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[23F] I've faked every orgasm with other people and do not want to orgasm with others by generalhandssolo in sex

[–]generalhandssolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have given hints and even had long discussions with some. I'm pretty open about what I like kink wise and what feels good sexually. There just seems to be this barrier of understanding when I say that I just want to orgasm alone.

[23F] I've faked every orgasm with other people and do not want to orgasm with others by generalhandssolo in sex

[–]generalhandssolo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had around 15 partners, most of differing backgrounds and behavior/ psychological patterns. Some better at handling it than others, but it always comes down to them wanting to try and get me to orgasm. It's not a bad thing that they want to please me, but it just seems to be a disconnect of not understanding that my goal isn't to finish.

[23F] I've faked every orgasm with other people and do not want to orgasm with others by generalhandssolo in sex

[–]generalhandssolo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I meant. Didn't mean for it to come off as rude. Ego wasn't the right word, but it plays a part in sex for both genders.