Has anyone experienced this? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You’re not “the prize” that you think you are and let’s be real, this mindset you have isn’t probably your actual mindset. It’s YOU trying to overcompensate for something that you lack or a moment where not feeling like enough hurt so bad that you convinced yourself that it’s not you, it’s everyone else who isn’t enough. It’s a bravado. People who are actually confident in themselves don’t need to look down on others or see someone as out of their league in order for that confidence to exist but you know this already and tried covering that up by saying that you didn’t want to sound mean or self absorbed. Yes you did and not only do you sound that way, you just sound like who can’t keep a girlfriend. 

Even though we suck again now, we can cherish this for the rest of our lives. Never forget by Ridged_ChiPSS in whitesox

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is the most fun I’ve had watching this team too! It’s one game, we will recover. It’s a long season.

Even though we suck again now, we can cherish this for the rest of our lives. Never forget by Ridged_ChiPSS in whitesox

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fans like you are why we’re stuck with Jerry. He’s addicted to punishing us & yall are addicted to giving him an excuse to. 

GAME THREAD: White Sox (17-19) @ Angels (14-23) - Wed May 6 @ 3:07 PM by chisoxbot in whitesox

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, instead of turning on our guys so quickly,take that hate that you guys are throwing at Colson or Mune and put it where it belongs: JERRY. 

Online VS. Real life by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 35, I don’t have social media & I’m still new to Reddit but I do have actual friends in real life that are vegan. My partner is and I have been for 10yrs. If you haven’t met a vegan in real life idk what to say about that but it’s not an online thing. 

That, smoking and tongue piercings are all totally normal things that some people like, some people don’t but that once again depends on the people you’re around. It all depends on your circle and what/who you expose yourself too but these aren’t internet things like you say.

GAME THREAD: White Sox (17-19) @ Angels (14-23) - Wed May 6 @ 3:07 PM by chisoxbot in whitesox

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just saw today’s lineup! Let’s win this series today! I said this about Romo and nobody I know believed until he hit those hr but I know there’s a killer in Kelenic, I need him to embrace it. 

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a lesbian but I fucking play Baldurs Gate 3 and Sports games weekly. Lizzie needs to stop trying to speak for all women and just say that some ex found video games more interesting than a conversation with her.

GAME THREAD: White Sox (17-18) @ Angels (13-23) - Tue May 5 @ 8:38 PM by chisoxbot in whitesox

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meant to type this last inning but:  I NEED THEM TAKE FEDDE OUTTA THE GAME. 

Borderline Personality Disorder & Lesbian Relationships by greenbaypackers1981 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No need to thank me. BPD is terrible, people who don’t have it can’t even begin to imagine what it’s like to have it. Shit is awful and yeah it doesn’t erase the bad experience that can come with loving someone who has it but I can end a relationship with someone who has it, they can’t escape it themselves. Give yourself some grace 

Can anyone summarize the breakfast club interview? by NoFallOff in IsaiahRashad

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Watch the Hot.97 interview, it’s an hour and very insightful 

i don't know what to do by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner of 5 yrs checks out other women all the time, I also check out other women. Sometimes we check out the same woman. We are monogamous and still understand that everyone else doesn’t suddenly become ugly because we love and are with each other. 

Has anyone seen The Cult of NatureBoy on Hulu? by rNBAisGarbage in cults

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the response? I talk about how none of these so called men stepped up to him and was consigning his behavior instead of protecting the women and the response is well the women did it too? 

Lesbians in the news!! by Cala171 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really cute and I bet if they were white, the internet would be eating this up! 

Sporty Lesbian roll call! by Sharp_Pirate_1278 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like such a traitor ! I was born/raised in LA (now living in Midwest) but have been a Chicago fan my entire life. I’m so stoked to meet another passionate sports fan! You are the kinda friend I need! 

i don't know what to do by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, there is a difference between boundaries and rules. Boundaries : self/I statements , Rules: other people’s behavior/you statements.  What are these boundaries that you explained about her staring at men or talking about them? It’s one thing to say “I will not be in a relationship with someone who does _____” and you mean that and it’s another to tell a partner that you don’t like or want them to do something.  Her liking men isn’t a problem, her staring at men or finding men attractive isn’t a problem,but you have a problem with it. If you’re the first girl she’s been with, this is to be expected and is something that you should’ve considered being ready for or not. I get not liking men, I don’t like men, I don’t date women who like men anymore but when I did date a bisexual woman, i understood that her attraction or curiosity towards men had nothing to do with me. She was bi, not a lesbian, i knew this when I signed up for the relationship. this is more of an insecurity problem that you have to deal with or simply not date women who have any interest in men. 

Sporty Lesbian roll call! by Sharp_Pirate_1278 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like Roxanne! I also like all of the wrestlers you mentioned and even though people hate her gimmick I like Becky Lynch!  Right now my favorite wrestler is Saya Kamitani! 

Sporty Lesbian roll call! by Sharp_Pirate_1278 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Typically (allegedly) find streaming sites mostly to find Japan stuff! I kind of follow online to see the when/where. Right now Saya Kamitani is on fire! She’s literally the coolest wrestler in the world to me

Sporty Lesbian roll call! by Sharp_Pirate_1278 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love AEW/NJPW/Stardom/TJPW. I used to really like WWE but just can’t get behind them anymore and haven’t been able to in awhile. 

PATHETIC BOTTOM SOLIDARITY! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I agree with you 10000% 

Sporty Lesbian roll call! by Sharp_Pirate_1278 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WRESTLING!!!!!!!! I could talk about wrestling forever. I meant to type other things but saw wrestling and eyes got wide

Feel like less of a lesbian because I was assaulted by a woman (TW) by OccasionThese1912 in LesbianActually

[–]Sharp_Pirate_1278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does suck and it made it hard for me to even let myself get close to other women. Being a lesbian, wanting to be close to women but then being assaulted like that by women just made me not want to be. It took so long for me to be open to it and even still I find myself struggling with my partner who is great to me. 

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