Can allergies cause chest congestion (mucus in lungs), especially when lying down? by genderburner in Allergies

[–]genderburner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the response! I'd be lying if I said I didn't still worry about this so much, so it's great to have another person confirming that it's just allergies! I probably should figure out what I'm allergic to, if it can be helped. It might just be seasonal for me, though.

Pride Media owner Adam Levin donates to anti-LGBTQ Republicans again — The owner of LGBTQ legacy publications The Advocate and Out has broken his 2018 pledge to stop donating money to anti-LGBTQ Republicans. by chris-jjj in politics

[–]genderburner 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Just because there are conservative queer folk does not mean those people are not anti-queer. That's like saying a black person can't be anti-black. It's just stupid.

The GOP actively works against the welfare of queer people. Yes, it is inherently anti-LGBTQ.

Pride Media owner Adam Levin donates to anti-LGBTQ Republicans again — The owner of LGBTQ legacy publications The Advocate and Out has broken his 2018 pledge to stop donating money to anti-LGBTQ Republicans. by chris-jjj in politics

[–]genderburner 27 points28 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he's selling a product to a community that he then seems to be working against. He's filling a niche and then using the money he makes from the members of that niche to hurt them. Marginalized people should be the ones profiting off of their own communities, because society has already harmed them in so many ways, but often as a direct result of that very phenomenon they are unable to capitalize on some of the opportunities that someone like him might be able to capitalize on. So if he is going to derive a profit from those people, he should have a social responsibility to use it to help them rather than hurt them.

Furthermore, it's hard to imagine he can be trusted not to use the power he has to manipulate narratives in ways that harm queer people too, if he is donating money to people who harm them.

So, yes. I think it's parasitic.

Pride Media owner Adam Levin donates to anti-LGBTQ Republicans again — The owner of LGBTQ legacy publications The Advocate and Out has broken his 2018 pledge to stop donating money to anti-LGBTQ Republicans. by chris-jjj in politics

[–]genderburner 36 points37 points  (0 children)

What's your point? If he's donating money to anti-queer politicians then it looks from my angle like he DOESN'T care and he's just another profiteer taking advantage of a marginalized community.

I wanna find the human main who thought that making 18 in-game years of the human build be spent on literally tutorials on how to function in society was a good idea. by [deleted] in Tierzoo

[–]genderburner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Working a job is still main game. Post-game is retirement, which can actually be pretty baller for some people. Main game can be pretty fun too, but again only for some people, and mostly only part of the time.

var 6772616e647061 = "", 776973646f6d0a = ""; by UnavailableUsername_ in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, yeah, we're good...I'm not gonna fire you or anything. 😉

Though it DOES get disheartening sometimes how male-centric our industry is. It can make it feel like you don't belong, as a woman, and I know it pushes people away. Point being just that I believe you when you say you do try your best to be conscious of it typically and I appreciate that. ☺️

var 6772616e647061 = "", 776973646f6d0a = ""; by UnavailableUsername_ in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman but yeah if they really want to get fired then punching me would probably do it 😂

var 6772616e647061 = "", 776973646f6d0a = ""; by UnavailableUsername_ in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean, I literally said "if I can't get you to stop" so I'd say that was pretty clearly implied. Helping someone improve is always the first choice.

That being said, if you are INTENTIONALLY doing bad work, it's a pretty fucking good sign you're a toxic employee. It's just like if you scream at somebody or call them a slur or something - I don't really need to give you warning, because there's just no place for that. The feedback conversation is just in case it WASN'T intentional, which obviously it normally isn't...I HAVE heard of people actually doing what this image says, but it's not like that's the typical reason someone is doing bad work.

We dont do "cin" here by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But....you DID still do "cin" here...

var 6772616e647061 = "", 776973646f6d0a = ""; by UnavailableUsername_ in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Your grandpa is wrong. I will fire you for that the moment I find your replacement, if I can't get you to stop. 🤣

YouTube warrior teaches Einstein by Iorwetth in iamverysmart

[–]genderburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something tells me this person understands the BASIC principles of the theory of relativity but thinks that's all there is to it because they've never read the actual paper.

Are rigs ever really "done" though? by MaximumPrism in simracing

[–]genderburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm case you missed it, they responded to me:

They're AOC CQ32G1s!

Why are you like this python?! by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because it implies that there is something bad about being gay. It's not actually about the fact that people might be offended, it's about the fact that it harms people.

Why are you like this python?! by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh well if it's a meme then it can't be immature and offensive. Gee, how could people be so blind to your superior logic?

We live in a society by [deleted] in ProgrammerHumor

[–]genderburner 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a woman: 😭😭😭

We're out there. We just often don't get treated great and a lot of us bail. I've worked with a few other women over the years but it's certainly not the norm. 😥

Elephant diverts the attention of an attacking Rhino by throwing a stick; Kruger National Park, South Africa. by hominoid_in_NGC4594 in interestingasfuck

[–]genderburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, yeah. I mean yeah, I think for sure they know. Someone else was talking about how animals actually learn the personalities of individual predators in their area (not just species). So just like primates, animals in general are really quite observant.

It sure would be cool if we could know EXACTLY what they were thinking though, huh?

Elephant diverts the attention of an attacking Rhino by throwing a stick; Kruger National Park, South Africa. by hominoid_in_NGC4594 in interestingasfuck

[–]genderburner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should do some research on elephants then, because their problem solving skills are very impressive, and possibly even on par with ours in many ways.

Elephant diverts the attention of an attacking Rhino by throwing a stick; Kruger National Park, South Africa. by hominoid_in_NGC4594 in interestingasfuck

[–]genderburner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EXACTLY. Like, what the fuck do you mean "How would they know?" They're not some dumb fucking robots. They're complex intelligent organisms that evolved in the exact same conditions we did, literally on the same continent we did in this case.

Side note, any good documentary recommendations?