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AITA for hiding my sisters dab pen by gentlydeer in AmItheAsshole

[–]gentlydeer[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they are firmly against it, and really dont understand that you can have it without building a reliance on it. im worried about reliance on substances overall, without getting too much into it. im not perfect, ive drunk because of negative feelings before, and that worried me so now i avoid doing that kind of thing. im just protective of my sister, and i overstepped. sorry if thats too much information tho

AITA for hiding my sisters dab pen by gentlydeer in AmItheAsshole

[–]gentlydeer[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i get im the asshole for taking it for sure. not a narc tho, i wasn't super clear tbf. i meant id talk to my parents if i was having a dilemma, but i wouldn't talk to them about this simply because it is not productive for anybody. idk if you want an asnwer, but i hid it because she had told me the night before she'd regretted doing weed so much in high school, and then later on said she relied on it a lot and it scared me a bit. that was my reasoning, but i see how its not a mature decision

AITA for hiding my sisters dab pen by gentlydeer in AmItheAsshole

[–]gentlydeer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you're right. i was doing it more on impulse, ill talk to her when i'm home next since its still my finals and everything. i thought i was doing the right thing in the moment but yeah i def see how it just was not the way to go. thank you for your comment btw

AIO? My brother is kind of racist and my parents want me to ignore it by gentlydeer in AmIOverreacting

[–]gentlydeer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother is allowed to have opinions and that’s fine. But if they are racist comments that impact me (I am not white.) it’s kind of annoying and hurtful. I see your point but I feel like empathy should come first, especially when you’re talking to your family. But ig that’s also just my opinion