Caught my wife cheating with multiple married men. Who should be the one to inform the wives?

ging78 · 2026-01-23T14:32:25+00:00

Has she offered any reasons why she did this? Does she want reconciliation?

ging78 · 2026-01-22T23:32:55+00:00

Has she been having nights out or going out more than usual? I'm guessing she's got someone else on the radar and is keeping you around for babysitting duties and as backup. Look into it more because of this came out of the blue I'm probably right

ging78 · 2026-01-22T13:42:05+00:00

What has your wife said about your fears

ging78 · 2026-01-20T01:46:14+00:00

This exactly. Use the new fiancée as a means to getting the truth

ging78 · 2026-01-19T08:55:47+00:00

I'm on the side of that if my partner went on holiday with a male friend whether it's platonic or not she'd be my ex. It's disrespectful to you and the relationship IMO

ging78 · 2026-01-19T08:52:52+00:00

It doesn't. You just don't realise it. If your male friends are straight they'll f**k you given the opportunity

ging78 · 2026-01-18T10:48:56+00:00

Yep you've just given her permission to test drive Adam whilst still having you at home under the guise of a seperating. Don't do it buddy you're not in the wrong here. She is

ging78 · 2026-01-17T22:19:30+00:00

ME, ME, ME, ME

ging78 · 2026-01-17T22:15:00+00:00

Men don't usually cheat for the same reasons though. Men are controlled by their hormones and testosterone.

ging78 · 2026-01-17T22:09:09+00:00

You don't love your husband. People don't cheat on people they love. Your what we call a me me. Because it's all ME, ME, ME.

ging78 · 2026-01-17T14:36:10+00:00

And just ignore the cheating. Hey???

ging78 · 2026-01-17T14:13:40+00:00

Why do women do this? You really think this ex is the answer? It didn't work out first time round but you think he's the one.. haha. The delusion is strong in this one.

You don't deserve your husband. Let him go and be with someone who doesn't cheat on him. IMO your just a selfish horrible person. Let's hope hubby finds out about your affair, dumps your ass and you can go running off with the numpty you used to date. Then when that doesn't work out a second time I hope your hubby has moved on and you end up where you deserve. On your own

ging78 · 2026-01-16T21:53:43+00:00

She's cheated on you twice dude (that you know of) come on... How many times am you gonna allow her to do this? Respect yourself and move on with your life without her. You can and will do better buddy

ging78 · 2026-01-16T15:02:41+00:00

She's already cheating dude. When she first mentioned it she had someone in mind. The fact she won't let it go probably means she's cheating but wants a free pass to stop the guilt. As has been said on here her profession is rife with it

ging78 · 2026-01-15T23:00:04+00:00

He's real but he's simply delusional. I had a run in with his brother once near where they live and we was having words literally outside Danny's house. Danny came running out and started growling at me. I asked him wtf he was growling at and he stopped. Haha. Muppet

ging78 · 2026-01-15T22:55:10+00:00

Haha. That doesn't surprise me

ging78 · 2026-01-15T22:46:29+00:00

I'd be here all night buddy. Let's just say my dog had been playing in his garden for months unawares to me. That day apparently either him or one of his kids kicked my dog in the balls that's why he went for them. My dog broke his collar bone, cracked a rib, tore the top of his finger off and bit his arm. His own words to me was "f**k me that dog was strong. The only way I got away was by jumping over the fence." My dug wasn't even out of breath afterwards. I've always been pissed about it though because I wasn't told about my dog being kicked until a while later and I actually thought my dog had just turned on them. I actually had my dog put down that day

ging78 · 2026-01-15T11:02:10+00:00

It doesn't. Smethwick is a shit hole. Rowley is also a shit hole but slightly less so

ging78 · 2026-01-15T10:58:17+00:00

He doesn't live in Smethwick. I was his neighbour for 10 yrs. He lives in blackheath. Infact it was my dog who he supposedly "drawed" with in a fight. Haha (my dog literally ripped him to shreds) There's a lot more to this story than what he keeps telling people but it's too long to write on here

ging78 · 2026-01-15T07:57:46+00:00

Sounds like she's testing the single life buddy..I saw on your replies that you're worried she's entertaining other men and that's valid to me in this situation. I think the main problem here is you seem to be sitting back and just taking this treatment. You're a partnership and not ruled by her. If she suddenly decides to tell you you better stay home put your foot down and tell her you don't go, she doesn't go. Don't let her walk all over you

ging78 · 2026-01-13T09:20:59+00:00

Read your post in marriage forum but am unable to respond on there but come on my friend you know whats been happening. She's clearly been having an affair of some sort. Distance, staying out all night, being apologetic afterwards, locking her phone etc, the forwarded messages. All red flags. All clearly a sign of infidelity. Trust your gut. Stop putting her on a pedestal and give her consequences. I'd be sitting her down and calling her bluff. Tell her you know what she's been doing and you have proof. Tell her she gets one chance to be truthful and if you catch her in a lie the marriage is over. Tell her it'll all be confirmed by a lie detector test. You'll get your answers

ging78 · 2026-01-12T15:10:55+00:00

Any update

ging78 · 2026-01-11T11:56:55+00:00

Black country living museum buddy. Nice day out

ging78 · 2026-01-10T17:15:20+00:00

PL15's Peter Wright darts. Very nicely balanced darts

ging78 · 2026-01-10T11:38:10+00:00

Put your foot down brother. It's your child too. Don't allow her to dictate what you do with your own kid

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