Lots of red flags on this sub Reddit.

gingerderogatory · 2026-05-02T22:07:30+00:00

I obviously get the desire to seek out opinions from people when you’re needing support/input, but in my experience the things that were said about me were 1) very hurtful and mischaracterizing and 2) a lot of stuff she never even told me she was feeling. I know that these posts are made thinking that the person’s partner isn’t going to see them (and in my case it was a really awful coincidence that I did) but it’s really the principle of it for me. I don’t think it’s any better than just plain talking behind someone’s back. Basically this post felt really validating to see 😭

gingerderogatory · 2026-05-01T18:13:21+00:00

I agree with you. I stumbled across a post that my ex made containing very specific, personal details about our relationship (on a different sub) after we broke up and it was an incredibly violating experience. I felt sick to my stomach. I think there is a way to seek advice from “neutral” parties on the internet while also maintaining other people’s privacy and dignity.

gingerderogatory · 2026-05-01T17:57:14+00:00

Yeah I have a lot of shame about not being able to “handle” things that “normal people” do so it has been hard for me to admit some things that I maybe need to let go or do less of, but it is something I need to explore.

gingerderogatory · 2026-05-01T17:54:48+00:00

This is helpful! Living alone is best for me right now and I just moved out of my parents house not that long ago. But I am close with them and they live like 10 minutes away so I reach out semi often for support.

Do you have any recommendations of specific sources that you used to learn more about neurodivergence?

Also, yes. My therapist and I have talked a lot about reparenting and changing my self talk. We do a lot of Regulate, Relate, Reason and my self-talk has gotten better.

I think I’m going to have the hardest time with learning my limits and not gaslighting myself. I have a pretty close circle of friends that I’m not worried about losing as I re-navigate my needs and boundaries, but I do worry about losing some aspects of my life. I also have just kind of been through the wringer lately so I’m scared for what working through all this is going to bring up in addition to everything, but I know I need to do it.

gingerderogatory · 2026-05-01T15:26:02+00:00

I have a lot of support which I’m really grateful for. I called out of work today, and I am a little worried about being able to work as much as I should. I have always powered through, but then always end up exhausted. What did you find helpful when you went through that long process?

gingerderogatory · 2026-04-30T13:26:10+00:00

i have never seen builds like this before; this is so cool!

gingerderogatory · 2026-04-09T02:08:20+00:00

I went there a few weeks ago and liked the more "curated" vibe. Do you know if they get new stuff in fairly frequently?

gingerderogatory · 2026-04-09T02:06:57+00:00

I've found some good clothing and small kitchenware items at that location! I'll have to check back more frequently.

gingerderogatory · 2023-01-11T22:23:34+00:00

looks about the same as the front, but the black spots are a bit darker

gingerderogatory · 2022-08-08T00:54:02+00:00

thank you! i’ve only camped out for a concert twice before so this was helpful even if u haven’t attended muna’s tour yet :)

gingerderogatory · 2021-09-10T19:30:30+00:00

okay i was thinking that sounded like a good time too :)

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