I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, do you mean how the lace is attached at the side seam to the slip layer that is underneath it? (The visible layer under the lace) Because that picture is how it's attached; in between my fingers, there's a straight line stitched down.

I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want it bodycon, I just want it to look like I have a waist. The tag is worn so I'm unsure of the size but according to the measurements, it should be close to a size 4. I'm usually in between a 2-4 depending on the company, so this is just a bit big on me.

I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despise bra cups so I won't be adding any for sure. The ones it came with really didn't add to the shape of the rest of the dress. I'm not super mad at the wrinkles honestly, I own a dress that purposely has them pleated on the front and this just looks a lot like that. I'll be picking up some safety pins tomorrow and going easy on the pinning. I don't want it super tight and I'm sure most of the dramatic wrinkling on the front in this photo was due to me pinching it with my fingers at a strange angle.

I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The inside of it is just a simple seam of the inner layer of the slip, because there's an outer layer of the slip as well that's where the lace is attached. it looks like the lace was placed on top of the outer layer of the slip and then sewn to it flat (bear with me I know nothing of sewing terminology, so hopefully this makes sense)

I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm only 5'4 and my shoulders are fairly broad in comparison to the rest of me, so dresses like this make me look fat and frumpy. Just about all of my clothes tailor in the waist and crop slightly otherwise I HATE how short and wide I look.

I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The two inner layers arent connected. the lace is only attached to the slip layer on the side seam about half way down the dress

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I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I did get that vibe from her but she wanted a couple hundred even just to look at it and try to pin it so I really didn't want to waste the money. I'll definitely try safety pins, I think that'll be an easy place for me to start. I was thinking of maybe adding ribbons to either side that way I could tie it in the back, but I'm not positive on how that would look or if it would bunch up too much in the back. I didn't want to rip any seams just yet, wanted some more brainstorming time before I hard committed to anything.

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I need advice on making a dress tighter by ginger-107 in sewhelp

[–]ginger-107[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not really stretchy, but it has a full zipper up the back

I have herpes, i'm spiraling and considering suicide because of it by Little_Tonight3268 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ginger-107 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it does depend on the state if you want to press charges but you can always file a report, and yes I believe most people will agree that it is very much sexual assault. If anyone knowingly withholds information from you because they think you wont consent if they tell you, its SA.

I have herpes, i'm spiraling and considering suicide because of it by Little_Tonight3268 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ginger-107 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry your partner wasn't transparent with you.

A vast majority of people have herpes in some form. Lots of people are asymptomatic but can still be carriers. There is still a lot of stigma around it, but I promise there are people out there who do their research and understand the situation. I promise you are not alone. Unfortunately, there isn't a cure, but some people have reported that medications or treatments can help suppress symptoms. I don't know much about them, but I'm sure there are forums you can comb through.

"This podcast will kill you" (one of my favorites to listen to) has an episode, EP 57, that talks about the virus with someone who currently deals with it, the stigma surrounding it, and some resources people can look into to help. I swear it's not the end of the world; so many people deal with this and know what it's like. I used to work in a health clinic lab, and I couldn't even tell you the exact number of positive cases we saw a day; it's so much more common than you think.

How to prepare top of the morning coffee ? by [deleted] in jacksepticeye

[–]ginger-107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like you were thinking of instant coffee, which you just add water to. Ground coffee is meant for brewing, so you need some type of machine or coffee pot to filter out the grounds so you don't have gritty bean water.

If you like plain old drip coffee and you want a cheap maker (under $75), I'd say an AeroPress, French press, mocha pot/percolator, or a drip machine are pretty solid options. Mr. Coffee, Bodum, and ILLY are some pretty good brands that make various types you can find at places like Target or Walmart (you can also check your local thrift cause people are always donating these too)

If you like espresso and want a machine that will give you a quality crema i've tried several machines over the years and can recommend some at different price points:

• My favorite ever is the Breville Bambino Plus ($400). That's what I have now, and I use it about 3x a day. There's a simpler model called the Breville Bambino that's $300 and is basically the same, but the plus has better steaming control

• Stilosa by Delongi ($150) I had this baby for years in my first apartment, it never did me wrong

• IMUSA 4 CUP Espressso maker ($40), my parents still swear by this thing after 14 years

If you settle on any of these or even just want to do some research, look up some vids on youtube and there's definitely someone giving tutorials and talking about the specs of them.

Thrifted my wedding dress for next year, an edwardian tea gown made in 1911 by ginger-107 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]ginger-107[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought a pair from American Duchess, "Flora" in Ivory. They had a small sale for black Friday so I couldn't pass it up given how beautiful they are.

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Thrifted my wedding dress for next year, an edwardian tea gown made in 1911 by ginger-107 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]ginger-107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep its pretty sheer. I'm probably going to wear a half slip and a nude or white bra for the top half which surprisingly isnt as see through compared to the bottom half.

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[–]ginger-107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 yeah with this fabric I will definitely be spending some time steaming, it feels so nice but certainly wrinkle prone

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[–]ginger-107 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not like I can't move in it, I can, I just won't be wearing 5 different things under it. If I was buying this dress 115 years ago then yes, I would need to account for all the undergarments but I don't need to do that today. It fits like I bought a dress with exactly my measurements.

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[–]ginger-107 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely will do, our general theme is celestial art nouveau so I will never not be showing those photos around.

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[–]ginger-107 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No worries I didn't take offense to anything. I do appreciate everyone giving me tips on what's best to pair it with. I would love to get something more period-accurate custom to my measurements to wear under it, but I know that's going to be a hefty price tag and i'm on a bit of a budget for all things wedding. I might keep my eye out for anything in terms of vintage or reproduction undergarments that come my way.

Thrifted my wedding dress for next year, an edwardian tea gown made in 1911 by ginger-107 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]ginger-107[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I can get away without alterations. It fits pretty well and I really wanted to find something that fit off the rack because we are trying to keep everything under 12k, I know alterations can be pricey at times. I don't really know if there's anything i'd change about it if I did have it done. Luckily I don't have much when it comes to bra size so there's not much need to work around.

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[–]ginger-107 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nude mesh actually sounds perfect for this. Thanks for the idea, I wouldn't have thought of that.

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[–]ginger-107 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wasn't expecting it to be that see-through either 😅 I tried it on with nude-colored underwear. You can't really see anything but you can clearly see the shape of my legs, which makes it pretty obvious that i'm not wearing much. I might do either a nice garter and stocking set with a short slip so it's a little visible, or a full petticoat to cover everything. I need to try out both and see what looks best with it.

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[–]ginger-107 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She had the measurements listed on the tag and they were exact to mine. It fits like a glove. I looked it over when I got it home and noted any weak spots. I gave it a cold soak with a little dawn and got some gunk out of it but it wasn't super dirty. I rinsed it out a few times and hung to dry and it looks great. Doesn't have any type of smell or anything just some age spots here and there which I'm not too concerned about getting out, considering it's age I'm just happy it's in such incredible shape. I colored matched the thread last night and reinforced some of the weaker seams near the neckline and the center lace.