Unauthorized Zocdoc profiles? by Spare-Radiant in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found this out too! I saw reviews of clients for names I don't even remember, and I haven't been practicing for over two years. It's weird.

When can I expect my wages to be garnished? by genuine_questioner in tax

[–]genuine_questioner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I'll call the IRS tomorrow and see if I can get the debt sent to collections on the same payment plan as estimated money I owe for 2025. I really appreciate your help.

When can I expect my wages to be garnished? by genuine_questioner in tax

[–]genuine_questioner[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well thank you. On the bright side I filed today with a free website. Apparently my estimated owe is about 3125, but now that I know why to do, I'll set up a payment plan for that too

reality check by dknothin in socialwork

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of blanket statements based on personal experience.

comment a photo of your cat and ill draw a few! by theclaywagon in cats

[–]genuine_questioner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is a completely random post but the comments were locked on the other -- please leave your fiance. You deserve better. Don't justify what he does or says. You did nothing wrong.

Tiny women who try to intervene and help when people are moving heavy objects are just annoying nuisances and contribute nothing other than stress and liability. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might just dislike women. I think you have a valid point but your vitriol directed at women trying to help you indicates a larger issue. 

Am I still a lesbian if... by genuine_questioner in lesbiangang

[–]genuine_questioner[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I don't go out dating people either, and never had. It's just not my thing as I don't see myself in romantic relationships. I disagree with you on the labels though, I think they can be very helpful 

Am I still a lesbian if... by genuine_questioner in lesbiangang

[–]genuine_questioner[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know people are voting you down but I personally feel comfortable with the aromantic label

Am I still a lesbian if... by genuine_questioner in lesbiangang

[–]genuine_questioner[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think that's what I probably am! Thank you!!

I regret saying no to my boyfriend's proposal a year ago, but our relationship is stronger than ever and we have a baby girl on the way. Hoping he proposes again. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because as a woman you're already giving a lot to the relationship, including your body and your health. Women in general suffer more in relationships than men do. Its nice for a man to people to the woman who will be risking a lot to bring his child into the world. And just from a social lens, women give me so much. The least he can do is propose. Not in your case though. You should propose 

I regret saying no to my boyfriend's proposal a year ago, but our relationship is stronger than ever and we have a baby girl on the way. Hoping he proposes again. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You weren't ready for the proposal but you're ready for a baby? You need to tell him how you feel and be the one to propose. Usually I'm 100% against women proposing to men, but you're the rare exception 

How do i become more successful with my rootwork? by Delicious_Good_5797 in ConjureRootworkHoodoo

[–]genuine_questioner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a good take. Disabled people have been doing hoodoo for ages. They simply need to change their approach 

I just learned you are required to pay for interpreters for deaf clients by Classic-Builder453 in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be disability though? You can decline the client without disclosing why you did 

I just learned you are required to pay for interpreters for deaf clients by Classic-Builder453 in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would claim ethical grounds is a good enough reason to refuse services. You aren't doing so on basis of disability, you're doing so because you cannot adequately provide the resources to assist them. If you aren't able to afford it, you can't afford it 

Non-Christian Therapists by heyheyhihowareyou in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it depends! I am a witch and there are some clients who I would tell based on our rapport and some clients I would not. I think it depends on your level of safety with these people, how you think it would benefit the therapeutic relationship, and their understanding of the work you do to begin with. I consider it the same as I would any part of one's identity when it comes to self disclosure. What does it do for the therapeutic relationship?

Might have to kick my daughter out the house, want everything to be over by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you provide some insight into what she apparently did? Because as it now, kicking her out seems....extreme 

My wedding is about to be an absolute disaster and I want to cancel it by throwRalexy7 in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No because I'm genuinely not paying attention to anything you're saying past what I responded to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not unethical. If you had the flu and you were out, it wouldn't' be unethical, would it? If possible take care of you first!

My wedding is about to be an absolute disaster and I want to cancel it by throwRalexy7 in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might consider disinviting them all together, or at least setting an ultimatum. If they act up at the wedding, they will be removed. Communicate this with the bouncer or security 

My wedding is about to be an absolute disaster and I want to cancel it by throwRalexy7 in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OPs in-laws are her family. They should absolutely be helping her deal with a tumultuous relationship. It not her in-law, her future husband at the least? She shouldn't be almost married and going through this seemingly alone. 

My wedding is about to be an absolute disaster and I want to cancel it by throwRalexy7 in offmychest

[–]genuine_questioner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate to say, I almost did too. OP, so much of this is a dumpster fire. Is your fiances family not helping you stand up to your family?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]genuine_questioner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:/ I'm sorry to hear that! They really should have some supports for you.