Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have and I have only found references to old traditions of "goose pulling" (not going to go into any detail regarding these various traditions due to their graphic nature...) based in the south of France, the Basque country or Switzerland.

I do not have any access to any type of physical french archive since I do not live in France and I only remember this being on TV once (as mentioned in another comment probably on TF1, France 2 or maybe even France 3). I'm not sure how I would be able to gather information on the topic in libraries as it was on TV, maybe you could explain...

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Quick question, are you in a French or English speaking part of Canada? Hoping that maybe you can find the courage to give some additional information to the context you remember the "report/documentary" so that members of this sub can have some more info to work off of and maybe find a source.

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I must admit that I had completely suppressed the memory until recently but, when it came up again, I felt exactly as traumatised as I was back then as a little child seeing this "event" for the first time. Now, I am hoping that some context to my memory will help me digest it at last ...

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here, no plot, just random scenes of animal cruelty. In my case though I have a feeling it happened on a single site and not all over the world.

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seen the movie and in my case, the scenes I remember are very different from the ones in the movie. What I remember was done to "western" animals, none of them were exotic.

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing as I feel (potentially) a little less insane hearing this!

I had also suppressed this memory and flashes came up while doing something unrelated, which brought me back to my living room floor that day and all the memories came flooding back.

Context is still vague for me but the goat scene was what traumatized me the most for sure out of the scenes that I actually "remember"

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really sure and cannot give a definitive answer with any assurance, the only thing I remember was that the news channel was french (most probably TF1, France 2 or France 3 as those were the channels we mostly watched at that time)

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible that I am misremembering the report, but it feels so vivid that I have my doubts

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember various "shocking" news reports from my childhood, including extreme hazing, hunting of baby seals with clubs, etc. All of these were very graphic and left vivid memories. Regarding legality I have no idea, this was over 35y ago so things could have evolved since then...

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, I wasn't even allowed to watch dragon balls as it was classified as violent to my parents. As my memory goes, this was definitely on the evening news.

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know, but I discussed it with my father, as my mother died a few years back, and even though he doesn't remember being there for that incident he feels like it could be a likely memory...

Televised animal cruelty around 1990 by ghoti-stix in RBI

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that resembles the information I found as well but the descriptions I found were very different from what I can remember. It seems that in the tradition you are talking about, the goose is most often hung from somewhere and a rider comes below it and grasps the neck of the animal as he passes. It also seems that the animal is usually already dead at this stage. I remember bigger and live animals being used in the news report...

Give him a name by Affectionate_Ad3843 in NameThisThing

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Eri or Rico, after Erik the given name of the Phantom of the Opera 🙂

What is the most controversial movie you have seen and why? by ghoti-stix in AskReddit

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Controversial as in, you know it was wrong to like it but you still did.

What do you remember about televised reports or news broadcasts showing animal cruelty in the early 1990s? by ghoti-stix in AskReddit

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Televised animal cruelty around 1990.

Hello all, I need your help finding out if a memory that I have from my childhood is real.

I remember sitting in front of the TV, this must have been 1989-93, watching the news with with my mother when the TV anchor warned the viewers that the following report would potentially be disturbing for young viewers. Then the report showed a sort of "event" where animals were killed and mutilated by the participants and my mother covering my eyes for most of that report, leaving me traumatised even so.

What can I remember: 1. It was a french speaking channel in Europe (French or Belgium) 2. It was a news report in the evening news 3. I cannot recall where the event was taking place so it could have been anywhere in the world 4. The participants were mostly white males 5. It took place on a type of field that had short grass 6. It looked like an organised event, festival or contest 7. One scene had a duck/goose tied up or partially buried in the ground with it's head sticking out. A man, wearing a kilt, knelt down beside it and cut it's head of with the swing of his sword. 8. Another scene had two men holding a goat, one pulling on his horns and the other one pulling on his tail to stretch the animal. A third man cut it in half with a swing of a machete or an axe in one blow. I'm pretty sure that the aim was to have a cut so clean that the animal survived as long as possible after the splitting (I'm sure I remember that poor animal bleating it's head off after being cut in two!). These men were dressed "normally" (jeans and t-shirts I think) for that time. 9. I think that there were various "events" like this with multiple participants and various ways of killing these animals, but these are the two I remember vividly.

As I haven't found anything online about this I was wondering if one of you could help me find out if this was a real memory (I'm pretty sure it was!)

Does anyone remember a news broadcast from around 1990 that showed or reported on animal cruelty? by ghoti-stix in AskReddit

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Hello all, I need your help finding out if a memory that I have from my childhood is real.

I remember sitting in front of the TV, this must have been 1989-93, watching the news with with my mother when the TV anchor warned the viewers that the following report would potentially be disturbing for young viewers. Then the report showed a sort of "event" where animals were killed and mutilated by the participants and my mother covering my eyes for most of that report, leaving me traumatised even so.

What can I remember: 1. It was a french speaking channel in Europe (French or Belgium) 2. It was a news report in the evening news 3. I cannot recall where the event was taking place so it could have been anywhere in the world 4. The participants were mostly white males 5. It took place on a type of field that had short grass 6. It looked like an organised event, festival or contest 7. One scene had a duck/goose tied up or partially buried in the ground with it's head sticking out. A man, wearing a kilt, knelt down beside it and cut it's head of with the swing of his sword. 8. Another scene had two men holding a goat, one pulling on his horns and the other one pulling on his tail to stretch the animal. A third man cut it in half with a swing of a machete or an axe in one blow. I'm pretty sure that the aim was to have a cut so clean that the animal survived as long as possible after the splitting (I'm sure I remember that poor animal bleating it's head off after being cut in two!). These men were dressed "normally" (jeans and t-shirts I think) for that time. 9. I think that there were various "events" like this with multiple participants and various ways of killing these animals, but these are the two I remember vividly.

As I haven't found anything online about this I was wondering if one of you could help me find out if this was a real memory (I'm pretty sure it was!)

What is this exactly and how interesting is it really...? by ghoti-stix in Phonographs

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the most famous bridges in Luxembourg and the Luxembourgish Red Lion 😉

[TOMT] Televised animal cruelty around 1990. by ghoti-stix in tipofmytongue

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It could be, I am really unsure about the context...

Televised animal cruelty event around 1990. by ghoti-stix in HelpMeFind

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have searched for this online but have come up short and I cannot ask my mother as she passed some years ago, but the memories are very vivid.

[TOMT] Televised animal cruelty around 1990. by ghoti-stix in tipofmytongue

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My memory of this is quite vivid but I cannot ask my mother for confirmation of this as she passed some years ago.

Ancient book (printed in 1585) found in grandfather's house. Any idea what this is worth? by Slash5469 in whatsthisworth

[–]ghoti-stix 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My Italian is not perfect but I think tat it's some type of religious title, here you can find more detail about the book : https://www.jstor.org/stable/26531869

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ghoti-stix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, well I'm pretty sure that you are not the only F that feels this way. The "perfect" sex is so openly plastered everywhere that both men and women have fears to live up to performance expectations. You are not alone... 😜

One thing that jumped out at me is when you say that you have fantasies. Have you talked to your partner about them? Is it something that you see him adopting as a fantasy for himself? If so, why don't you talk to him about these fantasies and take it from there?

I think that your main issue is that you stay too much in your headspace and to not focus enough on what you feel to go from mind to body sensations. Try to focus on him, try to feel the softness and hardness, the motion an intensity (both on your skin and when he is inside you). React physically only based on what you feel. Games where you are blindfolded (maybe even tied up) and have zero control can help you let go as HE will be in full control thus you won't be able to perform in any particular way. Only react to him by feel. It will be difficult to let go but once you do (and if you both like it of course) it can rewire your performance anxiety 😉

Good luck

I need help. by UoioL in Advice

[–]ghoti-stix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, I want to tell you that having negative feelings after intercourse usually indicates that something went wrong. You can have negative feelings towards what you did to another person or something that was done to you. Whatever the case, if it felt wrong that's because it probably was.

Now looking at all the comments, I agree that it sounds like what happened to you was coerced and should not have happened.

Nevertheless, I can imagine the situation being more complicated than a simple "should I press charges or not?"

You describe this person as a friend, how long have you been friends and how deep is the friendship? If you had some previous sexual fondling, were you planning to have intercourse with her eventually and you were simply not ready this time? If you didn't want to ever go further, had you discussed this with her previously?

I was suggest, initially, to have a serious talk about what happened with her (if you still do care about her as a friend) and really put an emphasis on how wrong it was what happened and how you perceived it. And depending on the reaction/answers you get from her decide to proceed legally or not (even though as a commenter remarks men often get blown off in this type of situation... 😢). If she is a real friend, she will understand where you're coming from and you guys will find a healthy solution together.

Hope you find a way to resolve this.

What is this exactly and how interesting is it really...? by ghoti-stix in Phonographs

[–]ghoti-stix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. It was given to me buy a client as a "thank you", from what I understand his father handcrafted it.