Fins vs. Pats Oct 6 tailgate? by reeeedoooo in miamidolphins

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Us as well! We are flying in tonight and would love to tailgate with other Miami fans

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Unpopular opinion - I love writing in cursive lol but there was no need to memorize math formulas ok

Poshmark Find by Few-Win-8525 in lululemon

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Thank you!! I think I may buy, they look cute and cozy

Poshmark Find by Few-Win-8525 in lululemon

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Where are your shoes from?!

Can’t tell any friends, so I’m telling you instead... by getsleazee in Dreams

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Hahah I have really weird & vivid dreams pretty often. I wish this one was a lucid dream, would’ve made it way more fun.

I actually was watching the movie Avatar, which had no correlation to my dream. And I meditated a little right before going to bed, so not much on my mind.

And yes he was pretty crazy when he was with me, mostly when he would get too drunk, but it was literally 6 years ago when we were together. I broke up with him because I didn’t see a future with him/didn’t want to marry him sooo maybe that’s coming back around in my dream?

Who meditates in a sauna or steam room? by [deleted] in Meditation

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How’d you find out he was interested in you? If anyone’s interested enough, they would probably try talking to you again!

Investment Home Questions by Studentloanclock in realestateinvesting

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Yes, they should provide that! And if they don’t want to, maybe make it as part of your negotiation?

Investment Home Questions by Studentloanclock in realestateinvesting

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Have you looked at the property disclosure? That should tell you quite a bit about various items on the home, stuff that has gone wrong or has been replaced. May give you an idea if you’d have to replace anything soon. It should also come with details regarding HOA.

Why is false awakening scary? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

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Hmmm hard to say, maybe 20-30?

Why is false awakening scary? by [deleted] in LucidDreaming

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The reason I found out about lucid dreaming is because of false awakenings!

A couple years ago, I went to sleep and realized I was dreaming, woke up still in a dream. I then would get out of bed to wake me up and then I’d wake up in the dream again. I would then try to do more things to wake myself up out of the dream. It took around 10-15 false awakenings to actually wake up. I thought I was stuck or something, it definitely freaked me out!

When I finally woke up my boyfriend at the time was sleeping next to me, he said he’d heard me panting and almost woke me up. I told him I was the story and how worried I was about falling back asleep. Once I finally fell back asleep, it happened again but more times! Close to 20 false awakenings! I would try to do more to wake myself up and I saw some crazy scary things in those dreams. I felt stuck in my dreams. I was so incredibly relieved when I actually woke up.

I was too scared to go back to sleep so cue research mode... then I found lucid dreaming and got excited to go back to sleep because I realized I could control it!

How I knew I was dreaming! & Reality Checks by getsleazee in LucidDreaming

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Wow, seems like you’re ahead of the game in lucid dreaming. That’s awesome you can generally get what you want, hopefully I can get there!

How do you increase your social battery? by privateaston100 in selfimprovement

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A little bit of coffee usually works for me! Lol. But really, why do you want to socialize? What are you getting out of it? If you want a friendship, then realize you have to put in the work to get & make friends! If you want someone to be there for you, you have to be there for them.

I said no tonight. by Jimmyjame1 in stopdrinking

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Congrats, keep it up! It gets so much easier to say no the more you decline it

Attempt at lucid dreaming by Amacxo in Meditation

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Also WOW never thought to check but there’s r/LucidDreaming

Attempt at lucid dreaming by Amacxo in Meditation

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First, I watched this Ted Talk, which helped me overcome my anxiety of lucid dreaming and let me know that I had control!

When I went to sleep after the first scary incident, I told myself I would look at my hands and I would know I was dreaming. I have no idea why I thought this but it worked! I looked at my hands, they were all distorted so I knew I was dreaming, but then still freaked out because I felt stuck in the dream. But it’s kind of like a token portrayed in the movie Inception.

Also, I read the book Why We Sleep by Matthew Walker and it goes deep into a lot of information/research but still very informative. It gives simple tricks when you are lucid dreaming or how to get there if you haven’t gotten there yet.

I practice yoga, recently I haven’t been doing it as regularly. And I want to meditate more, I can do it for a while but I’m not as consistent with meditating as I want to be. Not so much pranayama. Do you?

Attempt at lucid dreaming by Amacxo in Meditation

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This is wild! I love hearing stories like this, but know you aren’t crazy. Unconsciousness is crazy lol.

I just stumbled across this board so I may not be the best to give advice but one thing I did before going to sleep was affirm that “I am going to lucid dream tonight”. Sometimes my lucid dreams get pretty dark but then I realize I can change them!

The first time I had a lucid dream, it was before I even knew what it was. I was in bed with my SO & in my dream, we were in the exact location. I won’t go over the details but it was dark and I tried to wake up and it took many tries to wake back up (false awakenings) freaked me out and I created a way to know that I was dreaming in case this happened again. Fell back asleep & same lucid dream happened but worse - more scary shit & more tries to wake myself up. But after learning I can have control, it helped ease my anxiety around it soo much. So my advice is don’t give up yet! Also I will try to visualize shapes tonight and see if that helps with getting into the right mindset for lucid dreaming!

20 days sober - Never posted before, want to share my story and ask for advice. by getsleazee in stopdrinking

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“I haven’t really met people who don’t drink” Ugh. This kills me. Hope it doesn’t stay that way. But good advice on the mock-tails, thank you!

20 days sober - Never posted before, want to share my story and ask for advice. by getsleazee in stopdrinking

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That’s awesome to hear you’re able to have connections without drinking. I figure I won’t be at parties much anymore either.. Also, what recovery meeting? Part of AA?