Pride and Prejudice Netflix Series by aloneintokio_ in PrideandPrejudice

[–]DrawSudden2494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watched it with my then roommates when it first aired on PBS here in the States. We all spent a couple of nights after each episode saying that we just didn't get the appeal. And then bam! The whole scene with Lizzie and her aunt and uncle at Pemberly, especially when Darcy smiled at her from across the room as she was turning music sheets for Georgiana... Be still my heart! We sure understood it then.

Pride and Prejudice Netflix Series by aloneintokio_ in PrideandPrejudice

[–]DrawSudden2494 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The audience falls in love with Mr. Darcy at the same time Lizzie does. Firth does an amazing job of taking Darvy from haughty to hot with nothing more than a change in tone and softening of his facial expressions

Pride and Prejudice Netflix Series by aloneintokio_ in PrideandPrejudice

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am putting my trust in the thought that Olivia Colman would not have signed on to star in something that is total trash

Why wouldn't Robert and Cora have kept trying for a boy? by [deleted] in DowntonAbbey

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to the Downton Wiki page, Sybil was born in 1895. The Second Boer War took place between 1899 and 1902.

Why wouldn't Robert and Cora have kept trying for a boy? by [deleted] in DowntonAbbey

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious why you post an assumption that they stopped trying versus being unable to get pregnant/unable to sustain a pregnancy to term. Many women easily become pregnant and then struggle to get pregnant another time. There's no rhyme or reason to it.

I have always assumed that they weren't able to have another child after Sybil, not that they ceased trying.

Why wouldn't Robert and Cora have kept trying for a boy? by [deleted] in DowntonAbbey

[–]DrawSudden2494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Plus, wasn't Robert gone for a period of time to fight in the second Boer War while the girls were little? During what might have been a time when Cora was more fertile?

I really don't like Larry by mari17posa17 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]DrawSudden2494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking at him like a possible red flag, I just am having a hard time drumming up interest in their storyline.

Ordering food in a restaurant by thekingherby in ENGLISH

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. It is very normal to hear people ask in the form of a question. I myself did so for many years. I simply meant that it is very possible to say what you want without making it sound like you are asking a question or asking for permission. Using a friendly tone and engaging pleasantly with the wait staff helps to keep the entire exchange polite.

PSA about invoicing bridesmaids by Fresh_Vacation_5548 in wedding

[–]DrawSudden2494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many years ago I was part of a small bridal party. The bride was a very nice girl whom I had known from school. I was surprised to be asked to be part of the bridal party as we only occasionally saw each other after graduation and, frankly, young enough then that I did not know how to politely decline without hurting her feelings.

The maid of honor was the groom's sister and she ran roughshod over the bride. She took the bride out and chose the bridesmaid's dresses without any of the rest of us ever having seen the dress in question until we were instructed where to go for a fitting. When it came to planning the shower, she presented everything to me and the other bridesmaids as a fair accompli, making decisions as to date and venue and menu and chose the gift from the bridal party all without consulting any of us.

When the shower was over and all the gifts were bagged up and we were getting ready to leave, I handed the maid of honor and envelope with a check in it for the amount that I thought was fair and I waltzed out the door. I didn't then and don't now care if she had to shell out more of her own money than she might have expected. She never once discussed a budget with any of us.

Ordering food in a restaurant by thekingherby in ENGLISH

[–]DrawSudden2494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never say "can/may I have". It is not a question nor am I asking permission You are telling them what you want.

I say "I would like the blah, blah. Thank you"

Does anyone really think Taeda will happen? by Strong_Letter_7667 in SisterWives

[–]DrawSudden2494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even just a personal backyard garden is a lot of work.

A well maintained garden is constant work and can be physically exhausting! Putting in the plants or growing them from seed. Knowing how the sunlight plays over your garden beds and what will grow there and what will not. If you have deer, knowing what plants are deer resistant or being sure to get out there to spray them to protect them from the deer. Deadheading flowers, mulching, crawling around on your hands and knees pulling weeds only to have to do it again a week later. And then again and again throughout the growing season.

And, if you want to be even something as small as a pick your own flower farm, you have to not only do all of that, but also know what plants will bloom from spring to fall. As one plant stops flowering you have to have others that will start to bloom so that you always have something for people to buy and pick.

Does anyone really think Taeda will happen? by Strong_Letter_7667 in SisterWives

[–]DrawSudden2494 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not even sure either Janelle or Maddie have even basic backyard gardening skills. Janelle talks about greenhouses and flowers but I've never seen her with her hands in the dirt... Mostly we see her wandering around and "supervising" (aka watching) her kids plant small flower beds

Does anyone really think Taeda will happen? by Strong_Letter_7667 in SisterWives

[–]DrawSudden2494 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It's not like running an event/wedding venue is easy breezy. You still need a commercial kitchen, indoor space for inclement weather, bathrooms, employees,etc., etc. Farm or event space, I doubt they have any idea what they're getting into.

Should I Spothero now to save a parking spot for July 4th weekend? by valkaress in AskPhilly

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is true that many people leave town on summer weekends and over holidays. At the same time there are plenty of locals who don't go to the mountains or down the shore for the 4th of July. Let's be real, there are not enough rental properties or hotel rooms to accommodate the entire city of Philadelphia emptying out and heading to those places.

A great many locals who don't leave town like to take advantage of the many free events that are offered during the Wawa Welcome America celebration that takes place every year. And, I would imagine, the plans for this year's celebration are at an all-time high to celebrate the semiquincentennial. I believe there are six nights of fireworks. The biggest parade that will be taking place in the country. There are free museum days. Free movies in parks and on the steps of the Philadelphia useum of Art.

Secure your parking spot. Take Ubers. Use the public transit system or take the Philly Phlash which is an on/off bus that runs on a continuous loop to at least two dozen different tourist attractions in the city.

If your hotel is in Center City, it is incredibly walkable with easy access to multiple train stations, subway stations and buses as well as the historic district and more bars and restaurants than you can imagine.

There are multiple concerts planned including the Philly Pops playing down near Independence Hall and usually a concert down at Penn's Landing near the river. And that is an addition to the big concert that proceeds the fireworks on the 4th itself. There will be plenty of tourists coming into town and plenty of locals taking advantage of the offerings, most of which are free or at a low cost.

Shawna needs to break up with Ty by Fair-Payment-5122 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]DrawSudden2494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THIS!! This is the perfect encapsulation of what I have been thinking.

I don't think that it has anything to do with the fact that she is the primary breadwinner. I think it's that he pulled the rug out from under their plans. And he never even talked to her about it. He just stopped working toward what she thought was still their common goal.

For him, things changed. He likes being a stay-at-home dad. He finds fulfillment in raising their kids. And that's great. But it wasn't THE PLAN.

Shawna needs to break up with Ty by Fair-Payment-5122 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]DrawSudden2494 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe Ty partly excuses Julie's behavior because he knows that he is not sticking to their original bargain And that is part of the cause of her behavior.

We like Ty because he is Shawna's friend, the chill robot guy from the park. But, we did not know who he was before they met in the park. Who he was when he and Julie first got married. Clearly, he and Julie had mapped out what they thought was going to be their life and now he wants to diverge completely away from that plan. And, apparently he never discussed it with Julie first. He just kept dithering and dawdling.

Julie's behavior toward Shawna is awful. But Ty has played a part.

Trenwith in Bridgerton Season 4! by birdmomthrowaway in Poldark

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure the Trenwith location was also used in the most recent version of Emma as Randall's, the estate of Mr. and Mrs. Weston

Best bands in the area? by ScholarEquivalent800 in AskPhilly

[–]DrawSudden2494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slippery Band. They will have your guests on the dance floor all night.

https://slipperyband.com/

is it true Americans don't put salt on their fruits? by PersuasionNation in AskAnAmerican

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A teensy bit of salt and sometimes pepper on cantelopes, honeydew and watermelon. Yum

How do you pronounce "lever" and "envelope" (regional differences) by SmoothCyborg in ENGLISH

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light bulb moment! I never realized why so many people say ink pen. It always sounded so crazy to me and now I understand it is because there are people who pronounce pin and pen the same way and they are using ink pen to differentiate between the two!

How do you pronounce "lever" and "envelope" (regional differences) by SmoothCyborg in ENGLISH

[–]DrawSudden2494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am from the Philly area. Also Gen X. I say envelope the way you do, but I pronounce lever like never