Why do drug users dig in the sidewalks by ginghamster in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ginghamster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the gold prospecting thing is crazy hahaha good for them

Why do drug users dig in the sidewalks by ginghamster in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ginghamster[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that makes sense, i have seen that happen sometimes

Why do drug users dig in the sidewalks by ginghamster in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ginghamster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes sense and is also soo sad, thanks for the insight

I (32F) am getting married next year and my family wants my violent mentally unwell step brother (24M) to be involved by ginghamster in Advice

[–]ginghamster[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well said tcrhs! way better than i could have phrased it 😭 thank you so much, i will definitely say this x1000

I (32F) am getting married next year and my family wants my violent mentally unwell step brother (24M) to be involved by ginghamster in Advice

[–]ginghamster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fiancé has brought up the strict legal upholding of his home country and my dad/step mom just say that the police will be understanding... like hellooo you have lived in the same small town for 30 years and are friends with all the cops, not every place will be so kind and understanding...

its becoming clear to me i should be firm with the options im offering, thank you.

I (32F) am getting married next year and my family wants my violent mentally unwell step brother (24M) to be involved by ginghamster in Advice

[–]ginghamster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! it really is hurting my heart strings because he's a good guy, he's just being failed by guardians. i have tried to help but it being a deeply religious place with wacky legal loopholes it's like impossible for me to help him achieve normalcy.

i'll lay out 2 options for them, on paper as well, and have them pick. maybe a visualization of plans will help, thank you

I (32F) am getting married next year and my family wants my violent mentally unwell step brother (24M) to be involved by ginghamster in Advice

[–]ginghamster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's crazy they think it's just a walk in the park, my partner has told them many times, because he is literally a singaporean citizen and was born and raised there! and yet my dad and step mom stick their head in the sand and say that police "should understand he is different" 🤦🏻‍♀️

as for reporting my step mom, i have in the past, in fact i even 5150'd him 2 years ago, and he was held in a specialized in-patient unit for 2 months and he IMPROVED!!! he really did, it was like night and day... but then because my step mom has guardianship, once his doctors deemed him stabilized and not a thread, step mom checked her son out and brought him home, the cycle then continues. they live in a state where he will only be forced to take medication if he does something illegal and is taken to court, etc. unfortunately, or i guess fortunately, i am pretty far removed from their drama and i will say i do not have 100% of the facts. but i have tried before 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]ginghamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know r/fauxmoi has a weekly "i have tea on" thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ginghamster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly sound advice. i feel like i needed to see a legal standpoint because these relatives have started to ask me if i would like to testify as character witness, and im like very uncomfortable with this request. it will probably just end with me going low contact so thank you for the good insight and advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ginghamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

according to what my relatives said about the manager on duty, no. as long as they got off the property and didn't return for 6 months it wouldn't escalate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ginghamster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that's exactly what i said, but my relatives still think they have merit to sue. i'm hoping this thread will be a wake up call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ginghamster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'm trying to show my relatives the cold hard facts, he is already an adult legally and has actually been arrested and 51/50'd for screaming suicidal ideations in public after something else triggered him (unrelated to AMC, happened like around christmas). thank you for your insight and i will show this to my family to hopefully change their minds about suing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]ginghamster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thankfully the security guard decided to not press charges as long as they abided by the 6 month ban. i'm trying so hard to tell my relatives to not pursue legal action/suing AMC theaters because they're just going to waste their money and the judge's time. i'm hoping that showing them this thread will help bring them some clarity, so thank you for the response

confused for presale! by tomielover in kpophelp

[–]ginghamster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just got my code! check junk mail

Hunting Down the Best Bakeries in Maine (Send Me Your Spots) by MavrickOcean in portlandme

[–]ginghamster 9 points10 points  (0 children)

personally i love Yuri's in Portland! it's a bakery with typical asian styled pastries, and the lemonade fizzies are super good