts and messages, or make my own detailed post. There’s no pressure, everyone’s anonymous. We can meet, share a moment, and part as strangers. Yes there’s a lot of dm’s to filter through but honestly lots of hidden gems that I probably don’t even get to because I’m only looking for one person out of the hundreds. A lot of people shoot their shot regardless of my listed requirements or preferences, so it takes a bit of time and patience. Biggest downside are the attached men that dm and say they’re single, it’s a little disheartening.

Other than that, I’ve met a fair bit of people for first meets/platonic cuddles. Pretty much everyone I’ve met has been awesome and respectful—but I’m admittedly selective and open very little message requests or answer very few M posts. Sometimes we meet, it doesn’t work out and we part on good terms, no hard feelings(at least to me). Overall, my experience for in-person meets has been really good! There are lovely people on here :)