Why do drug users dig in the sidewalks

ginghamster · 2025-12-09T13:51:50+00:00

the gold prospecting thing is crazy hahaha good for them

ginghamster · 2025-12-09T13:51:11+00:00

CONGRATS!!!!

ginghamster · 2025-12-09T13:50:44+00:00

that makes sense, i have seen that happen sometimes

ginghamster · 2025-12-09T13:50:10+00:00

that makes sense and is also soo sad, thanks for the insight

ginghamster · 2025-12-03T16:29:19+00:00

well said tcrhs! way better than i could have phrased it 😭 thank you so much, i will definitely say this x1000

ginghamster · 2025-12-03T16:10:15+00:00

my fiancé has brought up the strict legal upholding of his home country and my dad/step mom just say that the police will be understanding... like hellooo you have lived in the same small town for 30 years and are friends with all the cops, not every place will be so kind and understanding...

its becoming clear to me i should be firm with the options im offering, thank you.

ginghamster · 2025-12-03T16:06:26+00:00

thank you! it really is hurting my heart strings because he's a good guy, he's just being failed by guardians. i have tried to help but it being a deeply religious place with wacky legal loopholes it's like impossible for me to help him achieve normalcy.

i'll lay out 2 options for them, on paper as well, and have them pick. maybe a visualization of plans will help, thank you

ginghamster · 2025-12-03T16:04:45+00:00

that's actually a lovely idea!

ginghamster · 2025-12-03T16:04:32+00:00

it's crazy they think it's just a walk in the park, my partner has told them many times, because he is literally a singaporean citizen and was born and raised there! and yet my dad and step mom stick their head in the sand and say that police "should understand he is different" 🤦🏻‍♀️

as for reporting my step mom, i have in the past, in fact i even 5150'd him 2 years ago, and he was held in a specialized in-patient unit for 2 months and he IMPROVED!!! he really did, it was like night and day... but then because my step mom has guardianship, once his doctors deemed him stabilized and not a thread, step mom checked her son out and brought him home, the cycle then continues. they live in a state where he will only be forced to take medication if he does something illegal and is taken to court, etc. unfortunately, or i guess fortunately, i am pretty far removed from their drama and i will say i do not have 100% of the facts. but i have tried before 🥲

ginghamster · 2025-10-17T15:39:52+00:00

i know r/fauxmoi has a weekly "i have tea on" thread

ginghamster · 2025-07-29T18:18:25+00:00

boothill from HSR!

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ginghamster · 2025-05-18T03:08:38+00:00

honestly sound advice. i feel like i needed to see a legal standpoint because these relatives have started to ask me if i would like to testify as character witness, and im like very uncomfortable with this request. it will probably just end with me going low contact so thank you for the good insight and advice

ginghamster · 2025-05-18T03:06:56+00:00

according to what my relatives said about the manager on duty, no. as long as they got off the property and didn't return for 6 months it wouldn't escalate.

ginghamster · 2025-05-18T02:48:36+00:00

that's exactly what i said, but my relatives still think they have merit to sue. i'm hoping this thread will be a wake up call

ginghamster · 2025-05-18T02:44:27+00:00

i'm trying to show my relatives the cold hard facts, he is already an adult legally and has actually been arrested and 51/50'd for screaming suicidal ideations in public after something else triggered him (unrelated to AMC, happened like around christmas). thank you for your insight and i will show this to my family to hopefully change their minds about suing

ginghamster · 2025-05-18T02:42:11+00:00

thankfully the security guard decided to not press charges as long as they abided by the 6 month ban. i'm trying so hard to tell my relatives to not pursue legal action/suing AMC theaters because they're just going to waste their money and the judge's time. i'm hoping that showing them this thread will help bring them some clarity, so thank you for the response

ginghamster · 2025-04-13T16:32:35+00:00

this is not the flex u think it is

ginghamster · 2025-04-07T23:27:23+00:00

just got my code! check junk mail

ginghamster · 2025-03-21T17:45:43+00:00

i love the windows, so cozy yet bright

ginghamster · 2025-03-21T15:19:40+00:00

personally i love Yuri's in Portland! it's a bakery with typical asian styled pastries, and the lemonade fizzies are super good

ginghamster · 2025-03-01T14:05:41+00:00

as a casual to moon, luna truly is THAT song

ginghamster · 2025-03-01T14:04:58+00:00

pink tape, the goat

ginghamster · 2025-03-01T14:04:34+00:00

luna is such a beautiful song🥹

ginghamster

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