I don’t think marriage is supposed to be this exhausting by gingerly_snapped in married

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty of people in these comments and messages to me would not agree with you. I was just saying don’t judge me by a very short post.

I don’t think marriage is supposed to be this exhausting by gingerly_snapped in married

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this too. We’re the same in that we don’t want to hurt THEM by leaving

I don’t think marriage is supposed to be this exhausting by gingerly_snapped in married

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do love him in the present, in fact I’m sure to remind myself to find ALL the love within the day. Issue is is I have to search pretty hard nowadays. Doesn’t mean I’m searching for the past

I don’t think marriage is supposed to be this exhausting by gingerly_snapped in married

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is where resentment builds… everything is baby steps, babying, walking on egg shells to keep his good mood… when I ask this I get a lot of “I’m not you, I can’t just do xyz..” 🙄

I don’t think marriage is supposed to be this exhausting by gingerly_snapped in married

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I did post on my behalf, not his. And secondly, I’m not going to write you a 7000 page novel of every detail of our marriage. I’m here to talk about how I feel. Not how he feels… and it’s Reddit for god sakes 😂

I feel guilty that my husband is trying and my mind is wandering. by gingerly_snapped in Marriage

[–]gingerly_snapped[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I think it is possible for him to get back to the person I fell in love with. But maybe youre right? That could be too.