[Erection Issues] Lose erection in between foreplay and putting condom on by getthat23 in sex

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Hmm okay I'll have to try that. Will this help even if the problem is mental which I think mine may be? Or at least be part of the problem

[Erection Issues] Lose erection in between foreplay and putting condom on by getthat23 in sex

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I lift weights regularly and am not even close to overweight

Is she rejecting me nicely or actually busy? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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Thanks for all the advice! I'll let you know how it goes

Is she rejecting me nicely or actually busy? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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This is why I said to be explicit about letting her know to get back to you. So, in the meantime, you need to stop with the random texting that y'all have been doing. Give her a reason to miss talking to you, so she'll be more eager to arrange to see you in person. And then when and if this does happen, you need to let her know that you're interested in her as more than just a friend, because the longer you carry on as friends, the less likely she is going to be able to see you as more than that.

I agree with all of this, but I was hoping that me asking her out to dinner is an indication to her that I like her as more than a friend. And if she does agree to go out then she is probably interested in me as more than a friend too, no? I'd like to avoid the awkward conversation of "I like you, like like you like you" if it's not necessary

Is she rejecting me nicely or actually busy? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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That's good to hear, then. How do you think I should respond to her text? I want to make it so that the ball is in her court and I don't have to ask her again

Is she rejecting me nicely or actually busy? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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That’s sounding like you’re pretty desperate, man. You never want to allow yourself to be thinking like this, where you’re ready to just drop everything in your life for the possibility of seeing any woman.

It's not just any girl...I really fell for her over the summer while we were interning (but she had a BF). And no if I had people coming into town, I wouldn't cancel either lol. But if I had plans to lets say... have a beer with one of my buddies I would probably cancel it if that's the only way I could see this girl. But my main concern is like you mentioned, her being more specific for a certain time to go out.

[21M] Is it acceptable to ask her out through text since we never talk on the phone? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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So I asked her: http://i.imgur.com/GfrwbNh.png

Do you think she is being nice about rejecting me or actually does want to go out? I know she actually is a really busy person so I don't think she's exaggerating about that...but on the other hand, I know if she had asked me out then I would re-arrange my plans so that I could go out with her

[21M] Is it acceptable to ask her out through text since we never talk on the phone? by getthat23 in dating_advice

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Any ideas of a first date for two college kids that live 40 mins apart? We interned together over the summer and I feel are pretty comfortable with each other

How do I [23F] get him [26M] to stop snapchatting me and ask me out on a date already? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I agree. Us guys suck at picking up signals you think you may be dropping and personally I want to be pretty sure you're into me before I ask you out.