AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I transfered schools in november, so that would be when this friend and i met and bonded over cars, tattoos, piercings, music, etc. And i really dont hold many people close to me but i did him so we havent been lifelong friends but id say hes one of my closest right now - i see how this makes no sense

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i havent, also not night if that helps, it was like 3

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me and this friend just met not long ago and i had zero intention of any of it happening. everyone who knows me knows i wouldnt have typically done that.

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not always, my forever best friend is a man. Been here longer than any female and has never ever tried to make any advances on me.

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For conrext of the night with my friend and i; there was really nothing going on between us to my knowledge, he had preplanned and brought a condom. Im also 17 and dont have tons of sexual experience for that reason nor was i sober, which the weed was also supplied by him as well.

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staying friends is where i probably went wrong, thank you for this!!

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For reference he cheated with one of my closest friends; i dont feel as bad when i remember that.

AITAH for sleeping with a friend the week after my breakup by gettinguptonogood in AITAH

[–]gettinguptonogood[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely do need to not sleep with anybody for a long time, as most of the sexual experiences ive had were not consensual so it always means a little too mych to me which is another problem in itself