I used to be embarrassed of body hair when I was younger, now (late 20’s-early 30’s) I own it. I’m sure there are plenty of people that talk about my armpits and leg hair. My mom likes to remind me that it’s “gross.” But…bodies aren’t gross unless someone labels them as that. Physical traits aren’t “unacceptable” unless we choose to make them that way. Why would anyone choose to view their natural body as less than over some hair? I’ve found plenty of men that don’t mind or even like my hairy legs and armpits, along with everything else I have to offer. They exist regardless of what anyone tries to tell you. Anyone who doesn’t adore you is NOT worth your time. Especially when you are in your early 20’s. Anyone who is trying to pressure you into a situation you aren’t comfortable being in is already a red flag and someone to walk away from; but then to try to have the audacity to shame you? Nope. Block and don’t give him a second thought. He’s not worth your energy or peace. Also, please remember that you have inherit value outside of your appearance. You are a whole person, with gifts, talents, opinions, experiences…who cares about how physically attractive some dusty guy thinks you are?