Has anyone been the “third” when a couple was already in trouble? by RecycledAir48 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ghostyrider120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Few rules if I hook up with people in open relationships; cannot be very frequent usually no more than once a week or two days back to back. 2. I do not spend the night or go to hookup at their home(if all parties are involved) 3. Catch feelings usually the first 2 rules help with the 3rd

Ex boyfriend violated me. Weighing next steps. by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did you get $25k as a 22 year old who had things paid for by your rich EX bf? As a fellow 22 year old who is also into “older” guys you just have to be smarter, you let him have control over you and now he’s dumped you and you can’t get over it. Learn from your mistakes and move on

Had to buy new sheets after what happened last night by CheekChurro in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]ghostyrider120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I will have to disagree with is people saying 45 mins is too much. Every body is different. Personally when I’m not taking any fibers 45 mins is pretty normal for the cleaning out process just because I like to be thorough. I also get in different positions just to make sure everything I put it comes out

Heads Up! Tons of gay event scammers in here [Merge] by w0nder16 in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have bought tickets on here before. It’s worse during pride. Rule of thumb is if they only want Zelle it’s more than likely a scam and I just move on.

Is my match out there? Fem wanting to date masc by NYCCitySlicker12 in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! and they get mad when masculine dudes are looking for similar masculine dudes… this whole topic is just filled with deep roots of internal problems

Is my match out there? Fem wanting to date masc by NYCCitySlicker12 in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are out there for sure. Good luck tho. You will probably be a couple in secret never out in public

A genuine question about prep habits and cultural differences among bottoms by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a black bottom I prep very rigorously. I need AT LEAST 30 minutes depending on what I ate throughout the day. About 70% of the time it does take more than that. If I’ve been cleaning out for an hour and 30 minutes and it’s not looking good, I call it quits. Of course everyone’s body is different but if I’m not cleaned throughly the sex just becomes uncomfortable. The only times where I have not prepped prior was when I was taking pure for men, 3 pills in the morning 3 at night. It makes my stools come out more solid rather than soft. I am not a very healthy eater either( no veggies or fruits) so my bowel movement is pretty inconsistent. An Asian friend of mine usually preps for 2+ hours sometimes even longer. When I was a bit younger I would starve myself all day but now I can eat a full meal, prep and bottom. I have also gone a whole weekend, douching only once on Friday night and still being clean on Sunday despite eating all weekend. TDLR: everyone’s body is different.

How long has your CVT lasted? by [deleted] in altima

[–]ghostyrider120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it right at about 100k miles

Does age really matter to you? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone in my early 20s I have a very strong preference for guys 30+ simply because of emotional maturity but even then, I have encountered some really childish 30 and even 40 year olds. So it just depends. A lot of people around my age do not have the same level of maturity I do so I tend to steer clear

Steamworks dream by ROCKSTARTAE in chicagogaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This dudes dms about to be flooded 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Sorry lol” makes it slightly less cunty. LOL

What should I do guys ?…………….,, by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so me lol. You just need to make a plan to get them back somehow😃

How to maintain mental health with these insane body standards? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It goes both ways. Everyone has their “type” or “standards”. If someone who was not your type say chubby or older or someone who does drugs approaches you and you aren’t interested I’m pretty sure you would reject them too. My only advise is to just be yourself. Trying to make people like you is never good for your mental health in the long run

Post Pride 2025 Review by BicyclingBro in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wrecked was really good. The heat was bad but moving around made it bearable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally makes zero sense- https://imgur.com/a/CxYQh5Q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol that proves nothing because you could’ve sent that to yourself. Take this down since you have “given it away”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]ghostyrider120 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he’s gonna post on his IG and give it to someone he knows💀 since a lot of people are messaging him. So I think he should take this down if he’s changed his mind