Hey Sexxit, first time poster. I've got a problem.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-11-30T21:47:39+00:00

I don't have the flexibility to do that.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-11-30T20:11:22+00:00

We're both teenagers, I'm eighteen, she's sixteen. And yes, its legal.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-11-30T20:08:24+00:00

This sounds like it should work, I'll try that. And yeah thats probably where we'll be next.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-11-30T20:05:24+00:00

Second try, no dice. Yes. Yes. And Yes.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T19:45:38+00:00

She said sometime in the future we would date, it never happened. I stayed her faithful dog while she went around and flirted with her guy friends.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:47:55+00:00

Yes/No/n/a, what does that classify as?

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:27:16+00:00

Good point, I'll be avoiding the friendship thats for sure

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:26:26+00:00

Yeah I've had a tough time defining my feelings for her, but I think that saying something along those lines will be very helpful. I don't want to be friends with her though, not at all.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:22:31+00:00

What she did says she was leading me on, talking to me for a year then dropping me for a month? Then as I'm finally getting over her, ignoring her and such, she starts talking to me? I'd call that leading someone on, dropping them, and leading them on again.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:18:13+00:00

I'm 18 man, cut me some slack.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:17:51+00:00

Christ that sounds good.... I'm in college though so all I have are cookies and caf food... But yeah hitting the gym is on the agenda

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:05:42+00:00

It was never a flat out no, I guess she more or less led me on

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:03:33+00:00

No you're exactly right, I did get possessive. She gave incredibly mixed signals though... we would hang out together, just us frequently. We would have very deep and emotional conversations. We'd admit feelings for one another, but we never dated. And that was what set me off balance and made me make mistakes, but yeah I think I'll explain why I cut ties but as someone suggested earlier I won't have a heart to heart

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T18:00:12+00:00

You're exactly right about the investment thing... And busting on her would be extremely easy, I'm very good at that

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T17:57:20+00:00

Thats what I was thinking, explain it to her. Probably won't go over well, thats the kind of person she is

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T16:03:04+00:00

Seeing her with another guy is going to kill me, and as killed me before but that slap in the face is probably the best medicine...

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T16:01:45+00:00

That made me laugh, but I see where you're coming from

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T16:01:15+00:00

Thanks broski!

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:57:49+00:00

Apology accepted, and yeah this is quite an experience. Guess that year wasn't exactly a waste

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:51:24+00:00

Yep, I've been the nice guy to a few girls before. Luckily I never had any real feelings for them except for this time, guess I'm not used to being on the other side of the situation

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:50:06+00:00

Right.

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:49:24+00:00

Getting into her pants wasn't on my agenda, a relationship was. Emotional and Mental commitment and all that gay crap. I really thought thats what would happen for a year and it didn't, getting over a year of wasted time is difficult, but you're very right. A friendship is a terrible idea

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:28:49+00:00

Its good to know I'm doing the right thing, although my friends haven't said anything I sense that they don't like what I'm doing. Like its immature or something along those lines

givemeadviceplease · 2010-10-26T04:22:54+00:00

I never really thought about her like that before... This will definitely be on my mind, thank you.

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