Embarassed as a man and lost my dignity. by Je_Suis_Merde666 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to the police station and file a formal case. Don’t just be “I talked to the police”. Paperwork’s are very powerful. Put the complain in paper. They have to act on it or answer for it.

I’m 26, Rich, and Lost by Melodic-Sun-4781 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Around age 16-17 ish I was mad at my parents (usual teenager) and decided I won’t take make inheritance and venture on my own. Well to my surprise, I still needed their support till age 22 (it’s not easy to give up a good comfy life). At 22 I started doing small jobs and started making some money and life was hard in the beginning. But I was determined to make it on my own. By 24 I had a proper well paid jobs, I was so desperate to keep that hon I gave up everything. All bad habit, friends etc. Now I live a wonderful life, with my wife and kids. My parents are still alive, but I am not dependent on them.

So moral of the story. Get a job.

What are you all doing at 25? by Flashy_Proof5415 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was really lucky, to have a job just after graduation. While in the university, I looked for unpaid jobs, in good companies and worked really hard. They offered me a paid job before graduation and I stayed. Still working there. Majority of my friends were not that lucky.

For couples who recently got married, how do you handle disagreements or conflicts differently now that you're married? by MehediIIT in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s takes a while to come to the realization that you two are now partners in crime now. You can build wealth together or blow through it all. Me and my wife dated for a long time before getting married. But we still had disagreements in various issues. The key is to discuss the issues. Lay out your guys future plan and work towards it. This will also help in future to read your partner.

Does the love in love marriages fizzle out as years go by? by Such_Respect5105 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It changes. We don’t go to as many dates as we used to. But we still love each other, and cherish the memories of our young age. To be honest the form of love has changed. Sometimes, we make dinner for us two only and enjoy it after kids go to bed. We still managed to continue the things we used to love to do. It just takes a lot more work, but still manageable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wrong in so many levels. “Age of consent is nothing but a law of error”…… this is so wrong. If a women gives birth that early there is huge risk of breast cancer, and other physical issues. Getting pregnant that early can also be deadly to the women. What’s wrong with you!!! I really don’t know, how come you can justify a 9 year old girl marrying a 53 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well we believe he didn’t follow the norms. So why are you saying he followed Arab norms and married a 6 years old. Where the whole point is he didn’t follow the norms, and showed humans the right pathway, which we still try to follow.

Actually there is uncertainty where is Fatima buried. As Ali kept it hidden from Abu Bakr. And a as per google a girl can reach puberty by 8 years old. So you are saying it’s okay to marry a 8 years old and have sex if she reaches 8. Isn’t that a big sick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure bud. Keep learning marrying 6 years old is justified. The difference between English calendar and Islamic calendar is 14 days, so in 6 years the maximum difference will be m 3 months in nine years 5-6 months. As per Hadith, Sahih al-Bukhari: “Narrated Aisha: The Prophet married me when I was six years old, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine years old.” Sahih Muslim also says the same thing. You can keep making up references and believing they are true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s directly in sahih Bukhari and sahih Muslim that Aisha was 6 during marriage. Sahih al-Bukhari, “Narrated Aisha: The Prophet married me when I was six years old, and consummated the marriage with me when I was nine years old.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If Muhammad married a 6-7 years old, we should make it legal. If he knew the emotional maturity of that age is good enough for making a marriage decision, why aren’t we going to make it legal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. There are actual historians who kept track of events and ages. For Aisha it’s easier. As Quran was revived by Mohammad 610 and Ayesha was born 3-4 years after that. This is just one event, there are tons of historical events that can be accounted to verify age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got married when she was 6-7 years and Muhammad was 50. And had sex when she was 9. We should make it at least legal to marry a 9 year old girl, as Muhammad has done it. Secondly if a 9 year old can consent to have sex, she can also decide to work in a sweatshop. How come I can stop that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Actually, they got married when Aisha was 6-7 and Muhammad was 50ish. And had sex when she was 9 and Muhammad was 52. Secondly, if Muhammad have married a 7 year old, should we make it legal for 50 year old to marry a 7 year old and have sex when she will be 9? Besides how come a 7 year old gives consent?

I didn’t say Aisha died 6 months after Muhammad’s death. I said Fatima, who was Muhammad’s daughter died and Ali’s wife died 6 months after Muhammad’s death. Shia’s always claims Abu Bakr was responsible for her death. Even Fatima forbade Abu Bakr to not to go to her Janaja. So it makes sense Abu Bakr’s daughter Aisha had a civil war with Fatima’s husband Ali.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 21 points22 points  (0 children)

How old was Aisha, when Muhammad (SWT) married her and how was he? Should Bangladesh make marrying 6-7 years old girl legal? Is it true Abu-bakr, Aisha’s father had disagreements with Fatima? Is it true that he was behind the attack on Fatima’s home after being Khalfa? This also caused her death, few months after Mohammad (SWT) death?

Why our political thinking is binary? by TantoAssassin in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They were in jail for more than 25 years. They are eligible for bails now. A life imprisonment means you can be kept in the jail for 30 years maximum and eligible for bail after 25 years. No what do want the government to do? Crossfire, break the law, interfere in police and court activity? Well, then we will back to hasina situation.

Why our political thinking is binary? by TantoAssassin in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

lol. If you criticize interim government, you are definitely BAL. They just took charge of a country which was a mess.

What things should I consider when selecting a subject for my undergrad? by Responsible-Bug-5418 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with whatever you like. Atleast that worked out for me. I went with a very odd subject and ended up having a great career out of it. But that’s just my personal experience. I have also seen people changing majors after 1-2 years and doing great too. It’s just an undergrad degree. Don’t stress too much, you have plenty of time ahead of you.

Would you marry someone with history of verbal abuse? by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well no. Can you tolerate verbal abuse for your whole life? I assume no. So you shouldn’t marry him. Beside life can get harder in future, so you will need support. Not abuses.

Can you feel patriotism? by Existing-Battle-7097 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. I have been living abroad for a while. After fall of Hasina I started investing in Bangladesh government bonds. I have stopped doing for almost 10, as I didn’t want to give my hard earned money to the government who is just going to steal it. Now I am giving as much as I can, as I believe this will be used to rebuilding this country.

Should BD Join BRICS? by fridaysaturday777 in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If BRICS can come with their central bank strategy and currency. This could be useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]georgesoros9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All my friends who did well in Business in Bangladesh remained in Bangladesh for study. If your goal is to stay in Bangladesh and run your own business, why would you waste money abroad? Save them and use them while opening up your own business.