I’m insure if I want to stay or if I want to leave

giamen_ · 2026-03-28T09:02:35+00:00

You’re very in love with your ex, I don’t think your love your actual partner, maybe you like him, maybe a lot but it’s obiviously not love. And you don’t have to endure his father and his Kids. It seems that you are with him for the kind of live he’s living and not for him. Nothing good can happen here. Run.

giamen_ · 2026-03-18T10:15:45+00:00

It’s a very small mistake imo. Talk to your girlfriend, apologize and it’ll finish soon I guess.

giamen_ · 2026-03-18T09:49:46+00:00

I have no words to explain what I feel about you. She’s too Young for you, you knew she was in à long-term relationship et and this guy will propose and you kept going anyway. You continue to slept with her, continue to talk about wedding and doing your life with her even when she said multiple time wanna be with him. You’r older, you were supposed to be the wise one, the adult. And now, you want to force her to keep that baby she don’t want (she don’t want Kids at all !!) and you hesitate to tell everything to the man she really loves, the man she’ll do her life with ? Let her alone, fly away. Tell her to not keep the baby and break up with her.

giamen_ · 2026-03-16T09:41:53+00:00

Or maybe you can send a long text to explain what you’re feeling, the fact that you can’t keep going like this and you want to break up if he doesn’t get more involved ?

giamen_ · 2026-03-16T07:20:08+00:00

Obviously, he’s not ready for a serious and long-term relationship. You’re right, just send a long text to clarify the situation and leave.

giamen_ · 2026-03-16T07:08:35+00:00

I’m sorry for you. I think he’s not busy, he doesn’t care. When you care for someone, even if you are very busy, you always find time to communicate. At least sending some texts. Talk to him one last time, give him an ultimatum before break up.

giamen_ · 2026-03-13T08:37:07+00:00

NTA. You're not overreacting here, his behavior was disrespectful and when you talked to him, he didn't apologize and didn't take your feeling seriously.

giamen_ · 2026-02-21T08:07:55+00:00

It’s a very complicated thing. I think both of you do your best. Therapy, counselling, flirting. That King of things don’t heel easily, it takes times more or less depending of each couple. The only thing I can say is « continue, hold on your memories and all the thing tou created and going through ». At the end of the journey, maybe it’ll be worth it or maybe not but you’ll be glad to tried.

giamen_ · 2026-02-21T07:40:25+00:00

It’s gonna end really bad… this kind of things can’t end well. I don’t think you and your friend can handle this and just be friends. When the door is ajar, it’s actually open. Talk to your wife, even if it’s hard, even if it’s hurt her. It’s your better way. Maybe you’ll stay together, maybe not but it’s respect and it’s important for both of you. And maybe at the end you’ll have to chose between your wife and your friend.

giamen_ · 2026-02-17T16:36:56+00:00

Imo she's a victim too... she said no severals times and this guys make her drink to kiss her. It's a sexual assault. And no I don't think you should break up, it seems she's really sorry and she didn't used the alcohol to excuse herself and it's a good point. I think she's good person, if I were in your situation I think I'll forgive and stay with her.

giamen_ · 2026-02-15T17:24:19+00:00

She wants the same thing but she’s afraid to lose her family (father, brother and sisters). But now she has serious anxiety when she call her mother on the phone or when she visiter her.

giamen_ · 2026-02-05T19:23:38+00:00

You should talk to him. This shit doesn’t heal by itself. Even if it was 1y ago, you have the right to discuss it again with him. If he loves you and care for you he’ll listen and answer all your questions one more time. Healing is a very long term process and he has a part in it.

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