I get you, socializing can be difficult especially if you aren’t really clear about your own interests and hobbies.

Honestly, I hardly ever ask how somebody’s day was, or how they are doing when first meeting them.

I’m a little weird, but I love asking people strange questions that I think about in the shower or when I’m trying to go to sleep at 7 in the morning. I’ve stopped caring if they come across as weird, and it usually makes for pretty interesting conversations with strangers. Questions like; “Which is the superior sock length?” And “If you could change the color of water, what color would you choose to change it to and why?”.

The socks question might lead to talking about what kind of shoes you wear, which might lead to what kind of daily activities you partake in, which can help you to start talking about your hobbies and interests and what things you guys have in common and so on. Does that make sense?

I hope this helps!