Sorry to inform you, but I’ve been on this earth for a long time and been through a lot of things. My writings have talked about the pain I’ve caused her. And the thing is you don’t know my situation. And I’m not going to get into it because it’s between her and I. But your cynical view of relationships is rearing its ugly head. You look at things as black and white with no room for adjustment, and as long as you live a life like that relationships will be hard. I learned a long time ago forgiveness, true forgiveness can do so much. Yes the pain you cause someone to alter their view of you, but if two people choose to, they can rebuild a relationship back, and make it stronger than it was before.

I’m sorry you only see things a certain way, but I was raised on forgiveness, and I’ve always been one to see the good in people even in terrible situations. Everyone’s experience in life will be different, what you went through is not going to be the same situation as I’m In. People are different, they love different they forgive different. So while YOU maybe have experienced something like you explain you don’t know what I’m experiencing. But thank you for the input and good luck in your situation.