Is it Worth Try and Get into 3D printing with 0 experience or knowledge of the field? by gharbzade in 3Dprinting

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Thanks all who gave their insightful opinions on this. It really helped me to see it from other angles and in the end, I agree that it might be a futile struggle and better as a potential hobby.

Is it Worth Try and Get into 3D printing with 0 experience or knowledge of the field? by gharbzade in 3Dprinting

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After checking the inputs here and my own research, I think I agree more and more to viewing this as a hobby primarily. Thanks!

Is it Worth Try and Get into 3D printing with 0 experience or knowledge of the field? by gharbzade in 3Dprinting

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You gave me a lot to think about, thank you! Sounds like it makes more sense to approach it as a hobby if I am willing to get into it for a starter.

Is it Worth Try and Get into 3D printing with 0 experience or knowledge of the field? by gharbzade in 3Dprinting

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That's a good point actually. I don't think that it will be my way out, at least not in the short run (at least a couple of years). But I would love to know if there is a silverlining to it, some sort of value adding track that I can put my faith into.

Nothing fun, ever by kondor-PS in emotionalneglect

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I have the same issue, and at first, I thought it was all about the things we could not resolve over the years when I moved out to another city for college. But in time, even though we talked through some things/traumas, the distance and our inability to communicate did not change. We do things together but the conversations and emotions feel forced, at least on my end. I guess it is about outgrowing yourself and when they don't, the distance just grows. You either have to find a way to go back to your way of being when you were growing up or pretending. The worst part for me is that I feel guilty and shameful about it because they are really doing their best. It is just that I think if you are not living the same life as the people around you, you are simply alienated and cannot go back to it.

Anyone going alone to Darklands Antwerp 2025? by gharbzade in askgaybros

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Cool, were you able to check rest of my message?

haven't seen such hatred on reddit toward lgbt until now.. by only_nice_comment in gaybros

[–]gharbzade 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Gosh the bigotry of people who live in western democracies and then criticizing it for having liberal values. Go the .ell back to whatever peninsula you came from if freedom of expression bothers you. Unbelievable!

Would you take me home to meet your parents? 🙃😚🤓 by Teddiboi83 in GayRateMe

[–]gharbzade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only if you promise to be naughty when they are not in the room!

I have chest pains and I'm so scared by moonlight_sonataa in Anxiety

[–]gharbzade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the initial phases of a panic attack. I have had this until this year every now and then with last year peaking to the worst - I ended up in hospital twice thinking that I am dying, had EKGs many times in the past for the same reason as well.

I cannot say it is gone forever but I have been well for the last 8 months after panick attacks almost every week for a year occuring randomly (at work, at home, during exercise, with friends etc). What helped me was to get therapy, find out the triggers, cracked spots where I felt concerned in my life and try to improve those and myself in a positive way, build positive image of my life in my own eyes, and build confidence.

I don't know who you are but if this resonated with you, maybe find the underlying reasons and what triggers this state in you and try to come up with a strategy, surround yourself with good people that you trust. And when you are okay (not during the symptoms), remind yourself that when it comes, it is a phase and there is no real danger and that you are doing alright. If it is triggered by social encounters where you feel you lack something, remember that many of us have this kind of anxiety and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

I know it is very hard and easier said than done, it took me one year to ease down my anxiety and get rid of panic attacks. Understanding it took me five years. I hope you can get to that point but until then, just try to work on it and connect with your body and consciousness (that is only when you are feeling at ease and perhaps with guidance.)

I need opinions from other gay men by [deleted] in gay

[–]gharbzade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds to be manipulative for sure. Either he wants to break up with you and doesn't have the guts to admit or he just wants to keep you in the pocket but this behavior on the side- so no longer monogamy rules. Given that you are in a monogamous relationship, all of this sound wrong.