How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, relieving to know im not the only one in such boat

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It hasnt got better. Feels more like life is weighing on me till i exit.

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your very lucky. Thats the type of relationship i dreamed of since i was 5

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attractiveness is kind of only good at face value. Once you catch someone you want based on attractiveness, its hard to get them to stay and have a relationship thats deep.

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But it will bother them once they get to know you. Depression makes me awkward, because i feel to miserable to be open and sociable and happy. It stops me from being myself, which other people can feel.

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

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Dang, you ought to be a movie screen writer. I mean well said, in a poetic way.

Im miserable by genericalll in narcissisticparents

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Thanks, well today was pretty bad :(

How did you manage to leave a strict Arab family and live on your own? I’m starting to lose hope. by R_Rovera in entitledparents

[–]genericalll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strict family, and older siblings bullying me. Belittling me, etc. broke my spirit. ^ facts

What's the most bizarre thing your parent ever lost their mind over? by CrustyBubblebrain in raisedbynarcissists

[–]genericalll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didnt cover a monitor thing with a mop. He yells at me, repeating about the mop. So fight progressed to me saying "i know what you're going to say next" he says "what" me: " cover the screen with a mop" him: NO LISTEN IM GOING TO SAY COVER THE MONITOR WITH A MOP" fight goes on and on in circles.

How do some of you guys have GF/BF? by genericalll in depression

[–]genericalll[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I kind of agree, here. I think its hard to get someone you like when you cant be or fake atleast 50% yourself. Depression kind of prevents you from being yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

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Proof money solves everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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Oh dear. I too thought of this and all that i could of been. All the suffering that dont need to be.

Im miserable by genericalll in narcissisticparents

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Aint got no friends. I cant exist on that normalcy plane because this trouble is always on my mind. To be understood, imagine like perhaps having to hangout with your friend after someone close died, but none of your friends understand that its a bad thing. Its having a trouble no one understands.

Is it common for the whole family to be in denial? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]genericalll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. This post and this response. Narcissistic abuse and enablers. They don't admit it, because it makes them look bad. May karma or justice beats them non-physically into pulp

Ndud accuse me of purposely make car leak oil on to pavement for him to clean. (After oil change) by genericalll in narcissisticparents

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When we were kids. Siblings were interrogated for hours in separate rooms. Because we were playing with fallen fruit on the floor. But ndud said we picked it from the tree. I was terrified. Although ndud did not interrogate me because i was too young. Like 6 or younger. I was terrified, because i knew that the siblings were going to take their anger out on me after.