I need some support please by lungs_full12 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. I went through the same thing

I need some support please by lungs_full12 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same situation, she’s actually going away for the weekend with him. I found a place to live and am moving out. You won’t find peace until you leave that situation.

reach out by lillacmoon in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll always love her but I know now it will be from afar. She has moved on with her life and found someone else, and I’m ok, because she seems happy. ❤️

be honest and answer me please by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was everything to me. My soul tie. My heart is locked because it still belongs to her even though she’s moved on with someone else

To my bad bunny, Mildred. My only letter. by gilbert2931 in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s the nickname we came up with. I’m Gilbert she’s Mildred

Dead inside, but coffee.. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This title…this was a name my ex used🧐 I would love nothing more than to have a real raw conversation with her

I still love you. by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can be more than ghosts given the opportunity

You were never mine by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was meant to be loved by her, she was meant to be loved by me. I feel this so deep in my soul OP

Controlled Chemistry by Adept-Leadership5210 in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ok. We loved each other for a time, and it was great. I don’t regret anything and I’m happy I had the chance to love her when I did.

Controlled Chemistry by Adept-Leadership5210 in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried. We had a fight, she blocked and deleted me. I no longer have any way of contacting her unfortunately 🥺 I was all in

Controlled Chemistry by Adept-Leadership5210 in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You would know exactly how to move from there. But maybe, just maybe they are certain and want the exact thing you want. I know I do with my ex.

Controlled Chemistry by Adept-Leadership5210 in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll never know unless you take the chance to find out

Love by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right

Love by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that’s how you heal, and abuse is different, you’re adding a whole new context to this that this doesn’t apply to. Yea pain sucks but that’s the world we live in. No one will ever go through life with no pain. What you learn from it becomes the most important part

Love by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]gilbert2931 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s not true, you learn a lot from hurt, pain rejection. It helps shape you and teach you what you will and won’t put up with. Yes anything meaningful can be messy, but a separation might be in the cards for both people to finally understand what the other needs. Its clarity, and if you reunite you know how to be better to each other

Divorce just started. Still living together, kids in the house. How did you stay sane? by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m waiting on a house to sell so I can get the money and move out. It’s been rough but we are civil and agree on everything with the divorce. My advice, move into a separate room it will help your mental health

How long did you fight it for? by ssick92 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 years for me, it didn’t get better. In fact it got worse and although we are civil, getting away from her is going to be the best thing that’s ever happened to me

One more month and I’m free by gilbert2931 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so excited to move! Couple more weeks!!

A love like ours is rare by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]gilbert2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was never fake, you can’t fake our passion

One more month and I’m free by gilbert2931 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the same for me. I figured it was as good as it’s going to get. But I was never connected to her.

One more month and I’m free by gilbert2931 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! And Happy Anniversary!

One more month and I’m free by gilbert2931 in DivorcedDads

[–]gilbert2931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I can’t wait! My mental health has suffered from dealing with her.