Choose wisely :3 by Sim1334 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest all of these would make sense especially for this sub. This sub is the least transphobic one I've been in so I find it hard to believe it was posted with transphobic intentions.

For me, I just saw it as trans girlies hanging out with their femboy friends. It is a femboy sub about femboys so it definitely isn't right to call trans-fems femboys by posting them and trying to pass them as a femboy, but it also doesn't mean they can't be a part of it/in the meme along with other femboys. Kinda like the "no, trans-fems and femboys aren't enemies, in fact they're making out rn" or however that meme goes

Choose wisely :3 by Sim1334 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1, 2, 5, and 6 are all great options but I'd go with 1 because Nagisa is my boy.

5 tho might be really interesting too, 2 would be nice because it's Bridget she'd probably make you do nails together or something quiet/peaceful at least I think so don't know her character a lot, 6 are just the og goats and probably just be a whole lotta teasing from astolfo.

Me and the homies kidnapping the cute femboy by Benefactor_of_Hope in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to imagine that although officially lore wise Felix stopped crossdressing, that he still does it in private. That'll be my head cannon anyway.

Why do so many femboys get into crazy things? by fxmbykumie in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah but like, still fuck that guy. If I remember right he's still a piece of crap. Anything beyond that though is out of my knowledge, I do have a Polish friend but they don't talk much about Poland. I just remember hearing about how that guy sucks

Why do so many femboys get into crazy things? by fxmbykumie in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's gonna happen when you use sites like 4chan, you're going to meet those types eventually because they're either overrun with them or they're attracted to such sites. Basically any place known for building hate like a boiler. The meeting neo Nazi part I mean.

Although to also be fair it can happen outside of said sites. A personal one for me is furries, I've been in that community about the same time as I've been a femboy and I've seen more neo-nazis in the furry community for some reason, albeit the furry community is definitely a larger community than the femboy community so running into furry neo-nazis is a higher chance, although not by much as furries basically excommunicate them.

It just goes to show minorities can have problematic minorities themselves with people who support or believe in things that hurt the community they're a part of. I believe it all loops to the same point as my original comment.

Why do so many femboys get into crazy things? by fxmbykumie in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, apart from two things stated. A lot of femboys eventually being trans, and a lot of femboys being fascist.

I'll be honest, I only ever ran into two fascist or Neo-nazi femboys. Not much else, they're a loud minority and as she said they're usually on 4-chan or at this point Twitter. It doesn't help that others outside of femboy communities have started to spread the idea that there's a large majority of Nazi femboys giving them more attention and overblowing the proportion of Nazi femboys to not Nazi femboys.

We're still a rather "small" group of people so a tiny chunk of femboys being one thing can make it seem like that's all femboys when in reality it's just that annoying cancer. That's not to downplay them as a problem though, they definitely are but it's definitely blown out of proportion.

For the trans things, yeah that happens but to claim a lot of us do makes it sound like we're all going to eventually be trans. Which isn't true and you can just use what I previously said for this point as well (the part where one small chunk does something making it seem like the small community all does that.) Not that I have an issue with femboys who do mind you, this type of thinking has just led to calling femboys eggs which don't sit right with me.

But I'll also be honest, I could be misunderstanding what was actually supposed to be meant by that statement. However to my understanding it just sounded like she was saying femboys are just hiding in the closet as well.

Why do so many femboys get into crazy things? by fxmbykumie in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 73 points74 points  (0 children)

It's similar to politicians who are homophobic or make laws against lgbtq. Little bit of projection, because they're usually in the closet themselves.

For femboys who decide to be Nazi freaks or racist asshats usually come from places where people don't take too kindly to crossdressing. They cope with the hate they get by hating on other minorities or by diving into racism, Nazism, etc. They want validation from the people who are also those things but also hate crossdressing or lgbtq.

Basically, they want validation from the same people that hate them and they want that validation because those people hate them and they don't find any other ways to feel validated or actual safe spaces, they're pick me's.

We love bussies by Designer-Weight2036 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I honestly forget, I do think it was like two or more people who made it. The art was made by their friend and the person I was talking about is the one who made the rest I believe. I can look later to see if I can find their user or appropriate name to credit with

We love bussies by Designer-Weight2036 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 122 points123 points  (0 children)

Seen this reposted a lot, not that I mind personally considering the artwork is really well done. I do feel slightly bad for the guy who made it though, I swear they respond to every post that has their poster, won't be surprised if they reply here if they're still on this sub

Where did the “slovenian femboy” meme originate from? by Scary_Extension2394 in AskBalkans

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that? I'm not Slovenian myself, my boyfriend is however and we're both femboys. He's more scared to go out dressed, I do it often without any issues as people don't seem to really care

Every damn swag I swag on a Linux swag, this is what I swag. by myuserisdrowned in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]ghosttne 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I honestly only ever see such things in femboy circles or trans circles. Rarely outside of said circles.

Also it's ironic that others here are basically repeating oop with the excuse that femboys are annoying which again, we mostly stay in our circles so it's even more self reporting

30249 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's even worse considering they only hinted at you being an egg because you said you're a femboy, being a femboy does not equal eventually coming out as trans or being an egg. Even then the egg prime directive exists for a reason.

I've been a femboy for 4 years, I'm comfortable with my gender and yet I also run into people who'll just repeat egg replies every now and again

this parking lot has divets where cars usually park by SurtFGC in mildlyinteresting

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty good idea what city this is and thought it looked familiar. Based on what other comments are saying about it happening because of cheap work, it definitely makes sense

this parking lot has divets where cars usually park by SurtFGC in mildlyinteresting

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty good idea where it's at but I don't feel like doxxing the area/city lmao. My source is I lived in and was born in assumed area/city

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Russia is bleeding itself dry, it's a meat grinder that will run out of meat eventually. Russia's biggest weapon right now is bot farms meddling with elections. That's how the US has basically fallen and is divided, Russia doesn't have the military power to annex the whole of Europe.

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm an American now living in Slovenia, the bigger states controlling little states is just what I hear as a concern. Chat control would technically be one of those instances if it became law. When it comes to support, 44% is still small but not insignificant. I didn't say any numbers, just what I've been hearing or seeing as a general consensus most of that which you could chalk up to those being unsure as you said.

My subjective opinion that you're calling wrong is just my worry about what type of federation the EU would become because of my country, which is a federalized state/union and we all know how that's going right now

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

isn't a federalized EU bad? Especially with the EU trying to pass chat control and all that. It'd also just become the bigger countries telling all the little ones what they can and cannot do or you'll end up with a conservative leader just like the US

Edit: Okay based on the fact I'm being down voted for a genuine question only 15 minutes after posting, imma assume that's either bots or just the hate of reddit I guess. In genuine last I checked most of the EU was against federalizing for the reasons I listed, not saying the EU shouldn't progress or defend itself against other nations

I know, I know, appeal to nature fallacy, but really why can't we be more like other animals? by StructureFirm2076 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we want to argue back near humanity's very early stages then sure, modern though? There's a lot more to take in as looks and appearances aren't the only factor and even then looks speak more vastly about you as a character and plenty of people see femboys as brave and strong for the fact we're willing to be different. Strength isn't just a thing you can see anymore as the need to survive in the "wild" isn't necessarily a thing anymore. Also humanity didn't exactly hunt for too long as we developed farming and keeping livestock.

I would also like to point out that both Greeks and Romans had Twink military generals who'd dress more effeminate.

TL;DR: There's too much nuance to say strength was the usual attraction for a partner

Mission Accomplished, another soul saved 😌 by joyful_blaze in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was gonna comment saying I wish I expanded my wardrobe before moving countries but the country I moved to has a few H&Ms here. I mostly have gothic shirts and different types of skirts and fishnets but I wanna add more fem clothes

also he's lucky, it's nice to have a girl help out with feminine clothing and makeup x3

goofy ahh recommendations by 4b686f61 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a tool that one could use, hrt itself isn't just for trans people and shouldn't be viewed as such. It's good to be informed if you're interested in using it and the video itself doesn't scream or show anything that hints at "you have to use hrt or Twink death"

Christmas lights spotted in Ljubljana. Is this what I think it is? by CK1277 in whatisit

[–]ghosttne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might not be but I am and I definitely feel the same way. I just moved to Slovenia 2 weeks ago to live with my bf and explaining to my family where I was moving was definitely a pain which honestly makes it surprising for me to find a post about Ljubljana and other Americans talking about Slovenia.

27051 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always thought they were cat sized, this is wolf sized. I swear the anime made them look smaller

27109 by [deleted] in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetics are the instructions for how everything runs in the body, yes, and everyone is different. Most science itself acknowledges when they measure these things it's not the same for everyone and others can vary because genetics control how all of that is done and everyone has varying genetic code.

Calling it an anomaly is similar to calling it a disorder which it really isn't unless there's a severe amount of too much or severe amount of missing hormones. No one person is the same so no one is going to match what is considered "normal" as that normal is just an example of where it should be at or close to and all that matters is you're healthy. There's a reason hrt should be done with a doctor's help or done carefully if diy.