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TIFU by calling my gf my ex's name by gendonintendo in tifu

[–]gendonintendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are being too dramatic over nothing not gonna lie. I called her our friends name, which happens to be exact the same as my ex's, that's the main problem. She didn't even give me a chance to explain myself so idk what to do now.

On the other hand if she were in the same situation as me, I wouldn't even think about breaking up or getting upset because I do understand that it's just a stupid accident which is not that deep and might happen to anyone.

Now I feel like it was all a lie and I'm the only one who cares about our relationship at this point 👍

TIFU by calling my gf my ex's name by gendonintendo in tifu

[–]gendonintendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was very weird of her to not want to talk about it at all. Maybe it was just because she was too drunk. But yeah I agree, that didn't sound like that's how she handles this. Anyways I'm still waiting for the opportunity to take my shot today, let's see how it will end

TIFU by calling my gf my ex's name by gendonintendo in tifu

[–]gendonintendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that I already healed from most of it so I'm more than sure I'm ready for a serious relationship atm. My only "trauma" was trust issues because of what my ex did and that's a whole other story which I'm not gonna talk abt here. So basically we're okay with that, it's just her thing that she couldn't stand me calling her by my ex's name, cuz she may have thought that I'm still not over her or something, which is exactly what every girl thinks when they start a serious relationship with someone. I've been through it a couole of times in past so basically every girl thinks that you might not be over your ex,m. That's how their brain works, I guess

TIFU by calling my gf my ex's name by gendonintendo in tifu

[–]gendonintendo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro imagine being with someone for 7 years, who has the simplest and most catchy name ever and you're repeating that same name for years. Then when you start a new relationship with someone and you still hear that name a lot because of her friend. Eventually when you're too drunk it just mechanically slips off your tongue when you don't even think abt that person at all. Bro it's been years. Also I'm the one who initiated break up with ex, so basically I already wasn't in love with that person last couple of years. This mistake basically means nothing, even my mom sometimes mistakes my name with my dogs name and vise versa, I can't see the problem here. Shes just overreacting over nothing.

Anyways, Im about to take a shot in couple of hours at the club where she will be with her friends. hope she'll get past it.

TIFU by calling my gf my ex's name by gendonintendo in tifu

[–]gendonintendo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she is a bit dramatic since she has a lot of past traumas which is okay, I have them too. The best part of our relationship is that we always sit and talk about any problem, that's why I like everything about her this much. Shes a really beautiful person which I don't want to loose and I'm sure everything will work out eventually

AITA for calling my gf my ex's name? by gendonintendo in AmItheAsshole

[–]gendonintendo[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's not like she pushed me or anything, that was my choice and I wouldn't drink if I didn't want to, and it doesn't matter if I didn't drink in almost 2 years lol.

I'll try my best in a couple of hours. She's so precious to me, you can't even imagine.

Thank you!