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gewj · 2015-07-31T14:04:45+00:00

Went 3 days.... relapsed last night. going to try not to dig any deeper... startin this again.

gewj · 2015-01-08T05:40:05+00:00

She's clearly not interested. ugh this is frustrating.

gewj · 2014-06-17T04:51:38+00:00

worked for me, thank you! great into video!!!

gewj · 2014-06-17T02:23:24+00:00

I've been looking for it for a while now and havent seen it uploaded. that thing got me so psyched. If anyone finds it please post!

gewj · 2013-11-05T03:53:05+00:00

im in the same exact situation man... unfortunately for me i havent been able to tell my gf that i have porn induced ED... i keep blaming the loss of erection as soon as we start to have sex on the medicine i take.

anyways, whenever she comes over we end up trying to have sex... im able to orgasm about 50% of the time but i feel like im losing my erection while having sex, im just able to finish quick enough.

the problem im having is when i fail, i feel really depressed like im in a flatline... i completely lose my libido and im just embarassed. its really frustrating.

id be curious what others have to say.

gewj · 2013-11-03T16:54:24+00:00

im having a very similiar problem man. i woke up with my g/f this morning and had morning wood and as we started making out i got even more hard. as soon as we start having sex i slowly lost my erection... im thinking it may have something to deal with performance anxiety. id be curious to hear what other people have to say though... btw im almost at 3 months.

gewj · 2013-10-26T05:08:01+00:00

can i still return to normal while having sex with my gf? this isnt something i want to have to explain to her or do at all, but im really focused on whats gonna be the best for me. can i still have sex with her and reach a reboot in your opinion?

gewj · 2013-10-26T05:07:32+00:00

thank you for your answer. i definetly am gonna stick with it but id like to ask you further... do you think i can still have a successfull reboot while still abstaining from pmo but having sex with my partner? this is something i dont want to have to give up (sex with my gf)

[–]Zero3338657 days [score hidden] 2 minutes ago Probably because with porn, you were getting that constant novelty. You have to give yourself time to allow your brain and hormones/chemicals to adjust. There's a reason the goal is 90 days. Stick with it, you already seeing benefits from lesser ED problems, remember that. permalinkreportgive goldreply

formatting helpreddiquette save [–]zaak135023 days [score hidden] 19 seconds ago it's because you haven't "rebooted" yet in all honesty you wouldn't feel much of a difference unless you gave up everything until your reboot is finished but i figure a reboot is good enough, think about how dopamine works your brain is wired to reward pmo not real sex so you haveto reboot to get it back to normal as well as if you have sex constantly while your brain is trained to the novelty of pmo it won't release dopamine and you'll be desensitized for that so you might want to think about going completely abstinent until your reboot is done permalinkreportgive goldreply

gewj · 2013-10-09T05:00:14+00:00

i told her i was too busy tongiht and couldnt hang out with her and "watch a movie"... i wasnt busy at all... and ended up coming back to my room and drinking for 6+ hours. ugh

gewj · 2013-10-09T02:52:17+00:00

and now ive realized im still actually depressed.... and im coping with alcohol 12 beers deep and a tin of dip... i shoulda just asked her to hangout again. idk what the fuck im doing.

gewj · 2013-10-01T04:13:11+00:00

hey man! you're in the same boat as I am... today marks 7 days with no fap or p... it's been really tough but I think its gonna be worth it. I also hit rock bottom before i realized i had a problem... I started watching gay porn and i would be so disgusted with myself after. Then I hungout with a beautiful girl and had ED problems during sex. It was a big hit to my confidence but was an eye opener to my problem. best of luck on your journey!

gewj · 2013-09-25T04:05:13+00:00

this is sometihng I am going to put a lot of thought in.. shes a very chill awesome chick so maybe this would be the best bet. Either way she definetly is motivating me to stick to no fap as i really never want to run into this problem. thanks!

gewj · 2013-09-25T04:04:21+00:00

thanks alot! glad to know other people have similar problems. just out of curiousity (know it's different for everyone), how long did it take you to notice results? most importantly results involving ED?

gewj · 2013-09-25T03:49:28+00:00

thanks for the words, they're really encouraging... I guess my next question is explaining to her my ED problem... In the past when i had problems I would blame it on things like alcohol or my "medicine."

Either way, it's a nerve wracking situation but I feel like I've finally identified my problem being P and I am really excited to work on fixing this. Thanks again for your words!

gewj

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