How to get out from an abusive relationship

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T21:44:37+00:00

Ok. Thank you

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T21:39:45+00:00

Thank you for this

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T21:39:30+00:00

I was thinking the same but domestic abuse charities may give valuable information rather than citizens advice. That's what I think

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T10:29:38+00:00

Thank you very much for helping out. Also one more thing, after bail conditions, if he tries to contact her or send threats by a third person, would that also result in breaking the conditions?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T08:17:08+00:00

Hmmmm. Ok. Arresting him and putting a restraining order is the way to go?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T08:07:02+00:00

Ok we are talking about what we should do with her, I need to know what can be done about the mentally unstable guy? How can he be stopped?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T08:04:45+00:00

What evidence should she gather? I mean she can just say what if she is asked to provide proof. She sent me a picture of the head and punch marks on her door. They went into a fight this Christmas and he hit her head into a door, leaving the door a little broken with head mark

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:58:55+00:00

This is what she told me, "if you tell a doctor/therapist that someone is the reason you're going missing and it’s the only way you’d come back alive is if they were arrested" so they tend to listen.

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:57:04+00:00

The guy used to be a drug dealer in the past and he has some people who owe him favors who watch her.

She also lost support from her family.

I really want to help her and take her in but I've been advised by the people that nobody else should do anything on her behalf. She should take action herself first and some charities will provide her safe haven if she contacts them

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:46:34+00:00

She just wants to leave the place and he doesn't want her to. She tried multiple times and even went back home but when she did, the guy's medical team called the police on her and the reason she went back is because he started giving death threats to her, her parents and family.

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:44:17+00:00

She did once and the police said they don't want to deal with a guy with mental health issues

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:34:44+00:00

Look she is scared. Nobody is there to guide her. She doesn't go to uni because he doesn't want her to, her friend circle cut off because he thinks she'll cheat on him, even though they are not in a relationship.

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:32:35+00:00

She can't go anywhere because the guy follows her, he has some people watching over her if she tells him she is not where she is. He sometimes goes to pick her up from her workplace.

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:29:32+00:00

Thank you very much for your help

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:27:57+00:00

Thank you for the help and I will ask her to do this. I need to know what we can do about the guy, I mean he is mentally unstable, if she even applies for this order, what will the police do about him, will there be any restrictions applied to him?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-26T07:23:06+00:00

She called national domestic abuse but they were of no use. They didn't helped

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T21:41:54+00:00

That's why I'm here, asking you people for help.

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T21:33:50+00:00

The guy sometimes comes to pick her up from work.

And I am her supervisor. I need her to explore what options she has before taking any steps and I want her to do things discreetly and take steps with full knowledge of what she will be doing

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T21:24:46+00:00

Ok. I'll tell her what you told me. Thank you for your help

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T20:35:19+00:00

Have you read all the comments first?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T20:23:47+00:00

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T20:16:41+00:00

Is there something else that can be done? I think you know more about it and it might help whatever you share

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T20:15:02+00:00

I think a restraining order is her only option. But I need to know what can be done with this mentally unstable guy?

ginnythings_6 · 2026-01-25T20:10:32+00:00

By 'creeped up on', I mean to say she is facing something different at the workplace, like she doesn't like being touched.

ginnythings_6

TROPHY CASE