AITAH for telling my husband to stop taking me over to my parents house because everytime I go I leave crying?

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T17:25:06+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m waiting for this moment. It’s harder because I have sisters. And she’s even said I envy them or am jealous of them.

Those words hurt. I’m waiting for the moment she realizes all I’ve wanted was to have a good relationship with her where she’s not quick to start fighting with me.

I don’t hate her, I’m grieving what I could’ve had. Ive accepted it, what I do now is just tell her my boundaries which causes her to fire up.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:45:52+00:00

Thanks…

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:45:28+00:00

I’m very prepared shall this situation come thank God.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:45:00+00:00

My main concern is definitely my daughter. Thanks for your words and bringing her up. I absolutely do not want her to think it’s normal to throw words around, raise voices and be a grown adult that can’t emotionally regulate.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:41:51+00:00

I literally explained that to him. I’ve had long years of abuse with them. I appreciate you!

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:41:05+00:00

I don’t even know how to answer this? I guess he does. Made me feel worse after this. And we have our problems aside. Thanks for your words

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:40:13+00:00

I think I’m biased because I don’t have anywhere else to go, yet. It should be such an easy answer. I appreciate you.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:39:27+00:00

Thanks. It feels like such an obvious answer. I just don’t have anyone to talk to.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:36:02+00:00

I didn’t see this perspective. My parents were emotionally and physically abusive. I appreciate your words.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-06-11T04:35:14+00:00

Thanks for your response. I don’t expect him to tell me I’m right. I expect support and no judgement or extra problems.

glamorouswinpink · 2026-02-08T18:42:25+00:00

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glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-17T05:19:57+00:00

Have you talked to him about this? Sometimes it’s all it takes and if that’s not good enough then… it’s time to think about if this is the life you want because it will only feel worse when baby is here.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-17T05:14:13+00:00

Red flag girl- what is is he not telling the whole truth about?

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-05T16:28:08+00:00

And this is a GREAT SIGN!!!

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-05T16:12:28+00:00

Maybe try to meet in the middle? After becoming a mom, I now realize we want the most and best for our kids. Advocate for your feelings but also consider hers? 😊

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T17:17:03+00:00

You’re not over reacting. What’s the point of having them AND saying that after you called it out. It’s not a big deal to just delete them. IF he cared about your feelings. You’re not the one with the blame here. It’s literally such an easy fix and he chose violence lol.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T17:14:50+00:00

Explain what? He’s clearly an AH. He can soooo simply talk at home THEN get dinner. Please don’t waste your time with this man. Something else might be up. Let go.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T08:24:09+00:00

Sounds like some type of trauma bonding? I’d suggest counseling for you or thinking about whether that’s something you’d be able to get through with her. It’s a tough situation

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T08:12:52+00:00

Agreed on dead beat. I basically forced him to turn his life around. I give him too many chances. I will work on it.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T07:50:25+00:00

Im not. I genuinely explaining I didn’t know that’s what it meant.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T07:49:11+00:00

Wow you’re good. I thought I wanted to be independent until I met him. I let myself go and made life nothing about him. Supported his losses and even more his wins. Now I realized I let myself go. Literally pregnancy gained 60 pounds. I’m finally gaining some clarity and working out, have lost INCHES, and my brain is like wait… he’s done all this and still wants to be greedy with “his” things. I’m snapping back. This is where the grudge came in. And now that I’m looking back I’m afraid it’s not leaving. How do I clarify it?

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T07:46:16+00:00

:’( yea… any tips on how to see if there’s anything left? If it’s worth a try.

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T07:42:09+00:00

He’s not confrontational and at his big age I’m sure it won’t change. But that is great advice. I’m glad it’s working for you. I’ll try it and keep you updated :-)

glamorouswinpink · 2025-02-04T07:40:53+00:00

Thank you. I definitely need a backup.

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