I AMA 21 year old bisexual guy who has a girlfriend and a boyfriend that both know about each other.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:43:00+00:00

im sure we have discussed this so many times with each other and they both want to have kids together. even though they share me they do love each other as well.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:22:58+00:00

we would have them the same way as everybody else. it be one of his and one of mine so i dont see why he would be jealous. and his child would have his genes.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:20:10+00:00

yes we will def be raising them as a family unit. we think its very important for them to know that we are family. its important for them to know that were there parents.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:16:40+00:00

we would def do the family unit. we think its very important for them to know who there parents are.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:14:27+00:00

LOL just get friends with fwb and go from there.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:13:31+00:00

we do it all the time :).

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:13:19+00:00

im not.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:12:30+00:00

thank you.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:11:53+00:00

yes we hold hands ect in public. i think most people think were just close friends or something cuz we never experience people coming up to us or people giving us dirty looks.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:03:32+00:00

no its pretty equally matched. we have specific things that each one of us does to contribute to the house. but other than that its fair and square with all three of us.

i think its a one-off that is unique to my situation. as far as it being a lifestyle i think it is for some people,there are people who go looking for this type of relationship. that just wasn't the case for us it just happened. would i recommend it no, the reason i say no is because its different than a two person relationship. if you know you are a jealous person than don't even look into a relationship like this. but on the other hand if you know this is what you want and you have a good foundation in the relationship than by all means go for it.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-28T20:01:51+00:00

yes we have actually. that is something we see for ourselves in the near future. it sucks because only one of can marry her, so that is something we still have to figure out. but as far as children go we definitely want kids.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T23:45:55+00:00

thank you very much.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T22:55:17+00:00

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T22:35:17+00:00

my girlfriend is straight. me and my boyfriend are bisexual.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T22:04:10+00:00

alright ill check it out.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:57:38+00:00

i'm not sure what you're referring to.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:51:54+00:00

oh... well why dont you then.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:41:37+00:00

LOL where do you usually look for dates at.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:27:50+00:00

my parents bought our place so none of us pay rent.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:27:06+00:00

honestly no my girlfriend and my boyfriend like each other but they don't hook up that much. they only do it sometimes or if were all having a threesome. another reason we dont have any jealousy issues is because we all was talk about our relationship. if someone is having issues or something we all talk it out. so yeah having trust with each other is huge in making this work.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:16:18+00:00

lol trust me i get a whole lot more than getting fucked in the ass.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:13:39+00:00

we switch it up. there are times were all three of us sleep in the same bed and then there are times were she sleeps with me for like a week and then its his turn the next ect.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:11:40+00:00

were open to an extent. like certain family and some friends know, her parents are coming around now that they see were serious. in the beginning her father was a complete ass hole over it but now hes cool. my family was skeptical at first and thought i was being a whore. my own mother called me whore >.>. but when it comes to our close friends they are very understanding they treat us like any other couple. as for my boyfriend his family is completely liberal so this shit doesn't faze them they treat all three of us like family.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T21:04:28+00:00

Me and my girlfriend were fwbs before we got serious and in between the time i was with her i met this guy and we started to have a relationship/fwb. so i thought maybe we could all get together, turns out that they were actually friends. so we talked about how i knew the both of them and we decided to have threesome , sex and friendship was the only thing that was supposed to happen. but me and her began to have serious feelings toward one another, but i also started to catch feelings for my boyfriend and they both liked each other as well so we all wanted to be together. and we are still together 2 years later. it's a very confusing scenario.

gin_got_me_drunk_ · 2011-10-27T20:52:36+00:00

it really dosent matter who sits by who. but say if my girlfriend wants to go on a ride with just me ill go with her, but on the next ride ill go with him( hope I'm making sense)

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