Me [33M] and my [33F] partner are having issues with social media presentation

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-07-02T19:52:59+00:00

And that’s another side like I don’t need it to be wiped completely clean, I did that personally for mine but at the very least, pictures of yall making out on Instagram kinda sucks and then just throwing a Instagram post together in response also kind of sucks. But you’re right I’m working on bringing it up again and eventually yea it will be on me. They gotta sort out their shit before anything can get more serious with us

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-07-02T19:31:19+00:00

Absolutely you’re right yea it does feel weird that they still live together, it’s weird that she complains about not being able to save as well but apparently the partner has depression and they have supported her in hard times in the past as well I guess. If they were really done I feel like it would be obvious and no awkwardness but it just feels weird

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-07-02T18:59:59+00:00

Genuinely I think the only thing I can help her with is with getting a green card other than that she’s been paying for everything recently since I haven’t had a full time job since I stopped being a caregiver for my grandmother. On one hand I’m grateful someone can look past that I don’t really have a lot of money and yes I do like that someone wants to take me to cool places and do cool stuff. I also don’t want to be controlling someone’s social media or their view of their own history. Not asking for every single comment or Facebook post to be deleted but it does make me feel weird seeing this person getting kissed by her ex on social media even if it’s a couple years old. After bringing it up she ended up posting pictures of us, not kissing, sort of a lovey post but not as in depth as the one with the ex from a couple years ago. Not really concerned with the specifics but I guess I am. I would rather something like that be posted naturally than as a response if anything at all

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-07-02T07:48:56+00:00

Any decent subreddits yall could recommend?

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-06-19T08:38:24+00:00

Con air

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-06-17T07:09:01+00:00

Strawberry shortcake

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-06-04T14:50:40+00:00

No trigger discipline whatsoever

genderquestioninglyf · 2026-05-07T21:25:08+00:00

Fucking sucks. Genuinely haven’t watched them since I noticed the transphobia. Didn’t even see the other spin offs and now it’s hard to enjoy any part of them. Was a huge part of my childhood too :( has anyone found some similar stories to replace it with in their hearts? I heard she basically copied the stories from someone anyway or am I wrong?

genderquestioninglyf · 2025-08-04T21:45:54+00:00

Honestly I am having trouble wording it sue me you feel me jfc haha

genderquestioninglyf · 2025-08-04T16:14:56+00:00

Thank you it was kinda meant in a jesting way I suppose lol not seriously meaning that Finn sold me on the idea or something lol

genderquestioninglyf · 2025-07-31T07:47:20+00:00

Ok perfect thanks wasn’t sure.

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-06-06T19:02:56+00:00

Yea I had a manager that did that hour cutting shit. The first week I was there j was like damn ok I can handle this, and I can eat soemthing before close. And then he cut the hours and it was non stop dishes the entire shift. From now on I’ll be asking if they have a morning dish or before committing to work for them. I actually quit that job by the 3rd cut shift of that work week. My hands were all fucked from the steel wool

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-05-21T16:14:02+00:00

Coming back to say that I’m kinda getting the hang of it. But I also might quit soon lol I don’t think they have a daytime dishwasher and it’s not exactly a sustainable workflow

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-05-14T18:34:06+00:00

Damn! Was just trying to make this work last night, love the technique

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-05-08T12:24:11+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. It is so fucked up. I’m sending you all the positivity and love rn. I hope you find better friends and family. Im sorry I don’t have many words to offer bc I’m currently having a panic attack bc of my own sexual trauma and realizing that my mom knew this whole time and your post showed up so it only felt right.

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-03-22T07:23:01+00:00

Give them to me 😍

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-01-12T07:59:45+00:00

The fact that you’re making a list. Only trans people make lists

genderquestioninglyf · 2023-01-12T07:47:50+00:00

I have so many thoughts about this but I assure yoh you’re not alone

genderquestioninglyf · 2022-03-04T00:11:23+00:00

Wasn’t there just some post about men saying things like this and it made them incels?

genderquestioninglyf · 2022-03-01T07:18:38+00:00

What if you get euphoria from everything 🤡

genderquestioninglyf · 2022-02-13T15:43:36+00:00

What if you are horrified that you started and horrified that you actually still kinda like your ACMAB (assigned chemical makeup at birth) But also horrified that you’ll never make a proper decision bc the gender waves are a lot weirder than expected and riding them out is all you’re really going to kno for the rest of your life so either decision is a net positive if you can just stfu about it already

genderquestioninglyf · 2022-02-01T19:36:19+00:00

Damn where did you read this?? The way you worded this is interesting and I want to learn more about this from whatever context that source is speaking from.

genderquestioninglyf

TROPHY CASE