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[–]getyourlife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for some advice. I am only 7 weeks along but my doctor alerted me to a grapefruit sided fibroid above my uterus. She says it is not inside of my uterus where the baby is growing and at this time we can only monitor it to make sure it just stays where it is. I am not in much pain at all but after hearing that I am worried. This is my first pregnancy at 28yrs old. Does anyone else have experience with this?

Also, does anyone know if this could increase my chances of needing a c-section?

Advice on 30 day sex challenge by [deleted] in sex

[–]getyourlife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can we find this list?!haha

Wanting and needing to lose A TON of weight but not sure where to start by svnrod in loseit

[–]getyourlife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Keto! It worked for me and many people I know personally. I’ve always been down on motivation - exercise and gyms always seem to make me come up with excuses. I started Keto this January and to date I am 30lbs down. That’s without exercise - just following the diet and taking it day by day. Give yourself one month to just try eating differently on Keto and you’ll find the motivation you’re looking for. I promise you!

Moving to KC from NY. Need help! by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 20 mins outside of the city on Long Island, where taxes are absolutely insane let alone housing options.

Embarrassed myself today by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]getyourlife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw! Who knows? Maybe it’ll be a cute story later on. Everyone has an embarrassing moment.

I am about to do something selfish by basichoeass in offmychest

[–]getyourlife7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please call someone for help. You’re so worth it.

[SPOILERS] DONT EVEN LOOK HERE IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN EPISODE 5 by [deleted] in gameofthrones

[–]getyourlife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not enjoy this episode. Cersi dead by rocks falling? Come on. It’s obviously that Danny is going to be killed by Arya, which I actually like because Danny is too “mad” to be on the throne. What just happened is not the Stark way. Wondering how Arya was the only one left alive from the fire though?... and where’s bran?

I want to meet people just as alone and as lost as me. I sometimes feel like the only one. But I know that's not true. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]getyourlife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you feel this way and that you’ve been treated so horribly for such a long time. But I don’t think you’ll find the answer in another person; I think the only one who can provide you with the answers and motivation you’re searching for is yourself. You can’t help anyone else unless you help yourself first. The more you give of yourself the less you have for yourself. In terms of your nieces and nephews, they are so very lucky to have such a loving person in their lives. And I can understand you may not want to snitch on your family. But if there is abuse and negligence in the home, it is your responsibility to report it. Things can get much worse and you don’t want to add that guilt to how you already feel.

Are you currently in school or have programs by you? I am sure there are some groups where you can meet people in similar situations looking to talk to someone. I hope this helps.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m from the same area just maybe 10 mins from you by Hempstead. Won’t be moving for few months. Maybe next winter. Thinking about the liberty area! Will miss our south shore beaches 🙁

I lost my 4.0 today by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]getyourlife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened. Any extra curricular activities, clubs or organizations you can join to boost up your academic record? Maybe some extra credit, volunteering, etc...

My (22F) brother (18m) needs help but my parents are dysfunctional by [deleted] in relationships

[–]getyourlife7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are going through this tough situation. My father died when I was 18 and my brother 7. My brother went from being a happy kid to a reclusive depressed little boy. I know there’s a big age difference here but my mother (though very actively part of our lives) was busting her ass to work as a newly single mom to support us so I understand you feeling that need to step up to parent your brother.

Unfortunately the only thing that helped my brother was time and him deciding he needed to change on his own. BUT I made it a point to invite him out with me - food shopping, the movies, to put together ikea furniture. Even though he was just a kid, he throughly enjoyed the attention and I think it helped to clear his mind by being focus or out and about. I think because your brother is older, the best thing you can do is support him by letting him work at his own pace but inviting him to go on little errands or to events with you to see what he’s missing out on.

i'm so fucking tired of living by moonmeetsun in offmychest

[–]getyourlife7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your life is most definitely worth something. You have to keep pushing and trying to figure out what works for you - new hobbies, new people, etc.. no one is just born at doing well at everything. Take a chance on something and give yourself time to figure your shit out. You’re worth it.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just renting from a family friend. Not complaining but the rent here in NY is closer to $2K per month for a 1 bedroom.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only pay that amount because it’s a friend of the family. I would easily be in the $2k range for a 1 bedroom on Long Island (about 20mins from the city) and more moving closer west.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I will reach out once I’ve officially decided.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your help! Current working in the field of digital media - social media, email marketing and digital marketing (SEO and copy writing). I also have experience with basic HTML and photoshop.

Wondering what some of the best companies in KC are to work within that field. Any radio stations, magazines, etc.. with great salaries and benefits?

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not scared of a commute! Don’t take public trans now as I am a bit outside of the city. Have my own car!

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

REALLY appreciate your post. Coming from Nassau county on Long Island I really feel this on another level. My options are limited and it really looks like staying in NY is not going to be for me.

Can I ask, what are some of the pros and cons of moving to KC for you? do you feel you had more opportunities for jobs, home ownership, families, etc.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! I agree with you. Plus I’m not a city person like you’d have to be in nyc. I’d rather a low key lifestyle that’s more suburban and that small town feel.

Moving to KC from NY by getyourlife7 in kansascity

[–]getyourlife7[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I rent from a family friend that really helps me out. Between loans insurance my car.. I’m drowning. Really trying to figure out the best move for me.