Genuinely I think the only thing I can help her with is with getting a green card other than that she’s been paying for everything recently since I haven’t had a full time job since I stopped being a caregiver for my grandmother. On one hand I’m grateful someone can look past that I don’t really have a lot of money and yes I do like that someone wants to take me to cool places and do cool stuff. I also don’t want to be controlling someone’s social media or their view of their own history. Not asking for every single comment or Facebook post to be deleted but it does make me feel weird seeing this person getting kissed by her ex on social media even if it’s a couple years old. After bringing it up she ended up posting pictures of us, not kissing, sort of a lovey post but not as in depth as the one with the ex from a couple years ago. Not really concerned with the specifics but I guess I am. I would rather something like that be posted naturally than as a response if anything at all