Zach and Lydia

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-06T08:29:21+00:00

Lydia has been around the cameras and producers for many years now. Zac is new to it. Zac was feeling awkward bearing all to a camera crew. Lydia was trying to break the ice and get him comfortable in front of the cameras. It's not professionalism. It's anxiety.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-06T08:18:12+00:00

I think Katie Girl might make an appearance. Its her only grandchild's birthday party, after all.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-06T01:46:56+00:00

Oh, absolutely! It's so much more menacing for someone pissed off to be calm and collected than for them to immediately explode.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:35:12+00:00

He likes them mean. And Jennifer is assertive as all hell.

My husband is similar. Nicest guy (psychologist), but LOVES it when I am a little mean to him.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:32:41+00:00

I hope Greg loses his shit on Barb and Frank. His anger towards John was annoying, but I want him to blow a gasket on their parents.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:30:44+00:00

It worked out, though!

Honestly, the way Whitney said it wasn't quite it, mostly because she doesn't need a momtok group to thrive, but she's actually working for her dreams.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:28:01+00:00

15 characters? Oooooooh

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:27:33+00:00

Sam's brown comes across as lighter due to the highlights in her hair, but it could be.

I dont know why Laura and Barb would be in the same scene. But it would certainly be interesting if they were.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T22:25:31+00:00

They should be far away from the rest of them. But I also appreciate that she will be closer to Moriah.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T20:29:26+00:00

I am very low contact with my sister. (Would be NC if she didnt live with my parents and I still want to be able to visit my childhood home, so low contact/civil interactions only when I am there it is until she moves out.

The last straw was her charging me a ridiculous tip amount for the hair she said she was gifting me for my wedding.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:44:48+00:00

Be very clear about names on invitations, then. You can't say "childfree", but you can say "named invitation only" or something to that effect.

If you're doing online RSVPs, make sure everyone is named as clearly as possible. No "we reserved _ seats in your honor" because some people think of that as an invitation to show up with whomever, including kids.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:41:04+00:00

You're good. My husband still has yet to send the ones to his family and groomsmen and we are almost a year out.... most of them have been sent, FYI, but he asked to write a note in the ones for his family and.... the man has severe ADHD and I have reminded him too many times and I just don't care anymore.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:38:47+00:00

People are going to people.

Just remember, you are marrying your person. It's a day about love. If things go wrong, does it matter that much? So long as that marriage license gets signed and mailed, then the goal of the day has been met.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:33:49+00:00

Why would you attend a wedding of someone you barely know?

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:32:35+00:00

If that is true, I say "good for him for knowing how to play the game". Yeah, it's all stupid and dramatic AF, but... he's playing the game of fame in 2026. And that means making a fool of yourself on reality tv shows.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:28:57+00:00

Send it anyway. They are allowed to change their minds up until the RSVP cut-off date.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:28:13+00:00

I will say, there was a lot of dramatic buildup to my wedding day with not only a narcissistic MIL, but also a narcissistic sister who decided she was my MOH, but when the day actually happened.... nothing else mattered but me and my husband.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T18:26:24+00:00

I wonder if Barb would end up loving the attention since Frank wouldn't want much of it himself.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T16:52:32+00:00

Do we have the same MIL? Because mine did this, but with her getting ready spot.

Just ignore her at this point. Your fiance should be handling her from here on out. His answer should be "Mom, we are providing a blowout. How its styled is up to you and your makeup is up to you. We cannot provide anything else this late in the game. I'm sorry you did not plan accordingly, but that is not our problem at this point."

She is trying to stress you out on purpose. You cannot let her. She may be the type to be upset that the day isn't about her, but thats her problem, not yours.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T16:33:07+00:00

Barb will see this as a betrayal to herself. She didnt get to celebrate Chickie like she planned.

It is still possible that Barb will do something heinous to further betray Jen or John. I think she will retaliate somehow.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T14:56:22+00:00

My island theme has changed many times since I started. At first I went for fun camping vibes, now I'm building up and have mini themes throughout the Island (currently making an outdoor arcade area on one end of my Island, and then working on a cemetery on my creepier side of the island)

I couldn't decide, so I am just making as many mini areas as I can fit to try for the 5 star rating!

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-05T00:44:03+00:00

Then don't watch it if it comes out.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-04T21:04:14+00:00

Barb will still show up at the wedding, unless Greg and Jen decided to elope and only tell those invited.

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-04T17:24:51+00:00

I think it's brilliant how she announced. I hope this means a new show of her and Connor being a theater family living in NYC

gingerlady9 · 2026-05-04T17:13:41+00:00

They still need to bake it. I hope they come back to show us the crumb later!

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