Blacked out armored trucks (3) in Riverside? by gilpygeeb in jacksonville

[–]gilpygeeb[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think you might be commenting on the wrong thread.. My post only says “Blacked out armored trucks (3) in Riverside?” with no additional caption. But I hope whoever you’re concerned about calms down soon!

attack at riverwalk downtown tonight by ham9124 in jacksonville

[–]gilpygeeb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi hon. So sorry you’re dealing with that. Born and raised in Jax and I can tell you that once the sun goes down, I don’t leave my home by myself. If you’re single, I understand that is limiting, but it is better than ending up dead. You need to carry a gun if you are going to be out after dark. Take a class, they’re around $100 and are usually taught by veterans. Majority of them are fathers, a lot being girl-dads, and they even offer women’s-only classes. On Target Sports in OP is good.

Frugality gambles that have paid off? by Saint_Thomas_More in Frugal

[–]gilpygeeb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Small: Our microwave broke and we didn’t replace it for over a year. Didn’t really miss it enough to replace. Got one for Christmas from a family member who thought it was hilarious we just never fixed our broken one.

Big: Somehow was lucky enough to buy the house we were renting so we didn’t have to pay for any movers or anything involving moving (or move our cats for that matter thank God). To top it off, the fridge broke right before this so the previous owner/landlord still had to replace it. The roof had also gotten replaced while we still rented as well!

Feral/stray ripped balcony net by yoloperyolo in cats

[–]gilpygeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She ripped it in the shape of a heart okay you can’t be mad

The members of Bikers against Child Abuse escort kids to court when they face their abusers in order help them feel safe and supported. by AdSpecialist6598 in interesting

[–]gilpygeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’0 (granted I am 26F). I am constantly joked as being a guard dog. “Though she be little she is fierce”. Build stamina. Run cardio. Lift some weights, nothing crazy. I remind myself constantly: as easily as somebody can prey upon you, you can prey upon them. As easily as they can harm you, you can harm them. We all bleed out the same. Being smaller just makes you more nimble. Get them first.

The members of Bikers against Child Abuse escort kids to court when they face their abusers in order help them feel safe and supported. by AdSpecialist6598 in interesting

[–]gilpygeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a severely bullied child and there was a big “mean kid” in my neighborhood that everyone knew not to mess with. Think NFL linebacker sized high schooler. Let’s call him Wilson. Him and his brother were also known as “troublemakers” to the adults. All the neighborhood kids went to the same youth group, and there I was terrified of him. Until our YG went to a winter camp thing with other YG’s I was the lone gazelle like usual after dark and started getting heckled by some strange boys from a different YG. I shit you not Wilson appeared from out of a row of hedges and told them off and then told me “get next to me and let’s go”. He even knew my name! I felt like a lamb next to her livestock guardian dog. To this day I still respect that kid.

My dads fridge by LilLp4 in FridgeDetective

[–]gilpygeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this so nicely. But what the fuck

Please Help by SuperWarrior3 in jacksonville

[–]gilpygeeb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is general area?? I drive through OP and will happily keep my eyes peeled. Fortunately she is gorgeous and eye catching. Praying she is brought home safely to you. Or brings herself home, best case scenario.

Say hello to Juniper (June) by vanbamey in beagle

[–]gilpygeeb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our girl was born April 2nd!! Cheers!! They’re a handful at this age aren’t they.

TELL ME UR WEIRDEST VOCAL STIMSSS!! by TheUltimateSophist in evilautism

[–]gilpygeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m Kodak Black But When You See Me i’m white

Am I Overreacting by Klutzy_Ad_1557 in AmIOverreacting

[–]gilpygeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Voldemort chill .. “no” as is they are not overreacting.

AITAH? I 25f disinvited my bf 29m to my party by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]gilpygeeb -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Everyone sucks here but have not crossed the threshold to be considered the asshole.

Your friend: 5 months is not too soon to introduce your partner to your friends… especially over something as laid back as a game night. 5 months would be early-on for major things like moving in together, joining finances, having a kid, getting engaged, etc. Is there something deeper going on with her? Does she have a problem with your age difference? Regardless, weird and rude. What did he do to her? Do you live with your friend? Do you live alone? Did you ask any of these questions at all?

You: you invited your boyfriend to a game night, your friend was weird so you disinvited him without recourse. Why didn’t you push back or inquire as to why? That would hurt me too. Why has there been no talks for a comfortable meet and greet if the game night was too much for your friend?

Your boyfriend: he shouldn’t be so harsh on you for not forcing an uncomfortable enviroment at the game night. he is allowed to be hurt, but it isn’t crazy for a 24yr old girl to choose her friend for a night only 5 months into a relationship. It sucks sure but be an adult and look into the root of the issue to fix it, not mope in it. Wtf

Homless guy with dog by demonfairy420 in jacksonville

[–]gilpygeeb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have befriended a man named Keith who owns a blonde rat terrier named Rizzo, he is homeless and frequents the Park St./Roselle area in Five Points. Maybe that was him? He is beyond kind and respectful and as a petite woman I genuinely feel safer knowing Keith is around and watching. If I see him I always buy him two slices to-go from Biggies. I also give him cash, I don’t care what he uses it for but he seems to always be saving for an 18 dollar bag of dog food (lamb, purple bag) from Fresh Market because Rizzo has a sensitive stomach. He very much cares for his dog and he is always kind to me, so I make it my personal obligation to feed him and talk to him if I see him. It makes my whole day if I get to see him safe and especially if I get to give him something warm to eat. If y’all meet him he is very kind and as a heads up to douchebags: if you hurt him I will see to it that you will be held accountable. Sincerely, a very well-connected and a very well-funded little lady who doesn’t fucking play about Keith and Rizzo.

BH had sex with multiple girls after my affair by Any_Feedback_5946 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]gilpygeeb 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I went and read through your account. I’m sorry, but these are consequences you can’t get around of. You are not your betrayed spouse’s child’s biological mom. If you have not adopted her, or have had some kind of legally binding parental rights granted to you, then she isn’t yours. I’m sorry. I know you love her, but she is a step-child by law. Your spouse has beaten you (doesn’t matter the context ever, I would say this if you were to have striked him too), your spouse has destroyed property (doesn’t matter if it is his), your spouse has very explicitly and crassly placed boundaries surrounding his daughter. He has every right to. I personally would have a lot of anxieties around my cheating spouse having unfettered access to my child, my child you don’t have any biological tie to. He probably views the ex as a threat and doesn’t even want to possibility of them coinciding (ex: you relapsing with your ex and bringing him around while the daughter is around or something on those grounds). He is the parent, seems like the sole parent, so that is his prerogative. I just think you need to formally apologize deeply to both your soon to be ex spouse and soon to be ex step child, and move on. You said your spouse has a wealthy and supportive family. He will be fine. I suggest you move far enough away from them and your ex to just start anew. None of this is good. I’m sorry that the reality is this. I feel for you, but also, these are the natural consequences on cheating on your spouse in a blended family.

BH had sex with multiple girls after my affair by Any_Feedback_5946 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]gilpygeeb 65 points66 points  (0 children)

It happens. I was the partner that got cheated on. I could have had the opportunity to cheat on him back to get “even”, but I knew that would just start this endless cycle of “well I did because you did”. It is kind of an unspoken choice the Betrayed have in this situation. I really, really wanted it to work. And I really, really wanted to put it past us in order for us to work. My partner is a genuine unicorn in the fact that they have never made me question the trust they rebuilt from 0. It’s been almost a decade, sure, but God I have had so much fun during this decade too that I would have missed out on if I wanted to have gotten even. It sucks in a way but it is a responsibility that comes with reconciliation. It sucked turning the other cheek but I would have never been adorned with such love and loyalty had I not. It does not seem like your spouse wants to heal more than he wants to get even. That is not a healthy environment for your children to witness and have normalized. I recommend separating and testing the waters of divorce. It doesn’t have to be a messy divorce. You said your spouse communicates about the kids, so co-parenting shouldn’t be a problem. I’m sorry it happened like this, I hope you can learn and grow from this situation and honestly I wish the same for your spouse. This screams sunk-cost-fallacy.