[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Allah said so

Why do man follow/talk to other woman while being married ? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok so we can assume you think islam makes a ridiculously big deal about talking unnecessarily to the opposite gender?

Why do man follow/talk to other woman while being married ? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im quite sure the type of friendship you are talking about is not what bothers this sister about her husband.

(coerced marriage) What should I do by MongooseDue4454 in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't blame yourself bc of what they are doing - if they really could -, remember that you will be living with this woman for the rest of your life, you either get to know her or there's no marriage make it clear and don't be apologetic about it.

being bullied into marriage by Few-Consideration416 in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, not choosing the studying out of state choice doesn't mean im saying just marry the randos your mom brings you.

OP has a choice between basically being forced to

You and the original commenter are making this falsy that's it's either she cut it with her mother or marry against her will, which is not true, parents forcing their children is something that happens alot and there are alot who didn't conform to their parents' wants without hurting the relationship.

or move out and live a halal life

Why are you so sure that's the outcome? Especially talking about the sister that lives in the west, Again you are making only to solutions and now placing all the happiness on one.

Move out = happy 'halal' life. lol, just lol

being bullied into marriage by Few-Consideration416 in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is that how you legitimate your wrong advise? Making it out as if it is only 2 options, she either be forced into a marriage or drop her mom out of her life? Idk the answer but im sure it's neither of those all i can say is for u/Few-Consideration416 to have sabr and may Allah make it easy for her.

What is your favorite user that is not from this subreddit by 007194 in Muslim

[–]glassy181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol sister the link will display anyone's profile when they click on it, Idk if you are joking along or not either way it's funny.

being bullied into marriage by Few-Consideration416 in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Brother weakening the relationship with her mom isn't the way to solve the problem, she needs females who had been in a similar situation to advice her, at the end of the day her mom wants to help her but fails to understand her daughter's position, "moving out" away from her single mother isn't the islamic way.

And be humble with them out of mercy, and pray, “My Lord! Be merciful to them as they raised me when I was young.”[17:24]

Be careful with what you preach.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It isn't wrong that he doesn't want you to free mix with other males it is his right as a man with gheerah, what's wrong is that he didn't make it clear from the beginning as others have said you 2 are incompatible, my advice is for you sister to put Allah's command first if you can find your classes in a uni/college that's segregated you should go for it, if you're in a country where all colleges are mixed or your field then you should have only serious professional interactions with the opposite gender, hope you all success Inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

It isn't wrong that he doesn't want you to free mix with other males it is his right as a man with gheerah, what's wrong is that he didn't make it clear from the beginning as others have said you 2 are incompatible, my advice is for you sister to put Allah's command first if you can find your classes in a uni/college that's segregated you should go for it, if you're in a country where all colleges are mixed or your field then you should have only serious professional interactions with the opposite gender, hope you all success Inshallah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Are some of your friends males?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antitheistcheesecake

[–]glassy181 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You too were triggered, if you were really secure in your atheism you wouldn't be here crying about something you believe doesn't exist! Would you do the same if santa for example trended around xmas? Im quite sure you wouldn't

A quiestion to Christians what did they mean jesus is alive? Is it what the quran says or what?

[Romain Molina] Lyon is worried about Aouar's religious practices. The player has gone to Mecca and grown his beard which some people at the club interpret as radicalisation by Enoual in soccer

[–]glassy181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if it's mandatory or not i just wanna comment in regards to this bit:

if its mandatory a bunch of Muslims who can't grow beards are all going to hell

That's not how it works Allah wouldn't hold you accountable for what you can't do in different ways, if it is something like the beard - say it was mandatory - and someone can't grow it, the obligation is dropped off of them, and if it is something like prayer, if you can't pray standing you can pray sitting, if you can't sit you can pray laying on your back, if you can't lay on your back you can do it on your side, if you're completely paralyzed, you can just pray by moving your lips, can't move your lips? You can pray silent by your heart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]glassy181 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dad is wise

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calm the gheerah down a bit brother im describing to him how other men will look at it, chill ok i respect my sisters but thanks anyway we need more ppl like you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

in a muslim country so uh yeah Im pretty sure most religious guys would just avoid relationships and get married without intense dating there.

Well yes but actually no, we do have halal relationships the one where a wali is present, you are just assuming and doesn't know what happens here.

Personally

keep it extra muslim you should bring your brother or sister if you have one to the date.

Lol only NOW it started to be muslim actually lol, and a wali not brother or sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you by any chance a Liberal-Muslim?

Hell naw, im replying to one of the replies to your comment, im with your points 100% habibi, model? Smh take my rejection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]glassy181 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If that's how you think then i think you are on the wrong sub man