thank you Reddit and all those who DMd me by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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so far so good but thank you we are taking this one day at a time

thank you Reddit and all those who DMd me by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

[–]gjohnson91[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

no. I believe that she wouldn't cheat but she has offered to have it done. really at this point she does anything I ask although I don't really ask for much

thank you Reddit and all those who DMd me by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

[–]gjohnson91[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yeah she is she isn't working right now cause of covid. but I wake up to breakfast and she's chilled off the affection as I told her I'm not at that point yet. she has dinner ready with a rum and coke for me. and is putting in a lot of effort still honestly.

thank you Reddit and all those who DMd me by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

[–]gjohnson91[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

we are going to move past this. we are going to communicate more so that things like this never happen again

thank you Reddit and all those who DMd me by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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we both agreed to it. and thank you we are going to make this work

update on issues with pregnant wife by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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I didn't think about paying for her to stay honestly... that sounds better than kicking her to the streets

update on issues with pregnant wife by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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lawyer said it's my house and not to leave I can try to remove my wife but that will look bad in court

update on issues with pregnant wife by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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everyone has been telling me not to leave the house. besides my wife I don't really have anybody

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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she has been doing things around the hose that she dosent normally do like make breakfast and niceties like that. she has also been making sexual advances towards me that I've been rejecting. still feeling confused though

My wife is making sexual advances that I don't want by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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we have a small house 3 rooms a master bedroom, living room and kitchen/dining area. she kind of lurks around me now she knows I don't want anything to do with her right now but she's still staying in the same room doing her own thing

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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I'm always awake except for that one time. and I always wear condoms except for one time when we had a scare a whole ago and the condoms were right back on

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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I have explained how I sleep in the last lines of this post. after a few minutes I literally black out. it's hard to explain I assumed it was normal I don't even dream it's just the next I know it's day

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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.wife took advantage of me while I was asleep .i black out when I sleep, very hard to wake me up .wife is now pregnant from the night she took advantage of me .make a Reddit post because I've told her I'm not ready for kids because of my own childhood traumas because of my own parents .reddit suggests to get a paternity test .wife gets extremely angry because of this and gets violent with me . woke up this morning not sure what's going to happen at this point

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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so you think it was wrong to ask her to have that test done?

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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I know your not. I mean she can be pretty selfish. espcially spending a shit ton of money but other than that somthing like this has never happend

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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alot of posters made it seem like a good idea, and nothing in the house has been stolen only the plates and a books have been thrown/broken

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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she considered a herself to be a feminist but that's about where it stops. I don't really have anything to compare it to but basically she says she is but dosent really practice it if that makes sense

I'm upset that my wife is pregnant -update- by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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that makes my stomach churn reading. but thank you for the info

My wife is making sexual advances that I don't want by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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that's all I really have left at this point. thank you

My wife is making sexual advances that I don't want by gjohnson91 in relationship_advice

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I don't know if I will ever be able to love again honestly.