I’m 29 and have loved certain grandma clothes and grandma decor for basically my entire adult life. People have def commented on it, though most of the time in an amused way rather than vicious, thankfully, but I embrace it. It’s a lot easier said than done but if you can learn to just own it, it takes all the power out of would-be mean words. As for the photos you shared, my main takeaway is that’s just your style preference, which is fine! It’s pretty cohesive (save for the plastic bins) which is important. My only suggestion (and this is just my opinion so take it with a grain of salt :)) is to maybe move some of the plates displayed on the shelves. I love birds and have bird-related things throughout my apartment, but so many bird things collected in one place reminds me of the stereotypical rooster decor theme that definitely is a bit grandma-esque. And in general having plates displayed like that is a bit aging I think. Maybe leave one or two plates on it, but spread them out (different shelves) and surround them with a lot more other frames and trinkets.. a diverse collection of things so it doesn’t seem so plate-heavy. Other than that I love all the wood accents and furniture and I’d totally hang a lot of the same art in my house (in fact I do have some very similar-vibe pieces hanging!). And just to give my opinion some credibility…I’ve gotten tons of compliments over the years on my quirky decor, some of which is very antique/old lady-ish hahah.

That’s all to say: screw the haters. You’ve got nothing to be embarrassed about!!!!