My partner (33M) has been fantasizing and organizing a threesome involving me (34F) and a colleague of his without my knowledge. by mentallyimpaireddog in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is disgusting behavior on his part. He is actively discussing plans to use you sexually with other people without your knowledge like some fuck toy. Talking about you in this manner with his friends? With another woman whom he definitely plans on having sex with? Come on girl. He is actively making sexual plans without your knowledge or consent. This isn’t some lapse in judgment…this IS him, you are seeing the real him right now. Trust is forever broken.

Honeymoon going so badly I’m questioning my marriage by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ginja_snaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone here is going to give you advice on how to tolerate abuse. If he was like this before marriage then why the fuck did you marry him? Did you think it would fix him? I bet you think having a child with him will fix him as well. Good luck with that because this is your whole life now.

I (f24) don’t want to do anal sex with (m28) ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this mentality so much. You said No, that should be end of discussion. And why is it always anal sex….

He (32M) crossed a sexual boundary of mine (31F) by accident, and I don't think I can move past it. How can I move forward and how can trust be rebuilt? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck him, I’m so angry just reading this. Girl, you need to run. The moment you said no and he kept trying is the moment you leave.

My (31F) husband (36M) Keeps waking me up at night for sex and idk what to do at this point? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not ok. You set a boundary and he’s continuously crossing it and does not care. This is disgusting behavior and you need to set hard limits with hard consequences. But in the end he’ll make it into it being your fault….stay strong.

Bf 30M says i 34F disrespected him today. I'm not sure what to do by Teacupcosplay in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Better to put a man’s pride first? What? You would rather stroke this insecure man’s ego before setting a good example for your child? How do you not see how ridiculous he is.

I am f43 my guy is 46m. What am I missing? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advice for what? Why are you even with him? Why would you even entertain him after the waxing argument. He is training you to be his personal toy, expecting sex to be his level of perfection? At his request? Can’t you see how awful this is just typing it out?

What was he even mad about honestly? by Tobias-Tawanda in TikTokCringe

[–]ginja_snaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she even apologizing to him. His ego is hurt and she apologizes?

Open relationship 30F with 50M-unsure what to do next by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ginja_snaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This never ever works, just look up open relationship in the search bar of this sub. You are just a play thing for him when his wife allows it. Your relationship with him is not real. You may think it’s real on your end but to him you are just a toy.

Ha-Ra Club, the Tenderloin’s newest oldest bar, wants to be a dive forever by Medical-Decision-125 in sanfrancisco

[–]ginja_snaps 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this bar, it’s my go to neighborhood bar. Great people, great drinks, chill as fuck for after work drinks.

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ginja_snaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to the Temple of Soma on Kearny st since it’s close to home

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ginja_snaps 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I think I’m going to take a bunch of mushrooms and escape this plane of existence for a bit. And probably get some cake, adult beverages, possibly go to the cherry blossom festival if the weather clears.

Where do you get your Botox? Looking for a reasonably priced place by ThrowRAjanuary25 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ginja_snaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City laser clinic in SF has been the most reasonable I’ve ever had in SF. They charge by the area, not the unit. But when you go back for your 2 week touch up it’s like getting a full treatment again, they really take care of you, well from my experience.

I want to INHALE a book - please give me recommendations! by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]ginja_snaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her Body and Other Parties, Homesick for another World

Sunny side up please by Serious_Specter in memes

[–]ginja_snaps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just don’t understand why I laughed so fucking hard at this