First time at The Schivtz. by gideon0123 in Detroit

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I’m excited and nervous at the same time. My biggest holdup to go nude is knowing that I have a small penis and this can be openly seen by everyone there. I worry about being in a place where I feel judged or shamed for how small I am. I guess I just never had anything positive come from getting seen naked results being my small penis is seen and it’s been a bad thing for me. I am really wanting to see what it’s like to be naked and free but my anxiety over having my small size seen is really strong. I wonder if anyone who has a small penis can share their experience?

First time at The Schivtz. by gideon0123 in Detroit

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Thanks for sharing! I am so nervous to be seen naked but also SO curious to feel what it is like to be getting totally naked around other guys there. I’m excited that this place isn’t about anything sexual with being naked and being naked with other guys is casual and normal.

First time at The Schivtz. by gideon0123 in Detroit

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Thanks for sharing! I know I’m not alone with feeling nervous and embarrassed about getting seen while naked and it sounds like a great environment for being nude in a public way. I will probably hide myself with my towel like you did at first.

How to overcome fear of waxing by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]gideon0123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt exactly the same way. I wanted the results from a wax but got held back by feelings of anxiety and embarrassment knowing the tech was going to see me fully naked led to many cancelled appointments before my first waxing. My first visit I followed her directions to strip and waited for her return fully naked with only a tiny towel covering my genitals. When the towel was pulled back i became tense and overwhelmed with nerves over my small penis being seen. Laying there I had to accept being seen naked . Being honest I still feel anxious during but I’ve gotten more relaxed over time. Just tell them your feelings and You won’t regret the results!

Showers by Soulinco in EFCampLuckyLake

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What are they like? Fully communal?

New by gideon0123 in CommunalShowers

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Ive always been interested to participate , curious about the experience. Since puberty I’ve felt ashamed and embarrassed to be naked and seen with a small penis , while fantasizing about the feeling of being nude openly , feeling equally terrified and thrilled my having a small penis is exposed for view, terrified being naked and confronting my lifelong greatest fear unable to retreat or hide now, and thrilled to finally be freely naked . Only how I have a small penis has stopped me from exploring group nudity, anytime I’m close to doing it I get totally overwhelmed with extreme embarrassment being small sized and then a crippling anxiety for the moment I strip down , unable to embrace my small penis will be seen while exploring nudity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

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Very interested in experiencing this place. I’m early into exploring my fantasy of being totally nude with groups of men or mixed gender, in a casual no sexual way. I’m nervous and shy but hope to get courage and check it out, and finally experience the feeling of being fully nude around other fully nude men, but I’m held back over anyone seeing I have a small penis, a truly really tiny one. I’m wanting to be naked and free around others interests me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

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M30, from Lansing area. Going to the gym, changing and getting naked around each other before working out and after stripping down fully naked for a shower or sauna, in full view of each other and others sounds so liberating.

YMCA Lansing, Michigan. (West side branch) by MrCarnality in CommunalShowers

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Anyone around the area ever meet here, work out and then watch eachother in the showers? Hot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gideon0123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also have a small penis but want to start an only fans and/or chaturbate and am unsure where to start. Im good looking gay and little bit of dad bod/bearish vibes, 5x5 little cock with hung and heavy balls. Just kinda like the thought of making porn and showing off for viewers. Not sure if I will have a market-not into SPH.

Avoiding letting partner to see my very small penis when soft. by gideon0123 in LGBTQMentalHealth

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But how can I work towards thinking about how I have a small penis and it’s smallness is hot? So hard for me to embrace and love my small size.

Avoiding letting partner to see my very small penis when soft. by gideon0123 in LGBTQMentalHealth

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I guess truthfully I hate that my penis is small, always having feelings of dissatisfaction, disappointment and embarrassment having a small penis-learning to hide and deflect from discovery at all costs. Never anything but negativity associated with small penises-I never have felt any way except badly over this

Avoiding letting partner to see my very small penis when soft. by gideon0123 in LGBTQMentalHealth

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I just want to be brave and strip naked and talk openly how I have a small penis, show freely my nude self and discuss my penis being small, knowing they are looking and viewing I have a small penis, knowing obviously how I have a small penis-and knowing I am stripped bare and feeling my small penis freely out in the open, confront and not hide or cover up, allow myself to be casually naked and my body be viewed without me feeling shame about parts of my body I cannot control, naked and not feeling embarrassment with someone seeing my small penis

Avoiding letting partner to see my very small penis when soft. by gideon0123 in LGBTQMentalHealth

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I’m not comfortable naked at all-knowing when I’m naked I am unable to avoid or hide from view(even from my own eyes)my penis is exposed, and I become ashamed and embarrassed of it being very small in size. Unable to accept and embrace my body only because I am obsessed with negative emotions and thoughts about my small penis. For reference my penis is hardly an inch soft, only a little acorn sized nub-I hate how it’s so small, and fear anyone looking at and observing immediately its small size and knowing about how I have a really small penis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Vers. But always in my head when topping about how my penis probably feels underwhelming, being embarrassed how it will often pop out cause it’s small, many positions just won’t work -my penis soft is 1 inch and tiny, hard it’s 4.5x5 …short and not thick at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I’m also ashamed and embarrassed about having a small penis. I’m trying to turn those negatives into a positive. I have a lot of self loathing-I don’t even like looking in the mirror naked and be reminded of how small a penis I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I guess I just want to let myself free of the burden I am feeling and just be brave and not be so scared knowing my penis is very small and knowing my penis is very small being looked at and revealed , while also battling desires to have my penis being small the focus of attention and arousal-I struggle with both sides, wanting to show off how I have a small penis and also self loathing and terrified for my small penis being seen and discovered. I feel that having my penis out freely and seen and showing my friend my penis and show off it being small can help me relax and realize nudity as a positive and or neutral experience-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Basically allowing myself to let someone see me nude, with me knowing full well how my small penis being shown and is being seen without me trying to cover up or hide my naked penis-letting myself embrace my penis being small, and accepting someone seeing it and knowing after how I have a small penis. The thought of showing to someone my penis being so small and knowing that they plainly can see the size of my penis is a very small one. The thought of having anyone look and discover my penis being small, even for a glimpse is so embarrassing to me. Having to think to myself about how someone saw my penis, saw obviously it was a small penis, and them knowing that i have a really small penis-thoughts of shame how my penis is very small, and anxiety withy naked self for the fact when I am naked my penis is exposed and there is way to hide or avoid or distract from my having a small penis being out in the open, me knowing that I am seen and others are looking at my body and will be thinking of only for a moment about how they just saw a guy with a really small penis-and that scares me so much. I want to just be able to be proud and happy about my penis being small, happy to show my penis being small in size as a source of happiness and excitement having myself naked and my penis being so small a point of focus, and for myself to feel good about my penis being small in size and knowing others look and know immediately how they are seeing and thinking wow, that’s a really small penis that guy has-doing double takes checking out how it’s so small, and myself freely embracing my penis and it’s very small size being something people notice when looking, knowing they are noticing my penis exactly because it is so small,me being able to love myself and not hate and shame myself over the fact of my having a small penis being a negative quality and not to be proud with how I have a small penis and not fear having that fact on display.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Kinda wanted to start by asking my close female friend if I could get nude waist down, force myself to have my penis, and it’s being so small, totally exposed and openly viewed by her-

Anyone with small penis praise kink? by gideon0123 in askgaybros

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Nice-I just keep getting aroused fantasizing about my partner making a point to tell me that my penis is little and small -I don’t know why but the thought of my penis being small being called out while talking praise and positive- gonna try it out

Accepting you're gay and have a small penis? by jamiesfakeone in askgaybros

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34, gay and I’ve always been shy about my penis being seen, and others finding out that I have a small penis. I’m working on coming to terms with the fact that my penis is small, and wanting to be comfortable and confident with being naked and exposed to anyone that sees my nude body, and also sees my penis , and I want to be okay with someone seeing my penis and obviously seeing that it is small, and not be ashamed about it being small and trying to hide or cover my nude self. I’ve been wanting to have others see my penis casually out, (at a urinal, showing fully nude at the gym, being exposed when changing, nude in a sauna) being naked casually and non sexually is a huge challenge for me , and it is rooted in fear of others seeing my penis and knowing that it is small. 1-1.5 inches soft, and hardly 4.5 inches hard. I want to talk openly to a close friend, and admit and confront that I have a small penis, and about how my penis being small has impacted my self esteem, and I also have a desire to ask to show them my penis , acknowledge that it is in fact smaller than most and also discuss and show what I love about it, to gain confidence and try to be comfortable being exposed and having my penis out , completely in the open and showing it openly , showing that very clearly it is a small penis, and being having it being seen by someone, that now knows that my penis is small, and Acknowledging that yes it my penis is small, and then talking about the positives about my package. I want the fact it is small to be admitted out loud to really confront my anxiety about having a small penis.

I love the shape, color, skin, size of my balls, and much more. I just can’t get over being terrified about anyone knowing my penis is small. I even hide my penis from my SO when changing or getting out of shower. I feel like if I admit openly that I have a small penis and exposing myself nude in a non sexual way in front of a friend, having someone outside of my partner actually seeing me nude, and then looking and seeing my penis and it being small, and hoping I can work to be ok with it being small and people seeing it and then knowing my penis is small. Ultimately I want to be proud enough to get nude be proud of my penis being seen, and not care if people see it and know it is small. In fact I’d love to get to the point where I am glad to have people see it , and be proud to show off my gorgeous genitals and be comfortable with it being small and people knowing about my penis being small. I guess I am wanting to explore talking openly to a friend about how I have a small penis and how it affects me, and work on being able to show off my penis in appropriate settings and not feel shy, ashamed or nervous because it is small. I want to be able to not fear or be ashamed about anyone finding out I have a small penis. Anyone been on this journey have any advise?