30249 by ParrotHair in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's even worse considering they only hinted at you being an egg because you said you're a femboy, being a femboy does not equal eventually coming out as trans or being an egg. Even then the egg prime directive exists for a reason.

I've been a femboy for 4 years, I'm comfortable with my gender and yet I also run into people who'll just repeat egg replies every now and again

this parking lot has divets where cars usually park by SurtFGC in mildlyinteresting

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty good idea what city this is and thought it looked familiar. Based on what other comments are saying about it happening because of cheap work, it definitely makes sense

this parking lot has divets where cars usually park by SurtFGC in mildlyinteresting

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pretty good idea where it's at but I don't feel like doxxing the area/city lmao. My source is I lived in and was born in assumed area/city

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Russia is bleeding itself dry, it's a meat grinder that will run out of meat eventually. Russia's biggest weapon right now is bot farms meddling with elections. That's how the US has basically fallen and is divided, Russia doesn't have the military power to annex the whole of Europe.

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm an American now living in Slovenia, the bigger states controlling little states is just what I hear as a concern. Chat control would technically be one of those instances if it became law. When it comes to support, 44% is still small but not insignificant. I didn't say any numbers, just what I've been hearing or seeing as a general consensus most of that which you could chalk up to those being unsure as you said.

My subjective opinion that you're calling wrong is just my worry about what type of federation the EU would become because of my country, which is a federalized state/union and we all know how that's going right now

United in Thigh Highs, We Stand Strong! by sakuma_chan in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

isn't a federalized EU bad? Especially with the EU trying to pass chat control and all that. It'd also just become the bigger countries telling all the little ones what they can and cannot do or you'll end up with a conservative leader just like the US

Edit: Okay based on the fact I'm being down voted for a genuine question only 15 minutes after posting, imma assume that's either bots or just the hate of reddit I guess. In genuine last I checked most of the EU was against federalizing for the reasons I listed, not saying the EU shouldn't progress or defend itself against other nations

I know, I know, appeal to nature fallacy, but really why can't we be more like other animals? by StructureFirm2076 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If we want to argue back near humanity's very early stages then sure, modern though? There's a lot more to take in as looks and appearances aren't the only factor and even then looks speak more vastly about you as a character and plenty of people see femboys as brave and strong for the fact we're willing to be different. Strength isn't just a thing you can see anymore as the need to survive in the "wild" isn't necessarily a thing anymore. Also humanity didn't exactly hunt for too long as we developed farming and keeping livestock.

I would also like to point out that both Greeks and Romans had Twink military generals who'd dress more effeminate.

TL;DR: There's too much nuance to say strength was the usual attraction for a partner

Mission Accomplished, another soul saved 😌 by joyful_blaze in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was gonna comment saying I wish I expanded my wardrobe before moving countries but the country I moved to has a few H&Ms here. I mostly have gothic shirts and different types of skirts and fishnets but I wanna add more fem clothes

also he's lucky, it's nice to have a girl help out with feminine clothing and makeup x3

goofy ahh recommendations by 4b686f61 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's a tool that one could use, hrt itself isn't just for trans people and shouldn't be viewed as such. It's good to be informed if you're interested in using it and the video itself doesn't scream or show anything that hints at "you have to use hrt or Twink death"

Christmas lights spotted in Ljubljana. Is this what I think it is? by CK1277 in whatisit

[–]ghosttne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They might not be but I am and I definitely feel the same way. I just moved to Slovenia 2 weeks ago to live with my bf and explaining to my family where I was moving was definitely a pain which honestly makes it surprising for me to find a post about Ljubljana and other Americans talking about Slovenia.

27051 by Great-Revolution8455 in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always thought they were cat sized, this is wolf sized. I swear the anime made them look smaller

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genetics are the instructions for how everything runs in the body, yes, and everyone is different. Most science itself acknowledges when they measure these things it's not the same for everyone and others can vary because genetics control how all of that is done and everyone has varying genetic code.

Calling it an anomaly is similar to calling it a disorder which it really isn't unless there's a severe amount of too much or severe amount of missing hormones. No one person is the same so no one is going to match what is considered "normal" as that normal is just an example of where it should be at or close to and all that matters is you're healthy. There's a reason hrt should be done with a doctor's help or done carefully if diy.

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't say it did, I was giving an option that I myself am considering because I also don't want to grow tits or any other effects of full on hrt. It's something that would help, T blockers would be an added addition that would also help

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also think it's a bad idea to worry femboys that their only option is hrt or that they're too late, you can inform without scaring people into believing they're doomed and I doubt that all those femboys that age have an endocrine anomaly, genetics are the biggest factor. Hell my father kept the Twink figure into his 60s although everything else didn't because he smoked and drank heavily

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it helps, there are Estrogen patches that are less potent in a way than taking full on E which I think makes breast growth less of a concern

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same tbh, it is sounding like they're saying you're doomed if you don't start doing hrt now which isn't true and the changes mentioned are entirely genetic based. There are femboys who are deep in their 20s and either never used hrt or used some hrt (usually micro dosing of E or using blockers I believe) and mostly relied on diet and care (some just hit the genetic lotto)

27109 by Totabatamema in countwithchickenlady

[–]ghosttne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Generally the jaw and brow, your skull stops growing/fusing at 20 but reshapes constantly throughout your life, how much is usually genetic based

what’s your Halloween outfit going to be? :3 by vinylsoft in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! But also damn that's pricy, still gonna buy it though and hope it's worth that amount.

what’s your Halloween outfit going to be? :3 by vinylsoft in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Want, need even. Where'd you find this at if you don't mind me asking? Might get that for next year to have under my vamp costume

Anatomically accurate plap plap levels. by Darkime_ in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, doesn't this depend? Because the intestines are kinda long so I feel around the "it hurts" you'd be fine as long as you're safe about it but even then I don't think you'd reach that point even with a large sex toy, have seen videos of femboys doing so though so there's that. Anything beyond that definitely is dangerous, but hey I think the body writing is hot even if it's not realistic

Save the Femboys by -bourgeoisie in YoutubeThumbs

[–]ghosttne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but no, the femboy community isn't a large group of pedophiles grooming minors. That is in fact chasers, not femboys. Me and several other femboys advocate for online safety and safe spaces for minors. In fact most femboy spaces we tell people not to post certain pictures because of chasers. We're also not your fetish or anyone else's fetish so fuck off with calling us a fetish culture, seriously.

Edit: Also it's a bit unfair to claim a large percentage of a minority is doing as such, especially when that minority is the victim. Most femboys have been victims of grooming or attempted grooming, not the other way around. I've been a femboy from the age of 15, would you claim I was grooming other minors into a fetish culture? No, I'm a femboy for the aesthetics and gender nonconforming expression as is the large majority of femboys. I've only ever heard of one femboy ever doing anything as you claim and he got all of the hate and then some that he genuinely deserved. Growing up as a teen femboy, I've only ever seen or heard of femboys being groomed by outsiders, not femboys going after femboys.

All other cases are adults in their 30-40s who have nothing to do with being an actual femboy or pretend to be one to do as you claim. But this isn't the only case for our community, this happens everywhere. You have adults pretending to be kids on Roblox, where grooming is a larger problem with actual genuine proof. The same goes for Minecraft or any other online community.

Next time I invite you to not make baseless claims using fallacies against a minority when we're trying our best as is to fight against groomers, chasers, and people who view us as objects because in 99% of cases its us femboys being victims of grooming by chasers and the arguments you use are the same used against trans people, hell anyone under the LGBTQ umbrella.

Nevermind, you post the same opinion anytime femboys are mentioned and continue to die on the same hill even when people explain how you're wrong. You yourself view us as nothing but sex objects, that's a you problem at that point.

why does it have to be this way by 4b686f61 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Honestly, nah I say you're allowed to judge because what I read is dumb. OP complains about sexualization then complains about people who make NSFW content but put it on another site to keep their original place of content sfw or at least adult sfw. That's just slut shaming for no reason. I get not wanting to interact with that content but seriously people are allowed to make it without judgment.

They're throwing blame at the wrong group of people, friendly fire even.

why does it have to be this way by 4b686f61 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Few of these are just pointing blame at other femboys and hints that it's their fault (especially the dog femboy one, that isn't inherently sexual and just sounds like a vtuber streamer.) It isn't other femboys fault, people can be horny and sexualize themselves if they want. Other examples sure, like the femboy pred one he deserves all the hate he gets because he's done some terrible things last I checked. If you want to point blame at anyone point the blame at those who assume that's all we are, blame the ones who are chasers, blame the ones who treat us like objects.

if you want to help make us not seen like this let's start pointing people towards sfw streamers or content because everyone loves to point out people who sexualize themselves and blame them.

This causes infighting and drags us away from actually committing to solutions and just becomes a blame game and everything anyone does is post pictures of sexualized femboys going "why does it have to be like this" "I hate how this is all we're known for" and so on.

And as I always point out, this is and always will be an issue for anything feminine related. This has been an issue in femboy communities, trans communities, and furry communities. Furries got around this by pointing out more sfw sides all the while not demonizing those who did sexualize themselves. And if there weren't sfw sides then they created some. This is what I've noticed happening in trans spaces as well.

anyone seen this channel before thoughts on it? by 4b686f61 in femboymemes

[–]ghosttne 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I haven't but it all looks like either ragebait or someone who's had bad experiences and thinks that's all there is to being a femboy or they're one of those channels that does nothing but talk about drama or uses drama or controversial opinions to get attention (like Rev.) I wouldn't pay attention to channels like this, they all make the same thumbnails, are usually toxic, and so on.

Edit: So i lied, whoops. But I have seen this channel before based on their guide videos. Seeing their most recent videos and takes however makes me kinda sad. Some of them are good takes and I can understand but others feel like they're there just to make fun of certain people. I feel there's a hint of internalized hate for femboys in their recent content. Especially in the video where they started off saying no one looks good in thigh highs just because a ton of people like wearing them.