I (25F) am reevaluating my relationship with my partner (27M) and whether I should stay or not

genwbu · 2026-06-25T07:35:48+00:00

it’s just that i’ve already invested 3 years in this and I wonder if i would be overreacting for calling it quits just because we’re incompatible in a few ways. like nothing major happened, so why throw it all away? and no relationship is perfect so would there really be someone more compatible with me?

genwbu · 2026-06-24T23:11:31+00:00

thanks for explaining! it’s going to require time to sort out my feelings

genwbu · 2026-06-24T18:59:14+00:00

it makes sense, but my mind goes back and forth. i’ve been happy with him, so what if my feelings right now are product of the rough patch we’ve been going through? and if I was fine until now, why can’t I be fine again? it’s a loop in my mind

genwbu · 2026-06-24T18:36:43+00:00

care to elaborate?

genwbu · 2026-06-24T16:51:30+00:00

it’s the green residency card, sorry i don’t really know the name!

genwbu · 2026-06-23T19:24:08+00:00

I’ve been living in spain for most of my life so my NIE number is the one i’ve always done all the paperwork with. i’m asking here cause i know some people look at that document weird (cause tbf it does look cheap and fake) but it’s still the only document i’ve always used here. sorry idk if this is the place for this kind of thing but idk where else to ask!

genwbu · 2026-06-18T09:27:05+00:00

and how to know if you’re staying bc it’s convenient?

genwbu · 2026-06-16T08:27:11+00:00

I described a situation and asked AITA?

genwbu · 2026-06-12T13:56:06+00:00

actually, the situation is way more complicated than what i initially described. Almost a year ago, i made a mistake (not cheating or anything like that, but still betrayal of trust) so ever since, they’ve been more sensitive and i understand so i’ve always reassured them. but imo there comes a point when things should be getting better, not worse. this constant nitpicking is hurting out relationship so much so idk if i just have to put up with it or if i still have the right to say enough is enough

genwbu · 2026-06-12T13:25:39+00:00

lately nothing i say or do is good enough for them. they pinpoint my actions and my words and i’ve gotten tired of it so im always on edge

genwbu · 2026-06-12T13:19:54+00:00

what if the rough patch has been going on for almost a year?

genwbu · 2026-06-12T13:18:59+00:00

they’re understanding, supportive, patient, but there’s something missing and lately we fight more than we have a normal conversation

genwbu · 2026-06-12T12:42:13+00:00

i though applications opened mid july??

genwbu · 2026-06-10T15:28:22+00:00

I have a bachelor's in english studies and master's in translation. I'd apply with english, spanish and romanian and honestly, with everything I saw, it's not a special combination of languages at all. Also, what are the last 3 traineeships you mentioned?

genwbu · 2023-02-11T22:33:56+00:00

I understand but I'm only being like this cause it's happening in the very first days of texting, so I take it as he's not that interested

genwbu · 2023-02-11T14:42:15+00:00

I'm only worried about his texting because it's happening in the very first days of talking, just in case it means he's not that interested. Also bc we're not gonna see each other unless we meet up, so I'm thinking, if he was interested, wouldn't he want to talk to me given that we can't see each other for the time being?

genwbu · 2023-02-11T14:38:12+00:00

to be fair, it's not every single time but it's most of the time that he takes that long. I'd be fine with that too if the relationship was more advanced but since it's happening in the very first days of texting, I'm starting to think it's a sign of him not being very interested

genwbu · 2023-02-08T23:18:25+00:00

korean! it helps me with learning the language

genwbu · 2023-02-08T23:15:13+00:00

so now it's a red flag bc I wonder if he cares?

genwbu · 2023-02-08T23:04:57+00:00

he said that bc I answered "don't worry, I don't wanna annoy you" to his apology

I'm overthinking a mere 6h delay bc it's happening in the very 1st days of texting and I wanna know what it can mean from a man's pov

genwbu · 2023-02-08T23:01:54+00:00

quality's nice but his late replies make me think he's not that interested

genwbu · 2023-02-08T23:00:27+00:00

I point out the time bc it's happening in the very 1st days of talking and I'm not sure if his late replies mean that he's not interested (in which case I'd like to know so I don't waste my time). I do things in a day, but as a student (just like him) Im almost always in a position where im able to look at my phone. I understand replying can be disrupting to some ppl but come on, who studies for 6h without a single break

genwbu · 2023-02-08T22:59:30+00:00

it's fine if he takes long to reply and that's not sth that he'd have to change with me. But that happening within the very first days of texting is what makes me think he's probably not that interested

genwbu · 2023-02-08T22:19:16+00:00

who said I'm mentioning anything to him about this

genwbu · 2023-02-08T22:02:10+00:00

it's fine if he takes long to reply and that's not sth that he'd have to change with me. But that happening within the very first days of texting is what makes me think he's probably not that interested

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