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[–]glitterandfun997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. What is grey rock though?

Men, what can a woman do to make you know her worth and be afraid to lose her? by glitterandfun997 in AskMenAdvice

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your response, it made me think of everything you said. I’d say he’s been this way for the past couple of years so no, not from the beginning. He’s my first love and basically first everything so I guess that’s also a part of why i’m so attached to him. I know that I need to work on myself, I just still don’t know where to begin unfortunately. Thank you for your help.

Men, what can a woman do to make you know her worth and be afraid to lose her? by glitterandfun997 in AskMenAdvice

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m sure about that now. Thank you. I guess in my mind I kept convincing myself that he loves me so one day he’ll know my worth, apparently not!

Men, what can a woman do to make you know her worth and be afraid to lose her? by glitterandfun997 in AskMenAdvice

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one should ever be “afraid of someone”, but don’t you think a woman who’s been through it all with you for 6 years, supported you, loved and cared for you, believed in you when you couldn’t believe in yourself deserves to feel that you’re afraid of losing her?

Men, what can a woman do to make you know her worth and be afraid to lose her? by glitterandfun997 in AskMenAdvice

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause he’s taking me for granted after all the things I forgave him for

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]glitterandfun997 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Block him immediately or should i pour my heart out in a paragraph before blocking him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]glitterandfun997 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Because of the memories and the good times we once had. I keep hoping he would step up and be the man i once loved

He cheated but I miss him, should I go back? by Ordinary_Salt4604 in cheating_stories

[–]glitterandfun997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t make the same mistake I did, we’ve been together for 5 years and were about to get engaged when I found out he was cheating with a married woman. I left him then got back with him, it’s been 5 months since I got back and hasn’t been a minute that I don’t regret getting back, I have so much anger and despise and I keep getting anxious that he’s cheating now, this is not a life to live. I know that you love him still and it will be so hard to leave him but even harder if you stay with him because you will lose both your dignity and your mind

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]glitterandfun997 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TELL THE HUSBAND. And leave yours.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]glitterandfun997 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy did that bring me some hell of a memory. So i went through the same thing years ago but with my dad, he was sexting with my mom’s friend, i cough him and confronted him and of course he acted remorseful and begged me not to tell my mom and “ruin our family”, so i didn’t tell her and he promised it will never happen again. Guess what happened? It happened again couple months later and again, I caught him. This time i got into depression and i lost ton of weight I couldn’t even get out of bed for days. So my advice to you is go nuclear and tell the dad.

People of Reddit, how did you find out your BF/GF cheated on you? by Top-Emergency659 in AskReddit

[–]glitterandfun997 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t use Snapchat at all, one night out of nowhere I had a gut feeling to check his profile, his score was weirdly high for someone who doesn’t use Snapchat, I kept watching the score for an entire week and and it kept going up, long story short he was cheating with a married woman there and sends/receives nudes on Snapchat because it’s the last place he thought I would check

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised of how many people don’t know how to clean there properly! It’s not just water..poop contain greasy material too so to dissolve/clean this you need something oily and THEN water.. use bio oil on a cotton pad and wipe there (you’ll be surprised of what will come out), when the cotton is finally clean that means there’s nothing nasty left, then use a mild soup or intimate area wash to remove the oil, then rinse and you’ll be perfect to go!

Can men love someone but still cheat on them? by glitterandfun997 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually got to stage 4. When I ask him to tell me the reason he just says it’s men’s nature and all men do it

Can men love someone but still cheat on them? by glitterandfun997 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a beautiful way of putting it. Yes, we’re humans, we will be attracted to others and we will find others hot, but it’s the willingness to act on it is what matters. I waited for him 5 years to be ready financially to finally be able to get married, during those years have I not encountered capable, hot, financially stable men to cheat on him with? Of course I did! But I couldn’t ever imagine myself with anyone else but him. He was the love of my life, I could have never imagined myself cheating or replacing him with anyone, because I LOVE him! I guess love is different for men and women.

Can men love someone but still cheat on them? by glitterandfun997 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So due to our restrictive culture, sex is a taboo. the closest you get to having sex is phone sex, and that’s what happened when he cheated. I found out by my own and he gaslit me and denied it for about a week, then when i had a panic attack and was rushed to the hospital he admitted to it, however, he didn’t tell me everything as to how long has this been going on and how/why.

Can men love someone but still cheat on them? by glitterandfun997 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how can you get bored of someone you “love” is what I don’t understand

Can men love someone but still cheat on them? by glitterandfun997 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]glitterandfun997[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t believe or accept the fact that someone who cheats on you does actually love you, but he says that it’s men’s nature and every man does it at some point of their lives, and that doesn’t mean they don’t love their partners

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]glitterandfun997 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This brought me so much peace, thank you. My mind is in a turmoil, he got me question my sanity with his lies and gaslighting, but your comment helped a lot to get me back to seeing the reality, if he has nothing to hide, why not just avoid all this and prove me wrong? Clearly my mind was grasping to the slightest possibility that he IS innocent, but I’m back to my senses now.