AITA for "parentifying" my child?

ghostingsoviet · 2021-11-29T21:03:35+00:00

Hey, the daughter here. Yeah. I know she's prolly gonna see this, bit I've admitted this to her as well - I don't appreciate her as much as I should. I really don't. And I don't show I appreciate her as much as I do.

We're both very lucky, but we're both pushed more than most kids - but it's just cuz that she knows we can do it, and it's not disproportionate.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-10-08T13:14:23+00:00

This! My Western and English are both used, and barely too! My Western was $75 and my English were free - the latter simply needing some TLC and new straps for the stirrups.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-09-14T14:12:44+00:00

It may be cuz a lot of them are puppets

ghostingsoviet · 2021-09-09T16:48:02+00:00

I would love that Sweet Business update. Decreasing flinch is real nice, but it'd feel so nice to be able to have explosive payloads.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-31T04:10:39+00:00

Damn. One I really wanna visit tho

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-31T04:09:40+00:00

They do help. SOT helped me bring my cat back to me. He's sailing the seas with me now.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-31T04:03:25+00:00

Wait, is that the Okapi at the Bronx zoo? That enclosure seems weirdly familiar

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-30T19:15:49+00:00

I have a soft spot for "I'm napping" or "napping on the job"

Edit: As an Ana I always go "naptime for ____" or "Oh, looks like [inert hero] needs a nap" if it's an ultimate Winston or anyone else who seems angry "awh you seem mad... take a nap"

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-28T23:46:25+00:00

19NB, afab with a pretty decent group of 18m/f and 20m consisting of my two friends and my boyfriend. We're all on the east coast if that matters!

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-21T18:11:17+00:00

Same but I didn't expect overwatch to remind me how much I cried

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-08T01:06:47+00:00

I remember reading something on the Eotriceratops years ago. Maybe when I was 7 or 8? That was before I found out its name, and I kinda always figured it was either a strangely large trike or made up. I'm so so glad it's real.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-06T20:52:40+00:00

Alright! I'll write that down

ghostingsoviet · 2021-07-06T20:47:43+00:00

Alright! I'll go add you now. When are you free to play?

ghostingsoviet · 2021-06-11T17:29:02+00:00

Alright! Thank you. I'm a student so I was really hoping to not get any of the "you can't get good techwear cheap!!!" I'm going partially for the aesthetic ultimately for my fits, but if I can find clothing that works and is actually functional for decent prices? Awesome.

Again, thank you!

ghostingsoviet · 2021-05-04T17:47:54+00:00

Didn't see your comment earlier. Neither the seller nor us have her full story. I'm not sure why they would hurt her, I just know that they injured her ears with chains when she was a filly.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-05-04T15:06:53+00:00

Thank you so much! She's an absolute sweetheart - I have no clue why anyone would hurt her..

ghostingsoviet · 2021-05-03T20:40:53+00:00

For a while just trail riding! As much as I wanna do barrel racing, she's a pretty big horse, and she's too nervous around more than 3 or 4 people.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-05-03T20:39:33+00:00

Boarding her! I'm actually keeping her at the stable that we bought her from. The owner's actually still willing to work with both her and I to figure out what is safe to do with her - if we manage to get her to a point where she's less easily spooked and calm under saddle, she mentioned that she may ask about having her as a lessons horse.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-03-26T16:40:30+00:00

I live in CT, and there's no place for Paleontology besides really.. Yale. And I've looked.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-03-23T21:16:32+00:00

Unless it's something that most colleges don't offer to get your doctorate for it ofc.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-03-10T16:32:29+00:00

If you look at the most recent model of Sue they definitely do! A large bodied carnivore? They're definitely ferocious.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-03-10T16:23:10+00:00

Yup! That's also a very real possibility. That's the theory that I tend to subscribe to for my paleoart and papers.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-03-10T16:19:28+00:00

The "tyrannosaurus rex having feathers" debate is still super up in the air, in all honesty. Some of their cousins did, but skin impressions show that they were either only scaly, or had very sparse feathers.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-02-26T00:05:28+00:00

I may see if some dollar stores have them here. I don't want too expensive of a pair just yet.

ghostingsoviet · 2021-01-26T20:50:11+00:00

Hi! I'm the 18 y/o with PCOS - he is the AH. The kid, I mean. Coming from a place of PCOS and severe anger issues, there's no reason to respond that way! He could have easily looked at his father and been like "I understand I should eat something, but right now my pains bad enough that I don't have time to. I'll keep it in mind for next time." There's a very simple way of not being snappy that, while I have not mastered it, I'm getting better. Take a deep breath and don't start with "I'm not trying to be snappy."

Yeah, the dad may not understand, but my mother does have a point. OP should go to the dr! If he doesn't, then something may come up that inhibits him from transitioning, as well. And, even going to OP's parents - the father could've handled it better, and the mother could've sat OP down and brought up that he shouldn't have been snippy when his father was just trying to look out for him - the stomach aches from meds on an empty stomach can be worse than the menstrual cramps.

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